[blindkid] Guide dogs for twelve year olds?

Heather craney07 at rochester.rr.com
Wed Jan 20 18:30:25 UTC 2010


That's a nice sentament, Really, it is.  but that is the point, they can't 
handel the responsibilities.  Even if they accademically understand the 
ramifications, they, not their parents, they, personally, cannot take the 
dog to the vet by them self, they can not afford the dog's food, vet care, 
medications, training equipment, etc, by them self.  The dog would have to 
be owned exclusively by and handeled exclusively by the blind pre-teen, not 
by the parent, and that simply would not happen in ninety five percent of 
homes.  If the child forgot to feed the dog, the parents would just yell at 
their kid and then do it for them.  They wouldn't let the dog go hungry, and 
they certainly wouldn't call the school and be honest and admit that their 
child was not always remembering to feed the dog and reccomend that it be 
taken away.  If the dog was sick, the parent would take the dog to the vet 
and would never let the child miss school to go with the dog to the vet, and 
that is what has to happen.  A twelve year old does not have the savvey or 
the clout to realize that vets, doctors, professionals, I.E. professional 
adults don't always know everything.  A twelve year old would never have the 
confidence or the social position to argue with a vet who wants to give a 
vaccine, when a tyder would sufice.  .  If someone is still young enough to 
be told to go to their room, then they are not old enough to handel a dog. 
What if the child is grounded for doing something they should not?  That dog 
still needs to be walked and more importantly, worked, and the parents 
cannot walk, let alone work the dog for their child.  The whole thing that 
makes guide dogs great for independence is for people who take the city bus 
every day, the subway, walk several blocks, make dangerous street crossings, 
traverse complex routes.  Twelve year olds, unless they live in downtown 
Manhattan do not have those needs for a dog.  For instance, twelve-year-olds 
take school busses, which pick up within a block of their house, and this is 
simply not enough work for a guide dog, walking one block twice a day. 
Walking around one school building all day, as in middle school or junior 
high is not acceptable either.  Now, a college student on a large campus is 
a whole different thing.  Even some blind adults do not have challenging 
enough travel needs to warrent getting a guide dog.  I am all for fostering 
independence in young people with disabilities, but not at the expense of 
the dogs, or the rest of the guide dog using community.  All it will take is 
a few twelve and thirteen year olds that can't handel their dogs in public, 
who might jump up on someone, get into it with another dog on the street, 
nip at a person's pant leg, for the reputation of successful guide dog teams 
to be affected by association.  Any guide dog could jump on someone, bite 
someone, grab food off of a restaurant table, knock over a display of china 
in a store.  They are dogs after all.  What keeps this from happening is 
good socialization, good training and good maintainence of that training, 
which requires a great deal of consistancy, aptitude and maturity.  Think 
about an access issue.  It is difficult for some blind adults to deal with a 
cabbie or a restaurant owner who doesn't want their dog in their cab or 
their place of business.  How is a twelve year old going to cope with this? 
What adult, who is causing the access issue is going to take a tween 
seriously?  Pre-teens can still be independent, but independent at the level 
of their sighted, pre-teen counter-parts, not independent on the level of 
blind and sighted adults.  Would you give a car to a twelve year old?  A car 
can be dangerous, a car requires maturity and responsibility, a car is a 
privilage, not a right, just as is a guide dog.  Just some food for thought.
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Albert J Rizzi" <albert at myblindspot.org>
To: "'NFBnet Blind Kid Mailing List,(for parents of blind children)'" 
<blindkid at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, January 20, 2010 10:09 AM
Subject: Re: [blindkid] Guide dogs for twelve year olds?


Here here!  Wy set the bar low when in fact a child of 12 years or 13 years
has the capacity and maturity to handle the responsibility? Isn't it our
responsibility  to give all children those tools they need based upon their
individual abilities to achieve all things possible in their lives. I do not
see the reason for nor the reluctance  to allow any teenager an opportunity
to exercise their choice for mobility and that it include a guide dog.

Albert J. Rizzi, M.Ed.
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-----Original Message-----
From: blindkid-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindkid-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Doreen Frappier
Sent: Wednesday, January 20, 2010 9:40 AM
To: (for parents of blind children)NFBnet Blind Kid Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blindkid] Guide dogs for twelve year olds?

I am not opposed to having responsible 12 year olds own and care for a guide
dog. I believe that children mature at different rates. For example, 4-H
children own and care for animals (on their own) at very young ages. They
are responsible for feeding and caring for that animal. One of my children,
(sighted) is 13, and has been the sole trainer of a dog since she was 9
years old. She has won many awards and competitions with her dog, including
adult dog shows. She is responsible for feeding and caring for that dog.
When the dog gets her check ups at the vet, she comes to the vets office.
It's true, a young person can not take care of the expenses of a guide dog,
but I am all for training teaching blind children to be independent as early
as possible. I think each situation is different. I am not aware of
everything that goes into caring for and owning a guide dog, but I think
some children are capable and should not be excluded because of
 age.

Doreen

--- On Wed, 1/20/10, Heather <craney07 at rochester.rr.com> wrote:

From: Heather <craney07 at rochester.rr.com>
Subject: [blindkid] Guide dogs for twelve year olds?
To: "NFBnet Blind Kid Mailing List, (for parents of blind children)"
<blindkid at nfbnet.org>
Date: Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 7:22 AM

I just wanted to get some feedback on this from some parents of blind
children and teens. I, personally, was absolutely apalled to hear that a
local guide dog school, not mentioning names *coughs* Freedom guide Dogs
*Coughs* has preposed a program to place guide dogs with twelve year olds.
All of the other schools in the US accept teens no younger than sixteen or
eighteen years of age, depending on the school, but twelve? I am happy to
note that at present, no O and M instructors, parents or twelve year olds
have contacted the school to enquire about this program, but I am dreading
the day. This makes a mockery of those exceptional blind teens who are, at
sixteen or seventeen, responsible enough, committed enough and have
demanding enough schedules to properly care for, utalize and actually need a
guide dog. At what age would you consider supporting your teen in
researching guide dog schools? At what age would you support them actually
 submitting applications? How old would you want your teen to be before
actually being placed with a guide dog? Do you think that you would have
the blunt honesty to deny your support of your child getting a dog guide, if
they were not emotionally, mentally, etc capable of utalizing a guide dog,
at that time in their life? Do you think that you could restrain yourself
from taking care of the dog, interacting with the dog, or doing things that
would undermine the ownership of the dog by your blind teen, acknowledging
their sole ownership and responsibility for the dog, even if you, as their
mother or father still have all other rule-making power in the house-hold?
Finally, would you ever, honestly let your twelve year old apply for a guide
dog? I just felt this should be brought to the list's attention. Just me
personally, I would not encourage my blind teen to start researching guide
dog schools until age fourteen or fifteen, and I would not
 allow them to apply to schools until they were at least fifteen, and that
is assuming that they are emotionally ready to deal with the demands of a
guide dog, such as handeling an emergency vet situation, mentally able to
care for the dog, such as, researching and selecting safe toys, effective
medications and appropriate foods, mature enough to deal with the social
implications, such as access issues, and that they actually had a need, not
just a want for a guide dog, due to a challenging travel area or complex and
demanding schedule of activities and classes. Please share your thoughts.
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