[blparent] Help

Thu Jul 16 01:41:47 UTC 2009

yes we have told her what she says hurt but we want her to be able to speak 
her mind with out us getting angry at her.  we try to sit down atleast once 
or twice a week for a little girl time and talk time between us.  I let her 
tell me everything that is on her mind and keep it completely open with her.

Jennifer

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Eva Adams" <eadams15 at gmail.com>
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 5:06 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] Help

> Did u guys try to explain to her that it hurts his feelings when she does
> things because he is blind? Most little kids don't want to hurt people
> feeling, but they might not realize that they are. Maybe a punishment for
> acting up might help her know that she won't get away with her bad 
> behavior.
> Like when your boy friend found out she was throughing her toys out the
> window, then in form her since she was not being good she can't play in 
> her
> room for the rest of the day. I might also tell her that I guess that she
> didn't want the toys she through out the window, and put those toys up for 
> a
> bit. I would definitely not ignore her behavior. I don't know just my
> thoughts.
>
> Eva
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Jennifer Massey" <renandstimpy3 at comcast.net>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 11:44 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
>
>
>> lovely a few years huh.  I guess telling her when she feels like she is
>> going to be bad to come talk to us won't work then.  sorry being 
>> sarcastic
>> a bit and fustrated.  Last week she pushed her screen out her window and
>> started throwing her toys out of it.  we live in an apartment and the
>> rental office called him to let him know I was working a double.  last
>> week I worked 63 hours, worked 4 double shifts and still having financial
>> issues and the kids just make me sooo fustrated when they do stuff like
>> this and then finally to find out why makes it even more fustrating when
>> we can't find a way to fix it.
>>
>> Jennifer and dustin
>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: "The BlindTechs Network" <info at theblindtechsnetwork.com>
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>> Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 1:26 AM
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
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>>> she'll grow out of this. I currently deal with this with my 8 and a 
>>> half
>>> year old daughter and I do everything humanly possible for her.
>>>
>>> it isn't an attention thing its a I'm a little kid and I got something
>>> to use to my advantage thing.
>>>
>>> give it time, like a couple of years time.
>>>
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>>>
>>> On Jul 14, 2009, at 9:52 PM, Jennifer Massey wrote:
>>>
>>> My boyfriend has no vision but my children do. He watches them 2 or 3
>>> days a week sometimes for more then 8 hours a day.  My daughter who 
>>> will
>>> be 6 soon told him today that she does the things that she does  that 
>>> are
>>> bad because he can't see her do them.  This hurt him very  much.  We are
>>> not sure what to do at this point and any advice would  be helpful.  I
>>> have tried spending extra time with her when I can and  giving her some
>>> positive attention.  This week we have swimming which  we always do
>>> together not only has a family but we each take some  individual time
>>> with both of the kids, we also are taking both the  kids to a carnival 
>>> on
>>> friday and we are all going to the zoo on  saturday.  We really try to
>>> spend as much time as we can with them in  the positive and not sure why
>>> my daughter is lashing out so much  towards him in general.  When I am 
>>> at
>>> home she doesn't do this and  when she is with her dad and his wife she
>>> doesn't do it either.  Just  with him.
>>>
>>> Jennifer and Dustin
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