[blparent] finger food suggestions for an almost toddler

Thu Feb 26 23:20:16 UTC 2009

I thought of something else we use to give my daughter.  Instead of yogurt,
we gave her gogurt.  It is frozen yogurt that comes in a package like those
flavored ice things.  We would just cut them in to pieces, and she could eat
them with her fingers cause they were still kind of frozen.

Michael Baldwin
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Sent: Thursday, February 26, 2009 4:38 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] finger food suggestions for an almost toddler

That's a good idea.  Infact, I think this is what i did. V
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From: "Pipi" <blahblahblah0822 at gmail.com>
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Sent: Wednesday, February 25, 2009 3:28 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] finger food suggestions for an almost toddler

> have you tried giving her a spoon that she can play with and then try
> feeding her with another spoon?
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
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> Sent: Wednesday, February 25, 2009 1:21 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] finger food suggestions for an almost toddler
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>> Oh ya, I just remembered, noodles.  I also put noodles on the tray, but I
>> did put a little yogurt in a shallow bowl with one of those spoons with a
>> rubber covering.  Just remember to give her a variety. You're doing a
>> great job, mom. V
>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: "Jo Elizabeth Pinto" <jopinto at pcdesk.net>
>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 3:43 PM
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] finger food suggestions for an almost toddler
>>
>>
>>> Sarah has three teeth in now, and more coming.  I've given her lots of
>>> different table foods, cut up in small pieces.  She just got up from her
>>> nap
>>> and had some diced ham and some peas, also some chopped pears and 
>>> peaches
>>> from the fruit cocktail I ate for lunch.  She's a good eater when it
>>> comes
>>> to finger foods.  But I had been giving her that stuff in addition to a
>>> few
>>> jars of baby food a day, usually one dinner combination and one fruit,
>>> sometimes a serving of whole milk yogurt, along with her bottles.  It's
>>> the
>>> spoon stuff she doesn't seem to want, so I'll have to make diced solid
>>> foods
>>> a bigger part of her diet.  It's just going to take a little more
>>> planning
>>> than opening jars, I guess.
>>>
>>> Jo Elizabeth
>>>
>>> "Don't throw away the old bucket until you know whether the new one 
>>> holds
>>> water."--Swedish proverb
>>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>>> From: "Barbara Hammel" <poetlori8 at msn.com>
>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>> Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 1:25 PM
>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] finger food suggestions for an almost toddler
>>>
>>>
>>>> Okay, I'm not sure this will be of much help because my child is blind,
>>>> but he is six and his arms are a lot longer.  What I do is put my 
>>>> finger
>>>> on his mouth so I know where the head is turning and then I come from
>>>> above with the spoon so I'm above the arms.
>>>> What if you just made regular spaghetti and cut it up small with a
>>>> scissors or put it through the food processor for a few seconds to make
>>>> the pieces smaller.  How many teeth does she have now?  Couldn't she 
>>>> eat
>>>> any kind of table food now as long as it's given in small pieces?
>>>> Barbara
>>>>
>>>> If wisdom's ways you wisely seek, five things observe with care:  of
>>>> whom
>>>> you speak, to whom you speak, and how and when and where.
>>>>
>>>> --------------------------------------------------
>>>> From: "Jo Elizabeth Pinto" <jopinto at pcdesk.net>
>>>> Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 1:26 PM
>>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>> Subject: [blparent] finger food suggestions for an almost toddler
>>>>
>>>>> Hi, all.  Sarah and I just got finished with the lunch from hell.  Or
>>>>> at
>>>>> least that's the way I perceive it--she seems pretty satisfied with 
>>>>> the
>>>>> world now that it's over--she's babbling happily and playing with the
>>>>> pots and pans in my kitchen cupboards like nothing happened, like her
>>>>> clothes and mine, and our hair, and the high chair aren't covered with
>>>>> Gerber spaghetti and meat sauce, like we weren't both near tears five
>>>>> minutes ago.  I feel like I got hit by a train and dragged for a 
>>>>> little
>>>>> while.  A slight exaggeration maybe, but only a slight one.
>>>>>
>>>>> Sarah and I have been having battles lately over the spoon, most of
>>>>> which
>>>>> I lose.  It isn't that she doesn't want food, she's fortunately not a
>>>>> picky eater.  She'll try anything.  The deal is, she wants to feed
>>>>> herself.  Fair enough, that's the end goal, right?  But the spoon is
>>>>> too
>>>>> cumbersome for her, so she resorts to her hands.  That's fine, as long
>>>>> as
>>>>> she's eating diced banana or sweet potato or bits of meat or
>>>>> hard-boiled
>>>>> egg yolk, or whole round peas, or Cheerios.  But those foods alone
>>>>> hardly
>>>>> make up a balanced diet.  She needs other things that are too soft and
>>>>> runny to pick up, like yogurt and such, and she absolutely won't allow
>>>>> me
>>>>> to feed her with a spoon.  If I can manage to hold down her two wildly
>>>>> waving fists with one hand, she flops her head madly from side to side
>>>>> so
>>>>> I can't get the dreaded spoon anywhere near her mouth with the other,
>>>>> and
>>>>> she ends up with food behind her ears, across her eyebrows, down her
>>>>> neck--you get the picture.  And you can imagine the screeching sound
>>>>> track that goes with it.  I'm finding it hard to be calm and patient.
>>>>> This time, after many tries, I gave up on the spoon altogether because
>>>>> I
>>>>> don't want the high chair to become a power struggle or a source of
>>>>> traumatic memories, and I sure don't want to cross the line into force
>>>>> feeding.  I had that done to me as a child and still suffer the
>>>>> effects.
>>>>> I thickened the Gerber spaghetti and meat sauce with cereal so it 
>>>>> would
>>>>> hold together and just let her shovel it into her mouth with both 
>>>>> hands
>>>>> from the high chair tray, and then cleaned up the big mess afterward.
>>>>> Gerald can feed Sarah with a spoon, but she certainly isn't willing,
>>>>> it's
>>>>> just that he can see the flailing hands and the dodging mouth and 
>>>>> sneak
>>>>> bites in on her. But he isn't here most of the time, and I have a
>>>>> responsibility to figure this out.
>>>>>
>>>>> Anyway, besides the catharsis of writing this all out when I feel I
>>>>> have
>>>>> to tell most people most of the time that things are utterly perfect,
>>>>> otherwise I'm afraid they'll be doubting me as a parent and, in the
>>>>> case
>>>>> of my family, wondering if they should intervene--I guess my question
>>>>> is
>>>>> how do I resolve this stalemate?  I know I should give Sarah more
>>>>> finger
>>>>> foods, and I'll be looking for every new idea I can get on that front.
>>>>> But till she can feed herself with a spoon, how can I help her and the
>>>>> mealtime skirmishes that nobody really wins?  It's so odd because she
>>>>> has
>>>>> no wish to hold her own bottle or learn to drink from a cup, but she
>>>>> wants to feed herself no matter what.
>>>>>
>>>>> Thanks,
>>>>> Jo Elizabeth
>>>>>
>>>>> "Don't throw away the old bucket until you know whether the new one
>>>>> holds
>>>>> water."--Swedish proverb
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