[blparent] wow! ...

[Rhonda Kubehl]

Jo! That's how Corban is! ... he hates things messy! ... so I believe if I tell him, it has to stay like tat for ever, he wont!!!!!

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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Jo Elizabeth Pinto
Sent: Monday, August 23, 2010 11:06 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] wow! ...

Sarah colored on the wall for the first time the other day.  Interestingly 
enough, as soon as she did it, she took my hand and put it where the marks 
were, and said, "Big mess!  Paper towel!  Big mess on wall, paper towel!"  I 
got a sponge and some soap, and tried to wipe off the mess, and I missed 
some.  So she showed me with her hand and said, "Right there!  Big mess!"  I 
was surprised that the marks on the wall seemed to bother her so much.  She 
does the same thing if she has a spill.  It's all very odd.

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From: "Rhonda Kubehl" <rhondakubehl at gmail.com>
Sent: Monday, August 23, 2010 9:59 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] wow! ...

> He knows right from wrong, he did it once, its not like twas a daily 
> richuel!
> He did it just once, usually, he doesn't do those things, we punish him 
> iif he needs it! .
> I made him clean it up, and asked when he was done if he'll do it again 
> ... he said
> "Mommy, I dislike it ... don’t like cleaning it."
> I told him, if it ws done again, he loose is art set for 1 day ... and 
> that's his favorite thing to do  when it's raining.. or windingdown after 
> dinner, and befor a bath! ,,, or mommy will choose yr snack, wich also, he 
> hates!
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On 
> Behalf Of Veronica Smith
> Sent: Monday, August 23, 2010 10:47 PM
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>
> This is the best time to teach him right from wrong, you will be in 
> trouble if you wait till he is a school age child or a  teen.  Children 
> like to play, but rules must be interwined in that play.  Gab loved to 
> play and she is very creative, but she also found that writing was not a 
> good thing if on the furnature or walls.  You don't wait  to teach them 
> right from wrong until they are too big to control. V
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On 
> Behalf Of Rhonda Kubehl
> Sent: Monday, August 23, 2010 7:22 PM
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>
> We have a art table in his room, crayons, coloring books, stickers, and  I 
> will not take away from his ability to be creatie.
> I don't believe in punishing for everything he does, he learns b by being 
> creative.
> Nomatter how smart a he is, he's a toddler, and still does toddler things 
> ... so, why punish him for being a child?
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On 
> Behalf Of Brandy W
> Sent: Monday, August 23, 2010 8:10 PM
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>
> I would make sure crayons and things are out of reach unless you are 
> monitoring him. I would clean it up together and since he seems so smart 
> tell him that if he writes on things not for writing again blank will 
> happen. Bran
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On Aug 23, 2010, at 7:33 PM, "Rhonda Kubehl" <rhondakubehl at gmail.com> 
> wrote:
>
>> Today, my 22 ½ month corban  wrote
>>
>> A b c d e f g, and 1 2 3 4 5 6 on the side of his dresser with crayons! …
>>
>> I’m not sure if I should praise him, or punish him.
>>
>> What would you do?
>>
>>
>>
>> I gave him paper, and showed him you use this, not the dresser.
>>
>> He was so super proud of himself.
>>
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