[Blindtlk] Blindness and Singleness

Sun Sep 8 19:35:38 UTC 2013

I'm just lightening up the thread a little.  But seriously, our not getting
as many opportunities is not our falt, buut the folt of those individuals
who do not accept us.  However, since we are the ones who will not have a
date on Friday night, it falls to us to give ourselves a better chance.
That's why I really believe that using an interest group or something to
bridge the gap makes it easier.  I say to try online only because everyone
is looking for the same thing, and there is an abundance of singles.  I
didn't have much luck, but it should still be an option.  Most of us have
experienced rejection solely because the other person wouldn't give us a
chance, or was talked out of it by their friends and family.  If it has
never happed tto you, then I am happy for your success and wouldn't wish for
you to experience what I and most of the others who have posted on this
thread have. While you are waiting for her, do some work on yourself through
reading and personal development.  That is a bigg help, because when you get
your shot, you have to be spot on.  The way we do things for us is natural,
but for folks who are sighted, it is something they can't imagine.  Try
reading books on love and relationships; that will give you an edge that the
average person won't have.  

-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Mark Tardif
Sent: Sunday, September 08, 2013 3:18 PM
To: Blind Talk Mailing List
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Blindness and Singleness

For several reasons, yes.  First, we are blind, (bad joke but pretend it
isn't) and, in fact, that can be an integral part of getting to know that
other person, especially if it is just the two of you and it is your first
date together.

Mark Tardif
Nuclear arms will not hold you.
-----Original Message-----
From: justin williams
Sent: Sunday, September 08, 2013 9:55 AM
To: 'Blind Talk Mailing List'
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Blindness and Singleness

Isn't any date we go on a blind date?

-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Julie J.
Sent: Sunday, September 08, 2013 9:04 AM
To: Blind Talk Mailing List
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Blindness and Singleness

There's been a lot of really good advice already.  I just wanted to add in
one more possibility for you.

I met my current husband on a blind date.  Yes, I hear you all laughing, but
it's true!  A good friend of mine was convinced that I should meet this guy.

I was resistant.  I wasn't too interested in dating at the time but she was
very persistent that I meet him.  In the end she invited me to go out for
the evening with her, once I agreed, she casually mentioned that he was
coming too.   Not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings, I decided to go along
and just have fun.  That was 11 years ago now.

Have you mentioned to your friends/family that you are interested in dating?

Perhaps someone knows someone who is also looking for a partner and would be
willing to introduce you.  The first date could be with both couples, which
I think takes some of the stress off.  With four people someone always has
something to say, so I never felt those awkward pauses in the conversation.

Does your church have a singles group? or a college group?  Those might also
be places to meet people.

I guess my point is that you don't have to go it alone.  there are people
who would be happy to help you meet people or point you in a direction.   Be

clear with what you want and don't be afraid to let others know.

Julie

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