[Blindtlk] Who Bathes You?

Fri Mar 4 18:20:56 UTC 2011

Good grief!

Gloria Whipple
Corresponding Secretary
Inland Empire chapter
nfb of WA

cell: 509-475-4993

-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Jeanette Fortin
Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 6:38 AM
To: Blind Talk Mailing List
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Who Bathes You?

WELL I have had folks ask me who cooks for my kids and how much help do i 
have come in to help, none, when we lived on the island we had a maid but it

was in support of the local islanders who needed work on the island to 
support families, i also homeschooled my kids and folks couldn't imagine how

a blind person  could teach anything, really?
just amazing, jeanette
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Marion Gwizdala" <blind411 at verizon.net>
To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:11 AM
Subject: [Blindtlk] Who Bathes You?

>I went to see a dermatologist once who said, You're really clean! Who 
>bathes you?" I expressed my dismay that a well educated person like a 
>doctor would ask such an offensively stereotypical question, as I took out 
>my business card and handed it to him.Then I asked him "Who bathes you?" He

>apologized profusely, sharing that he understands how I feel because he has

>a clubbed foot! There's no accounting for convoluted logic! In the words of

>Archie Bunker, "That's the kind of straight thinking we need nowadays!"
>
> Fraternally yours,
> Marion
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Michelle Medina" <michellem86 at gmail.com>
> To: "Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Thursday, March 03, 2011 12:05 PM
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Responses of Medical Professionals.
>
>
>> I'd have been absolutely furious!!!! In fact, I must confess, I may
>> have accidentally *purposely* stabbed her hand or arm as my food was
>> spinning by.
>> Chelle
>>
>> On 3/3/11, Hyde, David W. (ESC) <david.hyde at wcbvi.k12.wi.us> wrote:
>>> When I was a kid in Oregon, most blind children were treated at the
>>> University of Oregon Medical School. Being an RLF (now ROP, nothing's
>>> changed but the initials) child, all the interns took a look at me. 
>>> Looking
>>> back, I don't remember any of them introducing themselves, but they sure
>>> loved working with the pressure gage and the slit lamp.
>>>
>>> My best medical story, though, comes from eye surgery in the seventies. 
>>> I
>>> was in the hospital after surgery, and was getting my first real meal. I
>>> know that there was something on my chart that said I was blind, since,
>>> after all, the bandages over the eyes wouldn't give any clue. The 
>>> service
>>> staff came in, and put the food tray on the table over the bed, and I
>>> thanked her, assuming our interaction was done. She looked at me, looked

>>> at
>>> my wife who was in the room, and turned the tray 180 degrees. I thanked 
>>> her
>>> again. She looked back at me, back at my wife and turned it again. After

>>> the
>>> third iteration, I confess I lost my patience and asked if I was just
>>> supposed to use a fork to stab something as it went by.
>>>
>>> It's funny now, but frustrating then.
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> -----Original Message-----
>>> From: blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] 
>>> On
>>> Behalf Of Mary Mc Gee
>>> Sent: Wednesday, March 02, 2011 3:11 PM
>>> To: 'Blind Talk Mailing List'
>>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Responses of Medical Professionals.
>>>
>>> Dear Fellow Federationists;
>>>
>>>             I've read with interest all the posts about experiences at
>>> health care providers' offices.  I have some experiences I can throw 
>>> into
>>> the mix.
>>>
>>>             First, I'll say that, because the cause of my blindness is
>>> albinism, I had a unique appearance that was impossible to hide when I 
>>> was
>>> younger.  I was a student at the Iowa Braille and Sight Saving School 
>>> for
>>> ten years and, during that time, I went to the University of Iowa for 
>>> free
>>> eye care-at least "they" called it eye care.  It was more on the order 
>>> of
>>> eye study because every med student, intern, and ophthalmology resident 
>>> had
>>> to come examines the "albinotic eye" before I received any low vision
>>> glasses, etc. that would actually improve what little vision I have.  I 
>>> felt
>>> like a zoo or circus animal on display because I was a condition rather 
>>> than
>>> a person.  It hurt a lot and I'm not simply talking about all the lights
>>> shining in my eyes, but also the emotional pain it caused.
>>>
>>>             As an adult I've had some doctors who have been very nice 
>>> and
>>> some who haven't.  The number of nice ones directly correlates with my
>>> various degrees-all doctors and staffs are nice now that I put 
>>> "Attorney" on
>>> their intake forms.
>>>
>>>             But, when I first came to Des Moines in 1976, visited a
>>> neurologist because of migraine headaches.  He spent more time looking 
>>> at my
>>> eyes than he did taking a history of the headaches.  I went to one 
>>> doctor
>>> whose office staff handed the intake form to my driver too complete 
>>> until I
>>> complained.  One time, when I went to an orthopedic surgeon's office for

>>> an
>>> expert consult to prepare for trial, I was greatly surprised that she 
>>> spent
>>> fifteen minutes asking about my vision instead of my client's treatment.

>>> I
>>> simply told her that, if she billed for those extra minutes, she 
>>> wouldn't be
>>> paid, because I would deduct that amount of time from my bill back to 
>>> the
>>> client.  She didn't argue and even apologized.
>>>
>>>             I'm fortunate that I currently have a sensitive, caring 
>>> group of
>>> physicians.  I'll have to admit, though, that the trauma of the past 
>>> plus my
>>> attorney's skepticism is quite hard to eliminate when I meet a new one.
>>>
>>>             The Iowa Department for the Blind has been doing a PR 
>>> project
>>> with health care providers to educate them with the hope that fewer 
>>> people
>>> will have unpleasant experiences when they need help.
>>>
>>>             I'd be interested in hearing if any of you, like me, were
>>> treated as a medical oddity at any time.
>>> Sincerely,
>>>
>>> Mary L. McGee
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
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>>
>> -- 
>> "FUCK YOU FOR KILLING ME!!!!" SHAUN MORGAN - "NEEDLES"
>> "THESE STAND FOR ME, NAME YOUR GOD AND BLEED THE FREAK!
>> I'D LIKE TO SEE, HOW YOU ALL WOULD BLEED FOR ME!" -LAYNE STALEY -
>> "BLEED THE FREAK"
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