[Blindtlk] Good techniques?

[Ericka]

If you are in a buffet or group situation usually each spread has their own knife. I don't know how you tell people to buzz off and let you do it yourself. I'm sure they would be offended if things weren't stated respectfully.

Ericka Short
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> On Dec 8, 2015, at 1:34 AM, Tom via blindtlk <blindtlk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> 
> I'll certain begin to try this suggestion.  I'm going to have to find ways
> of practicing.  I simply wish I wasn't always watched because that's when my
> sighted family and friends ask about why I sometimes do things the way I do.
> 
> Oh, do you use different knives for different spreads if you're in a group?
> 
> And finally, when I'm in a group of people, should I be telling them I don't
> want their help any more?
> Tom
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Hyde, David
> W. (ESC) via blindtlk
> Sent: Monday, December 07, 2015 8:51 AM
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> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Good techniques?
> 
> First, you are not unique. There are several solutions. With some things,
> like ham salad or egg salad, it is easier to use a spoon to put it on to the
> bread. Then use a knife or the back of the spoon to spread it. Start in the
> middle, and spread toward the corners. With butter, slice off a piece or get
> a glob on the knife. Use your hands to see how much you have. Again, start
> in the middle and work toward the corners. With mustard or mayo, take the
> knife down to the bottom of the jar. Depending upon how much is left in the
> jar, you may or may not get enough. Start in the middle again. If you are
> using the portion control packets, open it and squeeze it over the middle.
> Then use a knife to distribute it.
> Finally, if you make a mess, and everyone does once in a while, clean it up.
> If you do it well, you'll be the only one who knows.
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Tom Cramer
> via blindtlk
> Sent: Monday, December 07, 2015 10:37 AM
> To: Advice and support for blind cooks; NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List
> Cc: Tom Cramer
> Subject: [Blindtlk] Good techniques?
> 
> Hello,
> 
> I think this question will be way too basic for everyone but I hope to get
> some good techniques other than just being told to not be afraid to ask
> sighted company to help me.  I think this is an important skill, especially
> now that I'm trying to be more independent and do more for myself.
> 
> I found I am not good at something very basic, like spreading.  I'm talking
> about things like putting any kind of spread on bread or multiple spreads on
> sandwiches. I never really thought of it because I'm generally always with
> family or friends and they always did it.
> But when I was by myself, or when everyone just kind of did their own thing
> and simply told me that the sandwich fixings were on the counter, I realized
> how deficient I was in this skill.
> I asked other blind people and they just said that they weren't afraid to
> use their fingers to spread or that I could simply ask someone to do it.
> 
> So, specific questions.
> First, I use a knife but don't seem to get much stuff on it.  Any good
> techniques to tell how much is on the knife or how much more to get?
> Second, what about the actual spreading technique?  I find mine to be uneven
> and yet I thought I covered the bread.
> Finally, what do you do if you're doing a sandwich and want more than just
> one thing like mayo and mustard and squeeze bottles aren't available?
> 
> I know my family is happy to help me, and my friends haven't said anything
> yet, but do I really want my friends doing something like buttering bread or
> making my sandwiches for me?
> 
> Thanks for entertaining these very basic questions.
> Tom
> 
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