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AgapeDEW at aol.com
AgapeDEW at aol.com
Sun Jun 14 23:51:33 UTC 2009
Oh Laura..I do wish I was near you. You and I would go on a wheelchair
field trip and I guarantee you come home two hours later feeling more
confident. It does not happen overnight and you need a good 3-6 months and much
exposure to different buildings and situations to get around. And truly,
you could fall now on your own without the wheelchair. At least with
wheelchair..you are closer to the ground. Also, we actually tested this Jazzy
chair and went down over a hill (my mobility specialist did it to see how
stable the chair is about tipping over) and she was at a pretty steep slant and
it did NOT tip. Now..getting stuck..I am the queen at getting that chair
stuck places. Like I said...John Deere needs to invent some new wheels for
me lol. My son who is 15 jokes he is going to charge me "wrecker fees"
for getting me unstuck from our front yard after it just rained lol. I think
the trick is mobility training and I heard (just a rumor) that the
government has cut mobility training as part of a service. I LOVEEEEEEEEd my
mobility specialist...she actually pulled me out of bed some days I didn't want
to go!! ha ha. I hope you will try again in an open space...deb
In a message dated 6/14/2009 6:05:06 P.M. Central Daylight Time,
lauraeaves at yahoo.com writes:
Wow, Holly and Agape, your mail makes me count my blessings. I still have
balance, but a severe to profound hearing loss in both ears. My vision is
now down to seeing only light and bright colors, and that out of the right
corner of the right eye, and I am confined to a manual chair due to
orthopedic problems -- but I still feel blessed. Negativity is poison --
not just unpleasant for people to deal with, but eroding the negative
person
him/herself.
Good luck with the power chair. I confess I'm afraid of them. I had a
sighted friend in college who was in a power chair and accidently went off
the side of a curb. She had to be scooped up from the street and xrayed
for
injuries. She didn't have the brittle bone problem I have -- if I did
that
with a chair it would be a major catastrophy.
I did try a power chair for a week, and liked it, but the dangers weren't
worth it to me -- not to mention to damage to my walls and
furniture...*smile*
Anyway, good luck and happy rolling!
--le
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Sent: Sunday, June 14, 2009 4:58 PM
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Holly,
I am especially interested in blind mobility because I was a nurse and am
studying to become a rehab specialist. I myself had to struggle with
mobility issues that actually depressed me enough I was staying in bed way
too
much.
I am not real familiar with your condition although you have explained that
you are totally blind and have hearing lose also. It sounds like your
gait (walking) has been compromised by your disease also. I guess I would
like to know if this disease is progressive and will your walking and
stability get worse??? How much hearing loss have you experienced?
I have MS/a back injury from previous car accident/and am legally blind (I
see shadows from the left eye so that is a help-sometimes.... When one eye
can see even just a bit...it causes a perception problem (that is another
whole story) and I think something is further then it is and end up
hitting
a doorway or my finger.) My conditions might progress so I prepared
myself
for no vision at all. I used a blindfold and that was actually easier to
mobilate.
I decided in 2005, that I needed to stop using all my energy staying
upright. My kids and grand kids always saw me walking in an "ape-like
walk"
using a cane with a grim face trying to survive the pain of walking. By
the
time, I got to my destination, I had to take a pain pill and was miserable
for any event in my life. It was my best decision to get electric
mobility.
Let me give you some tips I learned.
1. Hand controls: You use your left or right hand to control the knobs.
It is wise to first use the "turtle setting" of the chair when first
learning to use your chair. Always keep your hand above the controls and
not
hanging off the side or you will break a finger or hurt your hand if you
do
hit the molding, etc. going through a doorway. Size up your doorways.
You
will need at LEAST 35 inches for doorways and floor space with a Jazzy
electric chair to clear the arm rests which is its widest part.
Always turn the control to off when you stop or when getting in and out
of the chair. This is VERY important fact to learn. If you leave the
chair
on, and am pivoting, you can hit controller and your chair will either run
into you or knock something flying while you are trying to pivot out of
the chair. TRAIN that if you don't turn it off...someone scolds you lol.
2. Clear your surroundings in your home and learn your "spaces". I am
sure your family members already know that nothing is to be moved or
rearranged without telling you already but I need to reiterate that. I
was
sentimental and wanted my China closet where it was because that is full
of
my
good china and crystal but it was right next to the doorway where the
transition strip into the room makes it a rough fit through door. Of
course, I
needed to get that china closet moved, because what good would a destroyed
china closet be if I ran into it and all the crystal came tumbling out of
the
doors?
Any floor that has more then half inch change going from one room to
another, will have to have a transitional strip put down. If only under an
inch,
you can sometimes use a thick welcome carpet rectangle (some call them mud
rugs-very course material about inch thick) to help with that transition.
Transition strips can be purchased online also. Check with local agencies
for funding for house adaptation because I am on a special state program
that sends aides to my home daily and they paid for the transition strips
and its installation.
Do not crowd your paths you go regularly. For example, don't put the
family computer and chair right near your path to the kitchen because
invariably family members leave the chair out. It could end up hurting
you
if you
run into it or catch a wheel on that chair. Set your home up for success.
Clear a path that is at least 36-48 inches for you to go freely to all
places in your home. When you get your new chair, try to get a 'mobility
specialist' to work with you in an open area to learn control of the
chair.
It
does NOT come instantly. Plan on getting a few fingers hurt or ankle
bones
lol.
Make sure your children/family understand that sneakers (especially men's
bulky ones) are not to be left in middle of floor. Remove all extra
furniture but keep durable cornered ones for markers to be used with your
guide
cane. (I will talk about guide canes next.) Expect that you still will
have the occasional accidents of running over the cat's tail because they
didn't move fast enough etc. LOL you will hear that if you get em lol.
3. I use a roller tip guide cane which was purchased by the blind
association for me. I tried the ball cane and it was awkward but the
roller
tip
was perfect for me. Its about 3 inches across and turns like a steering
wheel around in front of me as I check my surroundings. Therefore, one
hand
(my right) is using the control to move forward and backward and the other
hand (a lot of wrist action-expect your arm and shoulders to hurt during
first
month of practicing.) is used to hold the cane
in a reverse grip with the thumb up. You use your wrist to move the cane
back and forth. Learn to keep the roller tip
on the ground at all times. This roller tip is "clearing" you for access
to the new area in front of you. You will soon learn that it will show
you
when you get to a new intersection in a building and even on a busy street
will tell you when sidewalk changes or curb is ahead. It has saved me
many falls down a stairwell etc. I kind of think of my guide cane as a
magic
wand to open up my world to me again. I went everywhere with my mobility
specialist to learn different challenges. In the hospital, I learned that
revolving doors should be avoided by blind wheelchair users from my
mobility
specialist. I would not take that as a "NO NO" so I learned to use the
slow down button on the revolving door and go through them anyway because
our
major hospital has it as the entrance where my hubby was always there as a
patient.
The guide cane will make a half circle in front of you at all times staying
on the ground. Think of windshield wipers but completely flat on ground
in front of you. Practice this in an open area such as a church, school
or
hospital.
4. Using your other senses. This is one thing that concerns me when you
said you are losing your hearing also. I use my hearing a great deal
when
transporting myself. I listen for an upcoming person in a hall at the
hospital. I listen for the shoes of someone I am following in a public
place.
(I do have two family members trained as my guide person by the way. This
is where a guide dog might come in handy for you. He could be your
"ears'.) I listen constantly in new area because my guide cane tells me
when I
am going from cement to a driveway. I use my cane and sound to help me
cross at a red light at a busy intersection.
I can hear my cane touch the walls and curbs. You will have to rely
solely on your hand and guide cane to seek out your "frontal" space. It is
always ok to stop the chair and get your bearings with where you are by
taking
the guide cane completely around your area. You can even take it behind
you to see how far a wall or barrier is behind you. I use my guide cane
when
backing into a
space to sit next to a regular chair in a waiting room etc.
Your familiarity with the chair will take time and practice. I can tell
you on second day I was in tears because I am a type "A" personality that
likes to do things perfectly. But now, I have conquered airports, school
auditoriums, hospitals, and very busy intersections on public streets.
If your healthcare provider is concerned you will lose your muscle tone
etc., that is an old school idea. I do my exercises in bed still (I can
do
more now that I am free from pain all the time.) and I have great upper
core
strength because I went to physical therapy to get exercises to do in the
wheelchair. I am constantly busy now in the wheelchair. My kitchen sink
and stove have no cupboard doors or wood frame so I can pull my wheelchair
right under to get access to do dishes and cook. I use my table for my
prep
area because it is perfect size for chopping, etc. If I ever get rich, I
will have a counter built right near sink that will be lower for me to use
as my prep area or a center island low enough for me with a sink in it.
My
church has been so great to me. They have built ramp, redid the kitchen,
widened doors and even put a new Pergo laminated floor in my living room
because my wheels were spinning on the thick carpeting.
What floors do you have in your home, by the way?
I have given you much to think about but truly...I love my electric Jazzy
chair. Now I am working on more storage issues on the chair lol. I want
feedbags or a special cover that is pretty and comfortable.
In closing, I will tell you that getting a power chair is the best thing I
could do to be the best mother that I can be. I now sit up proudly when
entering my son's school. I am smiling instead of being in extreme pain.
I
am using that energy to engage in my child's world and community.
I personally feel more empowered in the electric wheelchair then having to
almost crawl into a public building.
I do have struggles because its not a perfect world and many things are not
handicap accessible yet. (Many bleachers at son's football games are not
yet handicap accessible for example.) I work with community leaders,
building owners, school districts to see that they do not have accessible
buildings. I just feel that I am an educator and advocate for those with
physical and mental challenges that prevent them to be all they can be.
YOU
can...and YOU will...if you put your mind to it.
By way, if you are looking at the financial part of the purchase of chair,
you only need a doctor's order to get the electric wheelchair. You then
take the doctor's order to the medical supply store and they will help
adapt
the chair best for you. DO NOT buy a chair without being able to try it.
Medicare pays for most of the chair costs and if you have medicaid, I
believe they pick up the difference. If not, and you don't have the 20%
funds,
look at different agencies to help you. You need to convince your doctor
that you NEED an electric wheelchair. I had to convince my neurologist
that it would be better for me to sit to travel around my community and
home.
I had fell so much, he had ordered a Life Line (button that contacts
emergency personnel I have emergency) for me to wear because I laid one
day
til
my son came home in a long walk-in closet that was very hot. Since,
getting the chair three years ago, I have not fell once. (I have hurt my
ankle
because I put down my foot between petal and floor which is another big NO
NO, I didn't mention.) But an ankle sprain is much better then a broken
hip
or concussion lol. NOW, my neurologist recommends electric mobility for
his patients because he has seen how totally "freeing" it was for me to go
from pain to GAIN by using electric mobility. An electric wheelchair
improves the quality of life in people that have limited mobility due to
injury
or disease.
Good luck, and do try to find a mobility specialist to assist you in
getting your chair and teaching you to use it. The blind association in
your
are
should have access to a mobility specialist.
MY LAST advice is to ENJOY LIFE AS IT IS...because its YOUR life and your
memories you are making new memories with your little guy. Laugh at
yourself when you run into a wall. If you goof and spill something,
figure
out
what could of been done to avoid that incident. Keep things organized.
You
will be surprised what all you can do from that chair. I even garden but
my wheels get stuck..I am gonna ask the wheelchair company to come out
with
a John Deere wheels for on my Jazzy! HA HA.
Take every day as a Blessing! Best wishes! Keep me posted. deb
In a message dated 6/13/2009 11:40:42 P.M. Central Daylight Time,
mommaholly at gmail.com writes:
Hello everyone. I was on this list once before, but got off of it for
whatever reason. Now I am back with more questions and needing support.
I am totally blind and while I was pregnant with my son 2 years ago I
started losing my hearing. Now I have lost one hear completely and the
other ear mostly. Since the tuor that I have is an acoustic neuroma on
the 8th nerve which controls not only hearing, but also balance, well
I'm vertually drunk all day every day.
With each day that passes my balance get worse and worse. I have fallen
countless times. I am afraid that oone of these day I'm going to fall
and break my nec or something very very dangerous. Right now I live in
Asheville, NC which is in the mountains. That is like even worse with
the balance. Right now I use a walker, but it still can't make me catch
myself whenever I'm already falling. My vistibular system is wack.
So I'm leaning more to a power chair. I have tumors in my spine and
don't think I would be strong enough to push myself, especially up all
these sloping sidewalks, driveways, etc of the mountains of Asheville.
I am going to be moving back to Arkansas, flat land, soon though just
because these mountains are killing me. I'm afraid to go out of my
house alone afraid of falling. I always feel like crying when I go out.
It's so hard and I have to concentrate so intently not to lose my
balance and thinking about it only make the balance worse and I have to
go sooooo slow.
So I think really a chair would be best for me. I just am suck because
balance is terrible now, but being in a chair, will that make it worse?
My right leg is already weak. The quads are basically non existant and
PT never could get it back. There's nerve damage and really not way to
get it back. I have nothing to lock my knees so it can buckle very
easily. And since that leg is not strong I have trouble keepingthe
balance, then throw in all the other vistibular problems.
How does mobility in a chair work? Is it hard? One thing I was
thinkingabout, I know I'm paranoid. I know there are seat belts, but
what if the chair tips overand you're strapped in then that heavy chairs
falls on you. What would you do? How likely is it to tip? Have any of
you tipped it?
Also what would be the best type of chair to get considering I'm blind
and don't have my own car to adapt and also won't have public
transportation in Arkansas to call a Van and make surethey have a lift
and those little wheel locks like paratranset. Would a folding
powerchair be good? Do any of you have one of those?
Help, I'm full of question. Smiles.
Holly
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