[Blindtlk] Grocery shopping, and transportation questions

Wed Oct 13 00:48:30 UTC 2010

Dear Firoz,

Something you might consider is advertising your knowledge of chemistry and 
work as a tutor to high school and college students who need a little help 
in their classes.  Even volenteering your skills at a local high school 
might help you to gain some friends and maybe get your foot in the door.
If you need some help with training or equipment, the California State 
Division of Blind Services should help you get what ever you need to hold 
and do a job.

You will have to find a niche for yourself and doing anything you can to 
make new friends and influence people to your favor is what is needed.
Just keep trying until you are successful.
We have a saying," you are not licked until you quit and you don't quit 
until you are licked.
----- Original Message

David Evans, NFBF and GD Jack. ----- 
From: "Kerri Kosten" <kerrik2006 at gmail.com>
To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Tuesday, October 12, 2010 3:28 PM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Grocery shopping, and transportation questions

> Hi:
>
> First, to Fearez...have you thought about contacting the National
> Federation of The Blind in California? They should be able to help
> lots! I want to say the president of California is Mary Willows but I
> don't have contact info for her...just have heard her name. There may
> be an NFB chapter in San Jose, CA as well you could get help/support
> from. Blindness should not be a stopping factor in doing what you want
> in your life!
>
> To David thanks for the info. I did not realize this about the
> paratransit. I will have to call again and be more assertive with
> them.
>
> I do have another question though. Here in town we have an area with
> sevral businesses called University Town Center. I initially was under
> the assumption it was a strip mall and everything could be walked to.
> However, it is very inaccessible. The buildings are very spread out
> and to get from one to the other you have to either drive
>
> On 10/10/10, firoz <firojjee at gmail.com> wrote:
>> thanks david
>>
>> i am from india and master degree holder in chemistry and education also,
>> all these from india and that time i was partial .
>>
>> i used to teach chemistry to grade 11 and 12 level  now here i want to do
>> any time of job which a total blind person can do i am open for any job
>> since i am in dire need of earnings.
>>
>> next week i am going to fill up the form for department of rehabilitation
>> ,only contact  i know
>>
>> i am with my cousin's place with my wife at san jose ca.
>>
>> i am very happy to get answer from you since i do not have any v i 
>> friends
>> here
>>
>> back in india i was very active and had full orientation about the roads 
>> but
>> here situation is different  i feel lonely and without any type of 
>> earnings
>> i feel help less
>>
>> thanks
>>
>> firoz
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "David Evans" <drevans at bellsouth.net>
>> To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Sunday, October 10, 2010 2:46 PM
>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Grocery shopping, and transportation questions
>>
>>
>>> Dear firoz,
>>>
>>> Here in the States, there is a Federal Law for Civil rights for the
>>> Disabled called (ADA) the American's With Disabilities Act.
>>> It coversEmployment, Physical Access to buildings, services and sets
>>> standards for access. it also covers communication and transportation 
>>> too.
>>> Under the ADA, it mandates that anywhere you have a Fixed bus Route
>>> system, that operates on designed routes and times, you must also 
>>> provide
>>> a complimentary Para-Transit service that mirrors that bus service, for
>>> disabled people who, because of disability or barriers in the 
>>> environment,
>>>
>>> that prevent them from accessing and using the fixed route bus system.
>>> In other words, they provide a van service that will pick the disabled 
>>> up
>>> an transport them where they need to go and bring them back.
>>> You have to apply for this kind of service and it totally depends upon
>>> your ability to access and use the fixed route bus system or not.
>>> The vans run the same hours of service as the fixed route bus and are 
>>> not
>>> required to travel more than 3/4 TH of a mile off the fixed bus route to
>>> pick people up or drop them off.  There are some areas where special 
>>> zones
>>>
>>> are set up that serve an entire area, regardless of the 3/4 TH mile 
>>> rule,
>>> such as here in Palm Beach County Florida, but most places do not do 
>>> this.
>>> Some areas operate 5 AM to 6 PM and some other places have service that
>>> runs around the clock, day and night.
>>> You just have to educate yourself and ask questions.
>>> As for other people who have come here from other countries and made it,
>>> the Country is full of them.  Every one here has their origins somewhere
>>> else.
>>> I do know people, but I can not send their names or e-mail addresses
>>> without their permission.
>>> Where are you from anyway.  That might be helpful to know?  What is it
>>> that you want to do or be?
>>>
>>> David Evans, NFBF and GD Jack.
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>> From: "firoz" <firojjee at gmail.com>
>>> To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
>>> Sent: Friday, October 08, 2010 10:39 PM
>>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Grocery shopping, and transportation questions
>>>
>>>
>>>> what is the difference between bus and pera transit system
>>>>
>>>> i am new to america so out of curiosity i am asking
>>>>
>>>> still i have not gone out either by bus or by cab
>>>>
>>>> by the way is there any person who after blindness came here to america
>>>> and got settled?
>>>>
>>>> please write to me off the list to my e mail i.d. . i do have lot of
>>>> questions  in my mind
>>>>
>>>> firoz
>>>>
>>>> firojjee at gmail.com
>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>> From: "Anjelina" <anjelinac26 at gmail.com>
>>>> To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
>>>> Sent: Friday, October 08, 2010 6:49 PM
>>>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Grocery shopping, and transportation questions
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>>I wouldn't compare your situation to other blind people; you have to do
>>>>>what's best for *you*. Try the bus system, try the cabs to get to the
>>>>>store but $5 is not at all unreasonable for a cab. Most cabs charge you 
>>>>>a
>>>>>
>>>>>$2 fee just to sit in the cab and than the additional fees for mileage
>>>>>are added on. This is just my opinion, but whatever gets you out of the
>>>>>house and running your own errands is a step in the right direction
>>>>>whether if it's a cab the first few times while you traverse the
>>>>>bus/paratransit system. Wal-Mart, and Amazon can deliver nonperishable
>>>>>groceries and you can buy an insolated reusable bag for colds and 
>>>>>frozen
>>>>>items when traveling to the store. These bags are environmentally
>>>>>friendly, more sturdy and you can pack a lot more in them than in the
>>>>>flimsy plastic bags
>>>>> Just my thoughts
>>>>>
>>>>> Anjelina
>>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>>> From: "Kerri Kosten" <kerrik2006 at gmail.com>
>>>>> To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
>>>>> Sent: Friday, October 08, 2010 8:33 PM
>>>>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Grocery shopping, and transportation questions
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>> Hi All!
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I wanted to reply to answer a few questions.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Thanks for the suggestions...I'll have to look into either one of
>>>>>> those carts or a reusable bag.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> But, I just checked on both Peapod.com and Safeway.com and neither
>>>>>> delivers to my area. I will call Kroger and ask them but I kind of
>>>>>> doubt it as I didn't see anything on their website about it. We also
>>>>>> have Walmart and Giant Eagle but I don't think either of those
>>>>>> delivers either.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I keep meaning to call the bus about paratransit or dial a ride
>>>>>> service but something tells me that if they had it I would've known
>>>>>> about it already as I've made contact with the bus before about other
>>>>>> matters and they never mentioned it.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I understand cabs go by mile and time you are in the cab...I just
>>>>>> don't know whether I should just not be concerned and take cabs all
>>>>>> the time to get around or whether I need to be really concerned and
>>>>>> make an effort to take the bus. The cabs here don't have an exact
>>>>>> flat-rate but the town is small enough that $5-6 each way is what it
>>>>>> usually comes to. Of course if I make an extra stop or something it
>>>>>> goes up but that is usually for the most part what it is. I just 
>>>>>> don't
>>>>>> know whether I should be concerned or not that's all.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I use an NFB fiberglass cane and was taught how t use it at
>>>>>> convention. I have also read tons of articles about structured
>>>>>> discovery so know how to ask assistance/directions when need be. I
>>>>>> also try not to use human/sighted guide much and it has improved my
>>>>>> walking speed and cane travel skills significantly. I just want to go
>>>>>> and do more but don't know whether I need to make a real effort to
>>>>>> learn the bus or whether to just take cabs all the time and not worry
>>>>>> about it. The sighted people tell me not to worry about it but I
>>>>>> notice many blind people don't like to take cabs.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I've been told before that we don't have paratransit but I don't want
>>>>>> to say anything until I call. I wish Safeway or Peapod delivered here
>>>>>> but they don't...at least that's what the website said when I entered
>>>>>> my zipcode. There is a Kroger right across that 6 lane highway with 
>>>>>> no
>>>>>> pedestrian light so I could easily cab there but my problem is how
>>>>>> much to get in one trip and how to carry it all.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Kerri
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On 10/8/10, Cindy Handel <cindy425 at verizon.net> wrote:
>>>>>>> Kerri,
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> As far as the cost of cabs, in most places, cab companies charge a
>>>>>>> fare
>>>>>>> based on the distance they take you, as well as the time.  So, if
>>>>>>> you're
>>>>>>> going five miles and it takes 20 minutes, you might pay, let's say
>>>>>>> $10.
>>>>>>> But, another day, if you go five miles and run into traffic and it
>>>>>>> takes 30
>>>>>>> minutes, they might charge $15.  These are just examples.  So, if 
>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>> cabs
>>>>>>> have a flat rate, it sounds pretty good.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> You could learn to take the busses.  But, it would probably be wise 
>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> get
>>>>>>> some instruction before you venture out there on your own.  Do you 
>>>>>>> use
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> a
>>>>>>> cane, and have you had cane travel instruction?
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Some towns/cities have paratransit.  Often the bus company is 
>>>>>>> somehow
>>>>>>> involved in operating it.  You could ask about that.  It is more
>>>>>>> inconvenient, because you have to schedule rides ahead of time. 
>>>>>>> But,
>>>>>>> it
>>>>>>> might work to go shopping.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> When I go grocery shopping I buy what I'll need for the week.  If I
>>>>>>> need
>>>>>>> something else during the week, I have to walk to a shopping center,
>>>>>>> about
>>>>>>> 15 or 20 minutes away.  As far as carrying bags in, if there's a
>>>>>>> secure
>>>>>>> place to put your bags, so no one takes them while you're going
>>>>>>> upstairs,
>>>>>>> that would be fine.  I wouldn't get any kind of a bag, though, that
>>>>>>> would be
>>>>>>> strong enough to load down with more than you can safely carry 
>>>>>>> without
>>>>>>> hurting yourself.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Cindy
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> --------------------------------------------------
>>>>>>> From: "Kerri Kosten" <kerrik2006 at gmail.com>
>>>>>>> Sent: Friday, October 08, 2010 6:43 PM
>>>>>>> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
>>>>>>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>; "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>>> Subject: [Blindtlk] Grocery shopping, and transportation questions
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Hi All:
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I have some more questions about grocery shopping and 
>>>>>>>> transportation.
>>>>>>>> Instead of making two separate posts, I figured I'd just put all my
>>>>>>>> questions in one post...they are somewhat related to each other.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I'll start with the grocery shopping questions.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> In the apartment building I live in, there is no elevator.
>>>>>>>> Unfortunately I live on the third floor, which is up four flights 
>>>>>>>> of
>>>>>>>> steps. What is the best way to carry lots of groceries up the 
>>>>>>>> steps?
>>>>>>>> Would it be okay, when having lots of groceries to set some of the
>>>>>>>> bags on the floor in the hallway by the door, go up with as much as 
>>>>>>>> I
>>>>>>>> can carry, then come back for the rest? Is there any better way to
>>>>>>>> carry groceries than in the plastic bags the grocery bagger puts 
>>>>>>>> them
>>>>>>>> in? I've been told about burlap sacks that you can carry on your
>>>>>>>> shoulder...does this reduce the load much? I want to make this as
>>>>>>>> easy
>>>>>>>> as possible.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> How often do you usually go grocery shopping? When you go, do you
>>>>>>>> just
>>>>>>>> get the things you absolutely need, and keep the load as little as
>>>>>>>> possible or do you usually take advantage of the fact you are at 
>>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>>> store and get lots of stuff?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> My next questions are about transportation. I live in a college 
>>>>>>>> town.
>>>>>>>> I guess it's your typical college town. It's big enough to be
>>>>>>>> considered a small city or large town...we have five Krogers, four 
>>>>>>>> or
>>>>>>>> more Walmarts...tons of restaurants and bars, two malls...two movie
>>>>>>>> theaters. It isn't a major city though.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> We do have a bus system but I've never been encouraged to use it.
>>>>>>>> I've
>>>>>>>> just been expected to take cabs everywhere.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> One of the problems though is that the town is not really a walking
>>>>>>>> town...there are parts of it you can walk in but not very many. 
>>>>>>>> When
>>>>>>>> things/places are built, often pedestrian accessibility is left 
>>>>>>>> out.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> There doesn't seem to be any blind people; there is no NFB chapter.
>>>>>>>> So, naturally the majority of the people, including most of the
>>>>>>>> students drive. From what I've read on their website, the bus 
>>>>>>>> covers
>>>>>>>> many areas, but usually until only 6 o'clock, unless it's downtown
>>>>>>>> where the students are. I don't live downtown though. Because of
>>>>>>>> this,
>>>>>>>> I find myself having to take cabs almost everywhere. Cabs here are
>>>>>>>> about $5-6 each way. Is this normal for a college town? Is this
>>>>>>>> expensive for a cab?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Are my only options to either take the bus when it is available or
>>>>>>>> take
>>>>>>>> cabs?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Should I just not worry about the expense and take cabs when and
>>>>>>>> wherever?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Is learning to use the bus hard or is it as simple as calling and
>>>>>>>> asking the right questions?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>From what I can tell, from where I live, in order to take the bus
>>>>>>>> again since I'm not in the downtown student area I will have to 
>>>>>>>> take
>>>>>>>> two buses to get anywhere and it usually takes about two hours. Is
>>>>>>>> this normal for a large town/small city?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> The closest major city to me is Pittsburgh. There is a bus that 
>>>>>>>> goes
>>>>>>>> there twice. In order to take a grayhound bus, or AM track train 
>>>>>>>> you
>>>>>>>> have to somehow get to Pittsburgh. Is the bus going twice daily
>>>>>>>> reasonable?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> For those of you who live in college towns similar to this how do 
>>>>>>>> you
>>>>>>>> find a balance between taking cabs, using family and friends, and
>>>>>>>> taking the bus?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> What is the cost monthly of owning a vehicle compared to taking 
>>>>>>>> cabs
>>>>>>>> all the time? I'm sorry to ask this...I've never been told.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I guess I am just asking these questions because I want to make 
>>>>>>>> sure
>>>>>>>> I'm not getting screwed so to speak. I don't mind taking cabs, but
>>>>>>>> sometimes I feel like I'm just automatically expected to spend the
>>>>>>>> money just because...if you know what I mean by that! I've been 
>>>>>>>> told
>>>>>>>> owning a vehicle is several hundreds of dollars a month when the 
>>>>>>>> cost
>>>>>>>> of maintaenance, car payments, insurance, and gas is added up but
>>>>>>>> again these have just been from sighted people who don't take cabs.
>>>>>>>> It
>>>>>>>> seems like most other blind people I know don't take cabs unless 
>>>>>>>> they
>>>>>>>> absolutely have to and I hate having to do it all the time. In one
>>>>>>>> sense I feel like I'm being told to go ahead, don't worry about it,
>>>>>>>> owning a vehicle is expensive too...but then on the other hand so
>>>>>>>> many
>>>>>>>> blind people don't seem to like doing it. I know each town is
>>>>>>>> different...but if I want to go somewhere and it's after 6 and the
>>>>>>>> bus
>>>>>>>> doesn't go are cabs or family/friends my only options? I've never
>>>>>>>> gone
>>>>>>>> completely broke or run out of money by taking cabs but again...I
>>>>>>>> feel
>>>>>>>> as if I'm getting mixed messages and I want to make sure I'm doing
>>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>>> right/best thing. From where I live you can't walk anywhere as 
>>>>>>>> there
>>>>>>>> are several things across the street but it's not actually a street
>>>>>>>> but a major six-lane highway...so walking is out. I'm not married 
>>>>>>>> and
>>>>>>>> live alone. Do those of you who live in towns like this find
>>>>>>>> yourselves having to also take cabs more frequently than other 
>>>>>>>> blind
>>>>>>>> people? I know my questions seem a little crazy but I thought I'd 
>>>>>>>> ask
>>>>>>>> them all in one post.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Thanks so much!
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Kerri
>>>>>>>>
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