[blparent] sad time

[Veronica Smith]

I will.  I tried that when it happened, but I think it was too real then.  I
will attempt that again.  V

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Elizabeth Cooks
Sent: Wednesday, November 18, 2009 4:28 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] sad time

It may also help to talk about your beliefs about what happens after death. 
Where is her Grandmother now?  That sort of thing.We did that with Angelica 
when my father died, and that seemed to help a lot.
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Tuesday, November 17, 2009 7:43 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] sad time


> thanks, this is exactly what the school counselor said.  Draw pictures and
> tell happy stories.  During dinner this evening my husband, Gab and I 
> played
> a happy word game.  Something that makes you happy.  She has been 
> clutching
> her chest all day, as  I kept her home after her Dr appointment.  Maybe
> after a good nights sleep, she will feel good.  Tomorrow she reads to a
> kindergartener and really looks forward to it.  Thursday she will meet a
> group of kids all experiencing the same thing.  V
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Jo Elizabeth Pinto
> Sent: Monday, November 16, 2009 5:43 PM
> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [blparent] sad time
>
> Hi, Veronica.  I'm just shooting in the dark, but I know sometimes 
> emotions
> will manifest themselves in physical ways, especially if someone doesn't
> feel okay to be having those emotions.  Maybe you could tell your daughter
> that it's all right for her to be sad about the loss of her grandmother, 
> and
>
> it's helpful to cry or express that sadness with her dolls or by drawing
> pictures or in other creative ways.  Maybe that would help.
>
> Jo Elizabeth
>
> Until lions have their historians, tales of the hunt shall always glorify
> the hunters.--African Proverb
>
> --------------------------------------------------
> From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
> Sent: Monday, November 16, 2009 3:52 PM
> To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Subject: [blparent] sad time
>
>> I told you all that my mother passed away in August.  Well, my darling
>> daughter is not doing well at all.  She is not sleeping much and crys all
>> the time.  She is now experiencing chest pains that only occur at night.
>> Some where around 6 or so, after it gets dark and night is approaching,
>> she
>> starts complaining that her chest hurts.  I know it is psychological bc 
>> it
>> only happens at night. The school counselor has been gone and just
>> recently
>> returned and she is going to put Gab in a group with others who have lost
>> family members.  I feel so helpless and don't know exactly what to do.  I
>> also made a dr appointment for her, as I keep saying it is psychological,
>> but what if it is indeed more serious.  Chest pains.  Thanks for
>> listening.
>> I know this is not a blindness issue, but I feel that you all might be
>> able
>> to help. V
>>
>>
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