[Blindtlk] dating online web sites

Tue May 7 00:11:57 UTC 2013

Well she was blind as well.  it didn't have anything to do with blindness it 
had to do with the fact that she didn't think she could handle some aspects 
of my mental illness.  the stuff that she couldn't handle they weren't that 
big at all but to her they were.  After she said oh I love you and I'm not 
going anywhare probably within a few weeks she broke it off.  and she never 
even gave me a chance.  never even met me.
  I'm tired of getting hurt.  I'm tired of people saying I love you and am 
not going anywhare and I wake up one morning and they're gone and all of a 
sudden don't love me anymore because of what ever.
-----Original Message----- 
From: Jessica Kostiw
Sent: Monday, May 06, 2013 4:12 PM
To: Blind Talk Mailing List
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] dating online web sites

Really really sorry! My last email was so disjointed! I was trying to speak 
it using Siri.
Dave, I'm very sorry to hear about your poor experience. Remember though, 
your girlfriend did not cut it off with you because of blindness. You have 
to go through the bad fish I eat heartbreak to get to the good ones. Better 
luck next time.
Jessica

Sent from my iPhone

On May 6, 2013, at 6:53 PM, "Dave Webster" <dwebster125 at gmail.com> wrote:

>       Hi my name Is Dave.  I havent tried any of the dating websites but 
> have had some long distance relationships and had problems.  One person I 
> was with payed for my plane ticket out there and then a few weeks later 
> broke off the relationship.  I think she ended up talking to someone else. 
> it really hurt a lot.  Honestly I think that the likelihood of me finding 
> someone is pretty much zero.  with my bipolar and mental illness and stuff 
> I probably could find someone but it would have to be a person who really 
> understands stuff.  terri broke the relationship off because she said that 
> there were some things that she didn't think she could handle.  I won't 
> say specifically on the list what they were but.   If any of you want to 
> talk to me off the list let me know.  I've got skype and all of that so. 
> Just let me know.      Thanks.
>
> -----Original Message----- From: Jessica Kostiw
> Sent: Monday, May 06, 2013 3:38 PM
> To: Blind Talk Mailing List
> Cc: Blind Talk Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] dating online web sites
>
> I met my husband on match.com in 2010. We have been happily married for 
> over a year! Back in 2010, I did pretty much what Sherry did. I did not 
> overtly state my blindness, but stated it in a back-and-forth message very 
> shortly after I had met him. Also, I apparently had some reference to a 
> guy dog in my profile. I don't even remember what it was talking about, 
> but my husband picked up on it. My blindness didn't phase him in the 
> least. As it turns out, though his mom is still very cited, she has 
> glaucoma and will soon lose her vision as well. I guess Innoway, don't 
> sell people short. Maybe there is a girl out there just like my husband. 
> Someone who knows someone who can't see who doesn't really care.
>
> As far as accessibility, match.com was amazing! I don't really remember 
> anything being on accessible. I had also tried eHarmony. I didn't like it. 
> I felt that it was just a bunch of pointless questions that have to time I 
> didn't even know the answer.
>
> I think people pick up on you. If you are not ashamed, and if you are 
> pretty confident… Or at least express it… People will follow. Good luck! 
> Best thing I ever did! Any advice needed, or if you need anything let me 
> know.
> Jessica
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On May 6, 2013, at 1:17 PM, "Sherry Gomes" <sherriola at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> I tried Eharmony for a year. This was about five years ago. It was fairly
>> accessible, though a bit tedious and not intuitive web site. I didn't 
>> come
>> out and say I am blind, like hi, I have brown hair, and am five feet tall
>> and I'm blind. But I did say in a comments area that I had a guide dog 
>> and
>> that any potential matches would need to like dogs. I didn't want it to 
>> be
>> something hidden, like I was ashamed of it, and I didn't want to have to
>> broach the subject later. This way, they knew, but I didn't make it
>> something important, like my hair color. Think my picture had my dog with 
>> me
>> in harness too, as that was the only digital picture I had.
>>
>> Sherry
>>
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Gloria
>> Whipple
>> Sent: Monday, May 06, 2013 11:00 AM
>> To: 'Blind Talk Mailing List'
>> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] dating online web sites
>>
>> Hi Justin,
>>
>> Here is one you might be interested in.
>>
>> www.dating4disabled.com
>>
>> Gloria Whipple
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of justin
>> williams
>> Sent: Sunday, May 05, 2013 09:46
>> To: Blind Talk Mailing List
>> Subject: [Blindtlk] dating online web sites
>>
>> Does anyone no what the most accessible dating web online site is?
>> Also, should I tell the folks on there about my blindness in the profile?
>> The way my eyes look in photos, it can be noticeable if you look closely.
>> Thanks for you help.
>>
>>
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