[blparent] (no subject)

Sun Nov 14 22:20:20 UTC 2010

Hi,

I'm still trying to figure out what I'm supposed to be jealous of.  I have two happy and healthy boys who are well-adjusted and normal, and another baby on the way, I have a husband who doesn't use his blineness as an excuse to get out of housework or anything else, and last but certainly not least, I have no fears, either founded or unfounded that one of my relatives is going to kidnap my children because they think I'm an inadequate parent.  So Dena, if you figure out what we're supposed to be jealous of, could you let me know please?  In return, I'll let you know if I ever find "Motyer," in the dictionary or anywhere else.  

Tammy

From: Dena Wainwright 
Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 4:52 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] (no subject)

As soon as I figure out what a "motyer" is, I'll certainly do that...
Dena

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Rhonda" <rhondakubehl at gmail.com>
To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 12:55 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] (no subject)

>I believe that I have every right to state my opinion in what ever form I
> please.
> It seems like we have jealous people out hear, and I have nothing to prove
> to them.
> Non of you teach my child, nor, do you know my child.
> I was told by several people that have subscribed, and un subscribed to 
> this
> group, that there were a bunch of rude people that think they know every 
> one
> better than they know themselves, and I found it out.
> For 1, you aren't my motyer, there fore, I say what I want.
> So, back off!
> Like I said, I don't have to prove my sons intelligents to you, nor no one
> else in this American nation.
> Believe what you like, I'm his mother, you aren't.
> So, do yourself a favor both Tami, and Deana... back off!
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Dena Wainwright
> Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 12:44 PM
> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [blparent] (no subject)
>
> OK. Really. An IQ of 180? You cannot do an accurate IQ test on a 
> 2-year-old
> child. And, even if you could, there is considerable debate about the
> validity of IQ tests, period. The people on this list aren't stupid, and 
> we
> didn't fall off the turnip truck yesterday.
>
> Dena
>
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Rhonda Kubehl" <rhondakubehl at gmail.com>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 8:48 AM
> Subject: [blparent] (no subject)
>
>
>> i'm simply writing to discus my issue with the group...
>>
>> I thought this group was to share parenting advice, wows, etc.
>> i have met some good people, but \i also met people that think they know
>> everything.
>>
>>
>> i'm tired of people comparing my child to there child... simply because
>> children are like apples, and oranges, 1 maybe be cognativly developed, 1
>> may not be... what ever the case is, all are different.
>>
>> i posted earlier, to shaire my sons wows... and some one came to me 
>> saying
>
>> how they didn't believe that my son can comprehend, nor understand
>> anything i said he could.... when I darn well know my child.
>> i don't have to lie about his development, nor do i have to stretch the
>> truth, to what he can, or can't do... Just like you, i know my childs
>> potintial, no-one does.... know one knows him like his parents, teacher,
>> or family.
>>
>> My son has always been advanced in many things.
>> Rolling over at 2 weeks from tummy, to back, sitting at 2 months, 
>> crawling
>
>> at 3 months, to walking holding on to objects at 4 closer to 5 months, 
>> had
>
>> a mouth full of teeth at 4 months... nursing him was great lol... NOT! 
>> ...
>
>> but he needed that nutrition, and asw a mommy, it was my job to provide
>> him with it.
>> corban was 6 close to seven months when he took his for leap of faith, 
>> let
>
>> go of the coffee table, and holled tail... hasn't been still since then
>> lol.
>> also at nine months, he was able to use simple 2 word sintences like Me
>> mommy, or me bye bye... one word at 8 months his favorte STOP, and NO...
>> he would also sign what he could not say... I did sing language from day
>> 1, many criticized me for it... but it made a difference in my house
>> hold... he has always been a demanding little bug.
>> At 10 months, we started potty training... daytime went well, we still
>> struggled with night time for a while, he caught on the day time potty
>> training by 11 1/2 months, and his 1st birthday, he was in underware.
>> He started showing intrest in night time potty training at 14 1/2
>> months... and has it downpacked... with a few accidents due to daddy
>> giving in, and giving him a cippy at night... but he hates to be wet.
>> i was looking for cloth pullups simply because he doesn't want to ware a
>> diaper... he says its for babies, and thanks to several of you, we found
>> them.
>> we also used the your baby can read system since day 1... Its a great
>> program... and works well with consistancy... and he absolutely loved it!
>> Once I get everything together, we will pass it on to another lucky 
>> child.
>> so, at 2, we had him tested, so we could send him to christian school, 
>> and
>
>> get him in a learning center at lease twice a week, because he's a 
>> Mommy's
>
>> boy, and i don't want to hinder his social development.
>> we found out allot...
>> He knows all 26 letters, how to write them, and can clearly pronounce
>> them, knows all his numbers to 10, we'tre working on 11-20, when he wants
>> to... i believe in learinging threw play... and he loves it!
>> He knows number-letters in english, wich is his main language, and
>> spanish... I'm wanting to teacvh him German, but I think I'll wait...
>> because his brain is like a spunge, I want to teach him what he needs to
>> know.... adding fun to it.
>> He's in the stage of wanting to know what, and why everything happens...
>> we don't pussy-foot arround it, we tell him in a way that a child needs 
>> it
>
>> in.
>> He asked me what Viagra was the other day, and I told him... grandma is
>> letting you watch too much unsincered television, you aren't old
>> enough.... he pouted for a while, but he got over it.
>> Yes, I studied child development, I have an associates degree in Child
>> development, going for my PHd in Child Psycology... so, it amazes me, 
>> when
>
>> people say how they studied the subject, there's no-way he is that
>> advanced.... it also annoyes me, because they compare him to there
>> child... and all children are different.
>> Yes, I was amazed on how he has developed, and I'm sstill amazed watching
>> him and what he does... and each day, he learns something new and
>> different... tha wows me!
>> Like, the man on the street.... After he,and i had that convo, I had to
>> pinch myself... its amazing how kids watch you, and mimic what you do....
>> also, how much childrens chursh is helping him... we never put him in the
>> nursery.... we always had him in adults church, with his kids bible...
>> now, that's his favorite book...
>> each day, is a new challenge... because he thinks he knows more than
>> mommy, but that's ok...
>> as I email this now, he is sitting at the table writing.... and showing
>> his father how to spell his name... kids lol :p
>> it makes me a proud MOMMY!...
>> Many have asked me, how he got so smart... I go i donno.... The grace Of
>> God I rechon.
>> That's honestly the only thing i can say... because i'm still amazed.
>> His words are clear, his spech is vary clear, and he understands more 
>> than
>
>> I want him to...
>> He likes to pretend he's cooking, or cleaning, or loves to help daddy fix
>> things.... it scares me when daddy allows him to help with things that
>> won't hurt himm... i guess, because I always get the worse in my head.
>> so, before people tell me what my child can, or can't do... i think it is
>> respectful for them to get to know me, and meet my little dude... his IQ
>> was 180, I'v been told he was gifted... i tell people, don't brag, I 
>> don't
>
>> want him to get a big head.... I thank them as well.
>>
>> thanks for reading.
>> ubehl
>>
>> rhonda K
>>
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