[Blindtlk] 10 natural ways to relieve stress

Mon Mar 4 14:55:30 UTC 2013

Listen to what the people on here are trying to tell you.

Good luck to you and finding the right kind of job!

Gloria Whipple

-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Peter Wolfe
Sent: Sunday, March 03, 2013 21:09
To: Blind Talk Mailing List
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] 10 natural ways to relieve stress

Gloria,

    How can you help with the attitude of condescension against other
ways of viewing the issue of career success? Instead the unintended
affect that I gather is blame of being either lazy or of following Mr.
Jernigan to the grave with everything that he naively believed in that
weren't exactly true then as they are not true now! All I'm saying
great that you have success just realize that others have unique
challenges even with their rehabilitation from counseling, timing,
techniques and education that prevents the same opportunities. Some
people are born blind as others become blind later, so skills form
differently so all I'm saying is be flexible with your heavy handed
tactics  cause you will have the opposite effect. Believe me that I'm
still in contact with a former NFB President with some success and
still working on strategies that fit me for success and am and
continue to be pursuing training with JAWS and obtaining government
work.

Thanks for your understanding,
Peter

On 3/3/13, Gloria Whipple <glowhi at centurylink.net> wrote:
> woe is me!
>
> People on these lists are trying to help you. Don't you get it?
>
> Gloria Whipple
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Peter
> Wolfe
> Sent: Sunday, March 03, 2013 16:36
> To: Blind Talk Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] 10 natural ways to relieve stress
>
>    I never said blindness was the only reason just blindness
> gravitates to other forms or challenges that exacerbates those other
> issues. I really hate being misquoted in any form that includes in
> what I said no wrong inferences of what I said. If you don't believe
> that your terribly naive to realities in America cause the worse
> hasn't even begun yet in America. In fact, we are just beginning cause
> many jobs hundreds of thousands will strain state and local
> governments to corporations as well. I also think many veterans would
> disagree with their experiences of rehabilitation cause of
> post-dramatic stress in coping with disabilities with extremely high
> suicide rates too. Lastly, fact is perception isn't reality sensation
> is that is basic psychology 101
>
> On 3/3/13, Ray Foret Jr <rforetjr at att.net> wrote:
>> In this, Mike and I agree totally.  Might I also suggest reading
> "Blindness,
>> concepts and Misconceptions".
>>
>>
>> Sent from my mac, the only computer with full accessibility for the blind
>> built in!
>> Sincerely,
>> The Constantly Barefooted Ray
>> Still a very proud and happy Mac and Iphone user!
>>
>> On Mar 3, 2013, at 5:20 PM, "Mike Freeman" <k7uij at panix.com> wrote:
>>
>>> I've been staying out of this thread, believing that it is basically
>>> counterproductive. However, the mistake I surmise Peter is making is to
>>> single out blindness as a particular egregious stress-provoker. It is
>>> not.
>>>
>>> Of course, some folks may find it so; the point is that some of us do
>>> not
>>> find it so, especially if we've had good blindness training and have
>>> opportunities to put our skills and attitudes to work.
>>>
>>> We might all find it profitable to reread Dr. jernigan's speech:
>>> "Blindness:
>>> Handicap or Characteristic".
>>>
>>> Cheers!
>>>
>>> Mike Freeman
>>>
>>>
>>> -----Original Message-----
>>> From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Chris
>>> Nusbaum
>>> Sent: Sunday, March 03, 2013 3:04 PM
>>> To: Blind Talk Mailing List
>>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] 10 natural ways to relieve stress
>>>
>>> Julie,
>>>
>>> Very well said! Thank you for these wonderful thoughts!
>>>
>>> Chris
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>> From: "Julie J." <julielj at neb.rr.com
>>> To: Blind Talk Mailing List <blindtlk at nfbnet.org
>>> Date sent: Sun, 03 Mar 2013 08:26:34 -0600
>>> Subject: [Blindtlk] 10 natural ways to relieve stress
>>>
>>> Peter,
>>>
>>> I never said I was speaking for all blind people everywhere.  I
>>> said
>>> that stress, unhappiness and unemployment were not *my* current
>>> experience.  I understand that lots of blind people don't have
>>> jobs and
>>> are generally unhappy with their life situation.  And I have no
>>> problem
>>> with the words happy or unhappy.
>>>
>>> I have been there too.  I had no job for a long time.  I've been
>>> homeless, if only for a few days.  I've eaten my fair share of
>>> Ramen
>>> noodles.   I've wondered how I was going to scrape together
>>> enough money
>>> to pay the bills, month after month after month.  However I
>>> always kept
>>> the mindset that the situation at hand was temporary.  You can be
>>> in an
>>> awful situation and still have hope.  Sometimes that's all there
>>> is.
>>>
>>> I'm not quite as old as you think.  I'll be 40 this year.  I
>>> don't know
>>> that families were all that much different when I was a kid.  I
>>> grew up
>>> in a mostly African American, poor area though.  BTW I am white.
>>> I
>>> guess maybe growing up being the different kid allowed me to get
>>> real
>>> comfortable with being different and being okay with that.  Who
>>> knows?
>>>
>>> Now, I work with young people with their first contact with the
>>> criminal
>>> justice system.  I see all sorts of different family groupings.
>>> Some of
>>> them work and are healthy and some of them are not a good place
>>> for
>>> kids.  I don't see a strong correlation between a man and woman
>>> who have
>>> been married for a long time with only their own kids in the home
>>> and
>>> stability.  I have a single Dad raising five kids that I think
>>> should
>>> get parent of the year.  I have another youth who lives with her
>>> Aunt
>>> and Uncle and it is one of the most positive respectful families.
>>> Some
>>> of the traditional families are good too.  I'm just saying that
>>> family
>>> comes in all sorts of shapes and sizes and I think it always has.
>>>
>>> Perhaps what I am saying is that yes, bad stuff happens in the
>>> world.
>>> We all know that and can agree that blind people get more than
>>> our fair
>>> share of hardships.   I feel like I have a choice though.  I can
>>> choose
>>> to feel stressed and hopeless because the odds are that I won't
>>> have a
>>> job or I can choose to put all my effort in to finding a job or
>>> starting
>>> my own business.  No, it isn't easy and it won't happen
>>> overnight, but
>>> if I believe that it can happen for me, I have just dramatically
>>> increased the odds that it will.  "Whether you believe you can or
>>> you
>>> can't, either way you're right."A quote from the founder of the
>>> Ford
>>> motor company.
>>>
>>> Blindness can be hard, very hard at times.  I choose to look at
>>> it as an
>>> opportunity though.  I feel like I have made many of the life
>>> choices I
>>> have because of my blindness, not despite it.  I have a strong
>>> need to
>>> challenge myself to learn new things and have new experiences.
>>> Blindness has made that easy.
>>>
>>> This summer I am going survival camping.  I am going to learn
>>> stuff like
>>> how to make a fire with no matches, how to make rope, how to find
>>> drinking water and  how to make a shelter in the woods.   I am so
>>> excited for this opportunity!  It will be a challenge and I'll
>>> have to
>>> figure out many adaptations because of my blindness.   It's like
>>> a
>>> puzzle for me.  I love to figure out how I can accomplish the
>>> task.
>>> Occasionally I come across something that I can't do, but more
>>> often I
>>> surprise myself.  It also helps a lot to have wonderful email
>>> lists and
>>> other blind people willing to talk to me about similar things
>>> they have
>>> done.  I can build on what has already been discovered without
>>> reinventing the wheel.  *smile*
>>>
>>> What are your goals? Your dreams?  If you knew you couldn't fail
>>> what
>>> would you do?  Let us help you figure out how to get there.
>>>
>>> Julie
>>>
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> Cordially,
> Peter Q Wolfe, BA
> cum laude Auburn University
> e-mail: yogabare13 at gmail.com
> "If you don't stand up for something your willing to fall for anything"
> Peter Q Wolfe
> "Stand up for your rights"
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Cordially,
Peter Q Wolfe, BA
cum laude Auburn University
e-mail: yogabare13 at gmail.com
"If you don't stand up for something your willing to fall for anything"
Peter Q Wolfe
"Stand up for your rights"
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