[blparent] Thanks, Mom!

Mon May 18 13:42:44 UTC 2009

um, this is a cool email and all. but yeh, I do this stuff 365 days  
out of the year, and I act as both Daddy and mommy because we don't  
have a Mommy who is too involved.

I asked my daughter one day, "do you know what love is?" and when she  
asked what, I told her this, while I was digging her vomit out of the  
tub drain with my bare hands after a morning of her being sick and  
having the fever.

I don't think she got the meaning but what ever.
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On May 8, 2009, at 8:01 PM, Robert Shelton wrote:

This is for the mothers who have sat up all night with sick toddlers in
their arms, wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and cherry
Kool-Aid saying, "It's alright honey, Mommy's here."

Who have sat in rocking chairs for hours on end soothing crying babies  
who
can't be comforted..

This is for all the mothers who show up at work with spit-up in their  
hair
and milk stains on their blouses and diapers in their purse.
For all the mothers who run carpools and make cookies and sew Halloween
costumes.

This is for the mothers who gave birth to babies they'll never see.

And the mothers who took those babies and gave them homes.

And for the mothers who lost their baby in that precious 9 months that  
they
will never get to watch grow on earth but one day will be reunited  
with in
Heaven!

This is for the mothers whose priceless art collections are hanging on  
their
refrigerator doors.

And for all the mothers who froze their buns on metal bleachers at  
football
or soccer games instead of watching from the warmth of their cars, so  
that
when their kids asked, "Did you see me, Mom?" they could say, "Of  
course, I
wouldn't have missed it for the world," and mean it.

This is for all the mothers who yell at their kids in the grocery  
store and
swat them in despair when they stomp their feet and scream for ice cream
before dinner.

And for all the mothers who count to ten instead, but realize how child
abuse happens.

This is for all the mothers who sat down with their children and  
explained
all about making babies. And for all the (grand) mothers who wanted  
to, but
just couldn't find the words.

This is for all the mothers who go hungry, so their children can eat.

For all the mothers who read "Goodnight, Moon" twice a night for a year.

And then read it again.  "Just one more time."

This is for all the mothers who taught their children to tie their  
shoelaces
before they started school.  And for all the mothers who opted for  
Velcro
instead.

This is for all the mothers who teach their sons to cook and their  
daughters
to sink a jump shot.

This is for every mother whose head turns automatically when a little  
voice
calls "Mom?" in a crowd, even though they know their own offspring are  
at
home -- or even away at college.

This is for all the mothers who sent their kids to school with stomach  
aches
assuring them they'd be just FINE once they got there, only to get calls
from the school nurse an hour later asking them to please pick them up.
Right away.

This is for mothers whose children have gone astray, who can't find the
words to reach them.

This is for all the step-mothers who raised another woman's child or
children, and gave their time, attention, and love...sometimes totally
unappreciated!

For all the mothers who bite their lips until they bleed when their
14-year-olds dye their hair green.

For all the mothers of the victims of recent school shootings, and the
mothers of those who did the shooting.

For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of  
their
TV's in horror, hugging their child who just came home from school,  
safely.

This is for all the mothers who taught their children to be peaceful,  
and
now pray they come home safely from a war.

What makes a good Mother anyway?  Is it patience?  Compassion?  Broad  
hips?

The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and sew a button on a shirt,  
all
at the same time?

Or is it in her heart?

Is it the ache you feel when you watch your son or daughter disappear  
down
the street, walking to school alone for the very first time?

The jolt that takes you from sleep to dread, from bed to crib at 2  
A.M. to
put your hand on the back of a sleeping baby?

The panic, years later, that comes again at 2 A.M. when you just want to
hear their key in the door and know they are safe again in your home?

Or the need to flee from wherever you are and hug your child when you  
hear
news of a fire, a car accident, a child dying?

The emotions of motherhood are universal and so our thoughts are for  
young
mothers stumbling through diaper changes and sleep deprivation...

And mature mothers learning to let go.

For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers.

Single mothers and married mothers.

Mothers with money, mothers without.

This is for you all.

For all of us.

Hang in there.

In the end we can only do the best we can.

Tell them every day that we love them.

And pray.

"Home is what catches you when you fall - and we all fall."

.

I

-----Original Message-----
From: Karen Zakhnini (by way of David Andrews <dandrews at visi.com>)
[mailto:Outreach at nfb.org]
Sent: Thursday, May 07, 2009 4:03 PM
To: david.andrews at nfbnet.org
Subject: [blparent] Thanks, Mom!

Great Moms

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