[blparent] coming to my defense

[Veronica Smith]

You are so right, I do and I will leave it at that. Smile! V

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Jo Elizabeth Pinto
Sent: Thursday, April 23, 2009 12:00 PM
To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blparent] coming to my defense

Honestly, I feel sorry for Kiana in this situation, as well as Gab.  It's 
true that Gab got her feelings hurt, and Veronica got maligned, but Kiana is

the one who is missing out on people who have differences.  Hopefully, as 
she grows up, she'll learn to have a broader attitude about the abilities 
and uniquenesses of others.  It seems to me that Veronica has already done 
the educating and reaching out, and now it's a matter of Kiana growing up a 
little, and perhaps her grandmother growing up some as well.  I would have 
expected the grandmother to make Kiana say she was sorry at the bus stop, in

person and not by text messaging, but she chose not to face an awkward 
situation.  Too bad, but shrug it off, Veronica and Gab, with the assurance 
that you know the truth.

Jo Elizabeth

"Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed 
until it is faced."--James Baldwin
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
To: "blind parents" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, April 22, 2009 10:29 PM
Subject: [blparent] coming to my defense


> Ok, this is how it went.  Kiana accused Gab of wearing the same dress 2 
> days
> in a row.  Gab said she had not, that the day before she had worn tan 
> pants
> and her spirit shirt.  Kiana said that Gab had not.  So then Gab told her 
> if
> she didn't believe her, she could ask her mom.  So then Kiana told Gab 
> that
> blind people didn't know anything and they were stupid.  Gab said she 
> wanted
> to hit her, but did not.  Gab told her that blind people could do anything
> except drive.   Gab told her that I knew everything especially what she 
> wore
> each day.  Kiana just laughed at her and insisted that blind people were
> nothing.  Of course, my daughter came home in tears.
>
> I tried to convince her that it didn't matter what her friend said, but it
> mattered to my daughter.  So I called Kiana's grandmother and told her 
> what
> happened.  She said that her granddaughter didn't mean to offend me.  I 
> saw
> Kiana at the bus stop this morning and really espected an apology, but 
> there
> was none coming.  I guess I should be satisfied that her grandmother knew
> what happened, but it really bugs me. V 


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