[Blindtlk] My 2 Cents

[Peter Wolfe]

    My problems are not necessarily manufactered crisis like that were
condoned in the past such as the Holocaust but current problems that
I'm dealing with. I have ackward responsibilities such as finding out
whether or not my sister was murdered or was in fact a legimiate
overdose or not. Adding to that I had to pay for the entire funeral
service myself with absolutely no help from the two foremr husbands
even though that one makes well over $10000.00 per year just small
very small problems that I deal with now. Moreover, my older brother
has schizophrinia, so must take care of his physical and mental
stability to a reasonable level cause the government social workers do
an unsatisfactory job in this regard. I'd like to add that I'm getting
over substance abuse and have a history of suicidal tendencies so my
case is not like that of others on the list as much.


    Yes, I'll continue to try with what I have in front of me. Believe
it or not that I'm not making excuses like it comes across on the
list. I have severe problems in financial responsibilities like
selling a house that recently got stripped of for example. There are
other things that can hold you up even if temporary that hold you away
of other pressing issues. I know that this will too not last for long
perhaps two months till I'd get adaquate training and mental
counseling that is what I'm working on me not for anybody else just
me.


    Lastly, I appreciate the encouragement of riding ourselves of the
negative connatation of our minority status. Yet, its more than words
cause actions invoked by them via actions of opression do occur. Such
things have happened to me like having my cane stolen, thievery, hate
crime and being denied jobs are things that happened to me in Alabama.
I'm not letting this stop me just gives me pause cause that can lead
to instant hanus results without preparation. Illustrating this point
that I was starved, raped and even seen my uncle Elvin's dead body
unburied, yet continue cause the lessons are to continue just working
with what is left is harder than you make it out to be on your reply.
I need a higher dosage of anxiety medicine cause if I worked the way
that I'm now that I'd literally have a mental breakdown. Fantastically
that I'm proud to announce being sober for sixty-three days that is
the first time in eight straight weeks!



Hugs,
Peter

On 3/25/13, cheryl echevarria <cherylandmaxx at hotmail.com> wrote:
> There is no shame in being blind. Like there is no shame in being called a
> jew, that is what I am. It is a characterist of who I am.
> I am a woman who is married, mother, kind, loving, not skinny, not fat, New
> Yorker, Travel Agent, Diabetic, white, jew, blind, these are some
> descriptions of myself. Yes it took me a while to say blind, we are all
> scared of that word from time to time, but it is who I am and who we are
> unless you aren't.
> I'd rather be blind then sitting on that dialysis machine 4 days a week for
> 3 hours a day dying.
> Life is to short, we all have the right not to do anything with our lives.
> My sister doesn't work, she is a mom she is not blind, but does that mean
> she doesn't do anything, being a mom myself even if I never wanted to work
> outside the house again or be an NFB member. I would still need my skills to
> take care of my family.
> It also shows my daughter that yes life kicked me in butt, but I made it
> through and so can others. There are people with disabilities worse than
> being blind, but they manage and are happy and get through.
> It is those that sit and do nothing and let others do for them that are the
> ones I worry for. We all know people like that disabled or not. Mommy and
> daddy do everything for them, but one day these people will not be here and
> then what, go into a nursing home.
> Or just not enjoy life anymore.  You want to do something, you find a way of
> doing it, and move on.
> I have had members of my own family that have survived the Holocaust, or
> hear from family members how there parents and my great grandparents had to
> leave their homeland and come to america because the Russians destroyed
> there homes and had no place to go in the early 1900s. This you are saying
> has nothing to do with blindness, but it has to do with prejudice.
> Remember today is the 1st night of Passover. There are people who have come
> before us, that we need to remember and move on.
> Disabled Entrepreneur of the Year 2012 of NY State
> Leading the Way in Independent Travel!SNG Certified - Accessible Travel
> Advocate!Cheryl Echevarria,
> Ownerhttp://www.echevarriatravel.com631-456-5394reservations@echevarriatravel.comhttp://www.echevarriatravel.wordpress.com2012
> Norwegian Cruise Line University Advisory Board Member.
> Affiliated as an independent contractor with Montrose TravelCST -
> #1018299-10Echevarria Travel and proud member of the National Federation of
> the Blind will be holding a year round fundraiser for the
> http://www.NFBNY.org after Hurricane Sandy and other resources. Any vacation
> package booked between November 6 2012-November 6, 2013 and vacation must be
> traveled no later than 12/30/2014 a percentage of my earnings will go to the
> affiliate.  Also is you book a Sandals for couples or Beaches for families
> and friends resorts vacation, $100.00 per booking will go to the affiliate
> as well.  You do not need to be a member of the NFB.org, just book through
> us.
>
>
>> Date: Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:32:40 -0600
>> From: yogabare13 at gmail.com
>> To: blindtlk at nfbnet.org
>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] My 2 Cents
>>
>>     How about just call me by my given name? A unique concept that is
>> something that people must label people that I find appalling myself.
>> We should be progressing like I wouldn't see it possible to call
>> someone a racial derogatory word that someone shouldn't call me
>> something beyond my control. I don't call someone that so deserve
>> respect like a normal human being not an animal. Not that much to ask
>> for in a civilized society that is why we have hate crime legislation
>> and specially protected people like women, racial minorities or sexual
>> deviants like me too!
>>
>> On 3/25/13, Carly Mihalakis <carlymih at comcast.net> wrote:
>> > Hi, Peter,
>> >
>> >          Are you one of those people contributing to people's
>> > reluctance to call us what we are, blind? What's in a name, anyway?
>> > What is the term you like to be called, just so I don't call you BLIND?
>> > Loving, Carfigure out what to call us?  At 06:41 PM 3/24/2013, you
>> > wrote:
>> >>Mike,
>> >>
>> >>
>> >>     What is for dinner? I just disagree with the labels of disabled
>> >>people or in fact the world disabled in the first place. What is
>> >>fundamentally broken by a blind person? I don't like handicapped,
>> >>disabled, consumer, client or any of it. I'd rather have participant
>> >>or customer would be okay as well just not consumer. It implies a
>> >>causality that and it reduces you to a number.
>> >>
>> >>
>> >>     First and foremost that we're all individuals right? I've had a
>> >>local taxi company in Auburn of my former college city call me "Blind
>> >>Pete". Can you imagine how enraged that they wouldn't change me for
>> >>two years just tcontiniously calling me "Blind Pete" even saved in
>> >>their contacts as that name too. Its like people attempt to turn you
>> >>into a object that dcan be treated less than a normal homo sapien.
>> >>Anyone else with similar experiences? This drives me insaine that way
>> >>don't usually ever gets to me but lately not as easy to do.
>> >>
>> >>
>> >>Thanks,
>> >>Peter
>> >>
>> >>On 3/24/13, Mike Freeman <k7uij at panix.com> wrote:
>> >> > Peter:
>> >> >
>> >> > You're obsessing about the word "consumer" too much. In using that
>> >> > word,
>> >> > both rehab and most blind persons merely mean a designation of
>> >> > someone
>> >> > receiving services and, if we are honest, it's also a way to avoid
>> >> > the
>> >> > word
>> >> > "client" which some of us hate. Frankly, I don't care what you call
>> >> > me
>> >> > as
>> >> > long as you call me for dinner. (grin) Our state department of
>> >> > services
>> >> > for
>> >> > the blind calls those whom it serves "customers".
>> >> >
>> >> > Mike Freeman
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > -----Original Message-----
>> >> > From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of
>> >> > Peter
>> >> > Wolfe
>> >> > Sent: Saturday, March 23, 2013 8:43 PM
>> >> > To: Blind Talk Mailing List
>> >> > Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] My 2 Cents
>> >> >
>> >> >    Why are blind people considered consumers in much of
>> >> > rehabilitation? They aren't producers, therefore, they are deemed
>> >> > inferior even by fellow blind professions who work at such
>> >> > facilities.
>> >> > Sorry the whole conversation is besides the point just a reason to
>> >> > demean someone of another opinion. I'm an atheist-agnostic, so view
>> >> > things in another paradigm than that of yourself in that way. I'm
>> >> > looking at everything extremely logical to a fault that is to say
>> >> > deductive logic not inductive logic as much.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > sincerely,
>> >> > Peter
>> >> >
>> >> > On 3/23/13, Mark Tardif <markspark at roadrunner.com> wrote:
>> >> >> Diane,
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Absolutely, one hundred percent spot on!!!
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Mark Tardif
>> >> >> Nuclear arms will not hold you.
>> >> >> -----Original Message-----
>> >> >> From: Diane Graves
>> >> >> Sent: Saturday, March 23, 2013 11:14 PM
>> >> >> To: 'Blind Talk Mailing List'
>> >> >> Subject: [Blindtlk] My 2 Cents
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Good Evening,
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> For days I have been overwhelmed by the sizable discussion thread
>> >> >> on
>> >> >> "Adjustment to blindness training NFB Centers Or Not," and I admit
>> >> >> to
>> >> >> having
>> >> >> deleted a good number of the messages without reading, so I
>> >> >> apologize
>> >> >> in
>> >> >> advance if I missed some things. I changed the subject line on
>> >> >> purpose,
>> >> >> just
>> >> >> in case there were others doing the same. However, tonight I am up
>> >> >> late
>> >> >> baking and have read a number of the posts, and feel compelled to
>> >> >> share
>> >> >> my
>> >> >> sentiments on a few things, or the facts as I see them.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> First of all, I'll say, very respectfully, that there is one
>> >> >> participant
>> >> > in
>> >> >> the discussion who has me very confused. On one hand I hear him
>> >> >> saying
>> >> > that
>> >> >> we in the federation need to "wake up and smell the coffee" and
>> >> >> accept
>> >> >> the
>> >> >> fact that blindness does make us inferior. On the other hand, this
>> >> >> same
>> >> >> individual is saying that we need to come together to fight
>> >> >> discrimination
>> >> >> against the blind. If you, yourself, believe that you are inferior,
>> >> >> then
>> >> >> why
>> >> >> should society stop discriminating? In fact, how can they stop
>> >> >> discriminating? Why should employers hire us, and lessen that 70%
>> >> >> unemployment rate, if we aren't equal to our sighted counterparts?
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Secondly, I'll just say that the notion that NFB believes that one
>> >> >> size
>> >> >> fits
>> >> >> all is ludicrous. There are no two blind people that are a like any
>> >> >> more
>> >> >> than there are two sighted people who are exactly alike. There are
>> >> >> sighted
>> >> >> people who are excellent construction workers, who do not have the
>> >> >> people
>> >> >> skills business prowess and any number of other skills necessary to
>> >> >> be
>> >> >> the
>> >> >> CEO of a corporation.  That CEO  might not have the athletic
>> >> >> prowess
>> >> >> to
>> >> >> fight his way out of a cardboard box.  That doesn't make either one
>> >> >> of
>> >> > them
>> >> >> inferior. They're just different.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> The statement that all blind people need to accept the fact that
>> >> >> they
>> >> > can't
>> >> >> perform any number of given tasks, is, indeed, arrogant. We are
>> >> >> just
>> >> >> as
>> >> >> varied in our abilities as the sighted.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> I have a dual disability in that I am not only totally blind, but
>> >> >> also
>> >> > have
>> >> >> a significant hearing impairment. Therefore, there are a number of
>> >> >> blind
>> >> >> people who can run circles around me in the mobility arena, simply
>> >> >> because
>> >> >> they have the benefit of that good hearing. The fact that I have
>> >> >> trouble
>> >> > at
>> >> >> times, doesn't mean that they face the same drawbacks and that
>> >> >> their
>> >> > skills
>> >> >> are not excellent and far above mine.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> On the other hand, I am an avid Braille reader, and much prefer
>> >> >> Braille
>> >> >> to
>> >> >> any other media, whereas there are other blind people who prefer to
>> >> >> listen
>> >> >> to tapes and recorded books. My hearing is good enough that I could
>> >> >> certainly use audiobooks if I chose too. I just get more out of a
>> >> >> book
>> >> > when
>> >> >> actively reading it myself. Some of those people with the superb
>> >> >> mobility
>> >> >> skills may not have the same prowess in Braille that I do. We are
>> >> >> all
>> >> >> different.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Mike Freeman and Gary Wunder are both skilled in the area of
>> >> >> computer
>> >> >> programming, and, I suspect, could give sighted programmers a run
>> >> >> for
>> >> > their
>> >> >> money. I, on the other hand am strictly a computer user. Start
>> >> >> talking
>> >> >> about
>> >> >> programming and you've lost me immediately. The fact that I can't
>> >> >> do
>> >> >> it,
>> >> >> doesn't mean that they're not experts in it.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Don't know if this is making sense or not, but again, on one hand I
>> >> >> hear
>> >> >> this person  telling us that we are a cookie cutter organization,
>> >> >> while
>> >> >> at
>> >> >> the same time cutting his own cookies by telling us that we are all
>> >> >> severely
>> >> >> limited.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> In our organization we have liberals and we have conservatives. We
>> >> >> have
>> >> >> Christians and we have atheists. We have people who are athletes
>> >> >> and
>> >> >> those
>> >> >> who are out of shape and proud of it. Lol We have any variation
>> >> >> that
>> >> >> you
>> >> >> could think of. What unites us is our desire and our intent to
>> >> >> fight
>> >> >> the
>> >> >> discriminatory barriers which face the blind.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Now I'm not going to tell you that I've never known a federationist
>> >> >> who
>> >> >> believed that there was only one way of doing things and one
>> >> >> standard
>> >> >> as
>> >> > it
>> >> >> relates to blindness skills. But that isn't the mantra of the
>> >> >> organization
>> >> >> at all.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> If you want to "stop dreaming" then that is your choice. But you
>> >> >> can't
>> >> > take
>> >> >> my dreams.
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Diane Graves
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
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>> >> > --
>> >> > Cordially,
>> >> > Peter Q Wolfe, BA
>> >> > cum laude Auburn University
>> >> > e-mail: yogabare13 at gmail.com
>> >> > "If you don't stand up for something your willing to fall for
>> >> > anything"
>> >> > Peter Q Wolfe
>> >> > "Stand up for your rights"
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>> >>Cordially,
>> >>Peter Q Wolfe, BA
>> >>cum laude Auburn University
>> >>e-mail: yogabare13 at gmail.com
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>> >>Peter Q Wolfe
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>> --
>> Cordially,
>> Peter Q Wolfe, BA
>> cum laude Auburn University
>> e-mail: yogabare13 at gmail.com
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>> Peter Q Wolfe
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Cordially,
Peter Q Wolfe, BA
cum laude Auburn University
e-mail: yogabare13 at gmail.com
"If you don't stand up for something your willing to fall for anything"
Peter Q Wolfe
"Stand up for your rights"
Bob Marley