[Blindtlk] Question that might seem odd

[David Andrews]

I have done it -- for my Grandfather.  Unfortunately we had to have a 
family scene to get me there.  they wanted to leave me out and draft 
some distant relative who had nothing to do with my Grandfather.  I 
ghrew a fit, and got included.

I took a rear spot on the right side, as my left and is stronger for 
carrying heavy weights.  Even with six folks, it is heavy.  I had my 
cane in my right hand, as a precaution, and to catch steps etc., but 
I didn't use it formally with the standard tapping pattern, but to 
clear myself etc., like you  might do when going sighted guide.  And, 
it is kind of like going sighted guide, you just follow along.

Siorry to hear about your Grandfather.

Dave

At 04:51 PM 8/23/2013, Jim Portillo wrote:
>Hi there,
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>I realize that what I'm about to ask might seem odd to some of you, and I
>apologize for that.
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>Unfortunately, I just lost my grandfather due to terminal illness and will
>be going home to Texas for the funeral.  I was asked by my mother and uncles
>if I'd like to be a pall-bearer, because he practically raised me and I was
>like a son to him as well.
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>So, I guess my question is this.  Has anyone here experienced being a
>pall-bearer, and if so, is there any advice or are there any tips for doing
>this as a blind person?  I know that I'll be with others, so I'm guessing
>that will serve as a guide or way of travel, is that right?  Also, should I
>be using or carrying my cane when this happens, or would it get in the way?
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>I'm honored to have been asked, and I want to show anyone who might be
>skeptical about it that I can participate with them and do this for my
>grandfather.  So, any advice or tips from you guys would be appreciated.
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>Thanks,
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>Jim