[BlindTlk] Being Grabbed Without Permission

[Justin Williams]

Get them in trouble, yank free, make the employee know that that is not to
be done.

Here is the thing, Sighted people would be pissed, and not stand for that,
so why should we.
 I don't let anyone touch me without permission?

I'm reasonable if it is a companionable touch or contact, but no one just
gets free range, or God help them, to grab me.

Justin


-----Original Message-----
From: BlindTlk <blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org> On Behalf Of Mark Tardif via
BlindTlk
Sent: Thursday, September 28, 2023 4:36 PM
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Cc: Mark Tardif <markspark at roadrunner.com>
Subject: Re: [BlindTlk] Being Grabbed Without Permission

I think you should put out a PSA in just that way and either find out her
name or ask management of that restaurant to conduct an in-service about how
to interact with customers who are blind.  Sometimes it's very frustrating
to try and educate some of these people because to us, this kind of thing is
obvious.



Mark Tardif
Nuclear arms will not hold you.
-----Original Message-----
From: VIAS, ARMANDO via BlindTlk
Sent: Thursday, September 28, 2023 2:25 PM
To: blindtlk at nfbnet.org
Cc: VIAS, ARMANDO
Subject: [BlindTlk] Being Grabbed Without Permission

Hello everyone,

I would like to tell you one of my experiences at a Burger King restaurant.

While I had a wonderful experience getting my food, the experience that I'm
going to talk about when I was leaving the restaurant.

After booking a Lyft to leave the restaurant, I was grabbed by one of the
employees without permission. She grabbed both of my arms, and I was like,
"I'm good." I then asked her for her name. I was finally able to get outside
without anymore problems.

I understand that she doesn't know the right way to ask if I need any help,
but it made me feel uncomfortable.

I am debating on writing a PSA on my website and on my social media channels
to let them know the right way to use sighted guide, and to first ask me
before grabbing me.

Has anyone else ever experienced this? I didn't want to make a seen at the
restaurant.

I don't want the employee to get in trouble for that, but I would like to
sit down with them to teach them the right way. Education is key, and I am
willing to educate everyone.

Thank you.




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