[Blindtlk] FW: Army's First Blind Active-Duty Officer

Thu Sep 23 19:50:59 UTC 2010

Let me see if I can explain why it sometimes happens this way.  I'm afraid it's got to do with the fallinness of human nature.  There are times, (I hope not too many), that we get so tired of negative portrayals of blindness that we tend at times to become very intolerant of even the slightest inaccuracies.  And, it may very well be that, in our weariness against such, we tend tl lash out at those whom we suppose ought to know better.  Perhaps I should try to be a little more specific here.  It wasn't my intention to lash out at the captain himself; rather, the reporting of his story.  But, after all, we are all human, blind or not.  What this tends to show is that we blind are also vonerable to the weaknesses of human nature, with all the failings that implies.

Sincerely,
The Constantly Barefooted Ray!!!

A Very Proud and Happy Mac User!!!

E-Mail:
rforetjr at comcast dot net
Skype Name:
barefootedray

On Sep 23, 2010, at 2:01 PM, Steve P. Deeley wrote:

I'm not happy with the way blind individuals and other disabled are portrayed as well.  A great number of non-disabled individuals are just not educated concerning what the disabled population can accomplish.  Giving negative and angry responses to articles and news features will not help the situation.   However, my question is why do people on this list have to come across so angry when responding?
Steve
----- Original Message ----- From: "Gary Wunder" <GWunder at earthlink.net>
To: "'Blind Talk Mailing List'" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2010 2:43 PM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] FW: Army's First Blind Active-Duty Officer

> I must agree with Cindy. What I want the public to hear is the good stuff on
> the theory that if they hear the good stuff my life will be freed from some
> obstacles they would otherwise put in my path. But blindness is more than
> just the good stuff. It is about feeling frustrated and learning how to deal
> with it. It's about deciding not to act out in a way which is socially
> unacceptable and at the same time not holding back our feelings so much that
> we become the stone or the rock or the island as in the Paul Simon song.
> 
> I have learned that seldom am I happy with the portrayals of blindness I see
> in the news; they always get something wrong. But perhaps we know our
> subject too well and perhaps we forget what it was like when blindness was
> foreign or different and meant more than living with a nuisance and an
> inconvenience. If we can't remember that well enough to converse with new
> people, taking the time to listen before we preach and judge and show them
> the errors in their thinking, then we lose an opportunity to make a friend
> who may later become part of our NFB family. In failing to make that friend,
> we deprive ourselves of an ally to help us change what it means to be blind,
> and we deprive a blind brother or sister of the role models who can make
> their lives fuller than they ever imagined.
> 
> We have a story to tell; it is a story of victory. In telling that story, we
> dare not forget the battle we had to fight to achieve it.
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Cindy Handel
> Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2010 1:14 PM
> To: Blind Talk Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] FW: Army's First Blind Active-Duty Officer
> 
> Well, I always thought I had a whole brain, but maybe not.
> 
> It's really doing a disservice to people who lose their sight later in life
> to pretend that they shouldn't be upset or that they'll never breakdown and
> cry, out of frustration.
> 
> This gentleman was blinded suddenly.  It would be foolish to think that he'd
> wake up, accept the loss of one of his senses and not be afraid or angry.
> Then, he goes to a training facility to start to learn what he needs to
> continue with his life.  But, this doesn't come quickly or easily, either.
> He gets disoriented in a parking lot and cries.  I'm sure he was crying
> because he was frustrated, due to his inability to find where he wanted to
> be, as well as feeling sorry for himself, because he was put in the position
> of having to learn to live all over again.
> 
> People who attend the NFB orientation centers spend nine months there,
> learning and living what they need to know, 24 hours a day.  It's not fast,
> and it's not easy.  So, why should we expect this man to wake up with the
> proper attitude toward blindness and then go through his life with a smile,
> pretending that none of this matters?
> 
> No, it's not pleasant to tell the public that it's not all sunshine and
> flowers.  But, it's the truth.  There's a lot of hard work behind becoming a
> competent blind person.
> 
> Cindy
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Ray Foret Jr" <rforetjr at comcast.net>
> To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2010 1:24 PM
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] FW: Army's First Blind Active-Duty Officer
> 
> 
> You need to get a clue.  She's rightk and, it's quite clear that she is.
> anybody with half a brain can see that.
> 
> D
> Sincerely,
> The Constantly Barefooted Ray!!!
> 
> A Very Proud and Happy Mac User!!!
> 
> E-Mail:
> rforetjr at comcast dot net
> Skype Name:
> barefootedray
> 
> On Sep 23, 2010, at 11:51 AM, Steve P. Deeley wrote:
> 
> you need to lighten up.
> Steve
> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Jewel S." <herekittykat2 at gmail.com>
> To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2010 12:02 PM
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] FW: Army's First Blind Active-Duty Officer
> 
> 
>> A small step forward for the military, but a big step back for the
>> image of blind people in my opinion. They talk about how devastating
>> losing his sight was, how he wanted to die, that his life was black
>> literally and figuratively, and how he broke down crying because his
>> life was so horribly changed.
>> 
>> Captain Smiley tries to push that his life is normal. He makes light
>> of his wanting to have fun (surfing, mountain climbing, parachuting),
>> but the Fox announcer seems so shocked and awed that a blind person
>> could do such things.
>> 
>> Good for Captain Smiley. I'm sure he'll go far and represent people
>> with visual impairment well, but this video certaionly doesn't.
>> 
>> My two cents,
>> 
>> On 9/23/10, Hyde, David W. (ESC) <david.hyde at wcbvi.k12.wi.us> wrote:
>>> I think this represents a small step forward by the military. They at
>>> least
>>> didn't give him a discharge and a thank you..
>>> 
>>> 
>>> http://news.yahoo.com/video/us-15749625/21915181
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> _______________________________________________
>>> blindtlk mailing list
>>> blindtlk at nfbnet.org
>>> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/blindtlk_nfbnet.org
>>> To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for
>>> blindtlk:
>>> 
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/options/blindtlk_nfbnet.org/herekittykat2%40gm
> ail.com
>>> 
>> 
>> 
>> -- 
>> ~Jewel
>> Check out my blog about accessibility for the blind!
>> Treasure Chest for the Blind: http://blindtreasurechest.blogspot.com
>> 
>> _______________________________________________
>> blindtlk mailing list
>> blindtlk at nfbnet.org
>> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/blindtlk_nfbnet.org
>> To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for
>> blindtlk:
>> 
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/options/blindtlk_nfbnet.org/stevep.deeley%40in
> sightbb.com
> 
> 
> ----------------------------------------------------------------------------
> ----
> 
> 
> 
> No virus found in this incoming message.
> Checked by AVG - www.avg.com
> Version: 9.0.851 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3153 - Release Date: 09/22/10
> 14:40:00
> 
> No virus found in this outgoing message.
> Checked by AVG - www.avg.com
> Version: 9.0.856 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3154 - Release Date: 09/23/10
> 02:34:00
> _______________________________________________
> blindtlk mailing list
> blindtlk at nfbnet.org
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/blindtlk_nfbnet.org
> To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for
> blindtlk:
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/options/blindtlk_nfbnet.org/rforetjr%40comcast
> .net
> 
> 
> _______________________________________________
> blindtlk mailing list
> blindtlk at nfbnet.org
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/blindtlk_nfbnet.org
> To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for
> blindtlk:
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/options/blindtlk_nfbnet.org/cindy425%40verizon
> .net
> 
> 
> 
> _______________________________________________
> blindtlk mailing list
> blindtlk at nfbnet.org
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/blindtlk_nfbnet.org
> To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for
> blindtlk:
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/options/blindtlk_nfbnet.org/gwunder%40earthlin
> k.net
> 
> 
> _______________________________________________
> blindtlk mailing list
> blindtlk at nfbnet.org
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/blindtlk_nfbnet.org
> To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for blindtlk:
> http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/options/blindtlk_nfbnet.org/stevep.deeley%40insightbb.com

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

No virus found in this incoming message.
Checked by AVG - www.avg.com
Version: 9.0.856 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3154 - Release Date: 09/23/10 02:34:00

No virus found in this outgoing message.
Checked by AVG - www.avg.com
Version: 9.0.856 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3154 - Release Date: 09/23/10 02:34:00
_______________________________________________
blindtlk mailing list
blindtlk at nfbnet.org
http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/blindtlk_nfbnet.org
To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for blindtlk:
http://www.nfbnet.org/mailman/options/blindtlk_nfbnet.org/rforetjr%40comcast.net