[blparent] It really happens

Tue Jun 22 02:19:28 UTC 2010

I thought it sounded like he was a jerk. V

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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Sharin
Sent: Monday, June 21, 2010 9:14 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] It really happens

Something to consider, you never know what kind of relationship that little
girl has with her dad, when she's not even willing to try and persuade him.
He sounds more than a bit controlling, and judging from her comment that
when he says no, that's that, this seems to show up in a lot of other
situations.  

Sharin
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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Veronica Smith
Sent: Monday, June 21, 2010 12:08 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] It really happens

It just makes me so mad when someone won't even hear me out.  In this case,
the little girl wouldn't even point at her dad so Gab could point me in the
right direction.  Oh well.  We went by the park this evening on our mile
walk, but that family wasn't there.  Oh well, I was hoping that if the dad
saw me walking the neighborhood, he'd have a better opinion of blind people.
V

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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Tammy, Paul and Colyn
Sent: Sunday, June 20, 2010 6:54 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] It really happens

Hi,

This is exactly what I thought as I read Veronica's message.  Some people 
just don't think about the longterm effects their snap decisions will have. 
He could have at least come over and talked to you first.

Tammy
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Jo Elizabeth Pinto" <jopinto at pcdesk.net>
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Sunday, June 20, 2010 5:36 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] It really happens

> That's so sad.  Beyond the pure insanity of not letting your child play 
> with someone just because she's blind, and the way it made you feel, what 
> that man was teaching his little girl is that you don't want to interact 
> with people who are different from you.  That's not what we need in this 
> world. Chalk it up to "you can't fix stupid" and move on.
>
> --------------------------------------------------
> From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
> Sent: Sunday, June 20, 2010 3:20 PM
> To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Subject: [blparent] It really happens
>
>> Ok, this is the way it went.  Gab and I went to the park yesterday 
>> evening
>> to kick a ball.  We bought one of those big rubber balls found in a big 
>> net
>> in most supermarkets.  Gab would kick it to me and as it swished past on 
>> the
>> grass it would make just that sound.  Then in return I'd kick it way up 
>> high
>> and she'd run to get it.
>> Well there was a younger girl watching us and she asked Gab why I didn't
>> just walk up to it when it landed near me.  I used my cane to find it. 
>> Gab
>> told her that I was blind and this is how I found the ball.  The girl,
>> probably around 8, asked if she could play with us and we said 
>> absolutely.
>> She said she had to ask her dad first and off she went to ask him.  We
>> continued playing.  A few moments later she returned and announced that 
>> her
>> dad said she could not play with us since I was blind.  Iwas shocked and
>> offered to go talk to her dad.  But she said when he says no, that is 
>> that.
>> So since gab likes playing with the kids at the park, I sat on the bench 
>> and
>> let the girls play.
>> That was the first time, I think, I have had someone say that. Weird! V
>>
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