[blparent] A Little Scare

Wed Oct 20 14:27:38 UTC 2010

V, you must have read my mind:)

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
On Behalf Of Veronica Smith
Sent: Friday, October 15, 2010 6:08 PM
To: 'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'
Subject: Re: [blparent] A Little Scare

Can you fix your door  so it doesn't automatically lock.  That's what
happened to me when Gab was a  toddler and I had the lock/door knob
changed.
V

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
On
Behalf Of Jo Elizabeth Pinto
Sent: Thursday, October 14, 2010 11:52 PM
To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: [blparent] A Little Scare

Sarah and I had a little scare this evening.  I'm writing about it in
hopes
that it might save someone else the trauma.  We're none the worse for
wear,
but unexpected things can happen so quickly you wouldn't believe it.

We went out on the front porch to brush Ballad, my black Labrador guide
dog,
who is shedding right now like there's no tomorrow.  We'd been out there
a
half hour or so, with the front door standing open, and Sarah was
playing
with the combs and brushes.  She had wandered in and out of the house a
few
times, so I didn't think anything of it.  But then she went in and,
quick as
a flash, pushed the big wooden front door shut.

Click!  The door was locked.  Sarah was in the house by herself.  I was
on
the porch with Ballad, but with no harness or leash, no keys, and no
cell
phone.  Sarah soon got upset, banging on the window by the door and
crying
for me to let her out.  I was stuck.

I always carry a spare key with me, but it was safely in the diaper bag,
which was in the house.  One other person who lives in town nearby has a
key, but I had no phone to call her with.  I went to the nearest
neighbor's
house and pounded on his door, but he wasn't home.  I didn't want to
leave
Sarah alone to go further, looking for another neighbor and not able to
be
quick about it with no cane or dog, because I thought it would be worse
for
her if she was by herself and couldn't see or hear me.  Gerald was due
home
in about a half an hour, and I knew it would take nearly that long for
my
friend with the key to wake up since she works nights, drive over to my
house, and let me in.  So I decided that the best plan was to keep Sarah
near the window where she could see me, and where I could hear her and
know
she was all right.  If it were going to be longer than a half an hour, I
would have gone as far as need be to find a phone and called my friend
or
the police department.

Let me tell you, that was the longest half hour I've ever lived through.
Sarah was crying and yelling inside the house the whole time, begging me
to
open the door.  I just kept as calm outwardly as I could and talked to
her,
tapping on the window so she would look out at me and telling her that
everything would be okay, that the door was locked and I couldn't open
it
but Daddy would be coming home soon with the keys.  Inwardly, I felt
like I
was about to lose my mind.

Gerald arrived as expected, and Sarah was fine.  She was easily
consoled,
but she was pretty clingy all evening, and she's woke up calling for me
once
already since I put her to bed.  (Boy, does that make me feel like the
mother of the year or what?)  All's well that ends well, but I can say
for
sure, I'll be having another key made this weekend and hiding it
somewhere
outside.  I've never felt so helpless.  I wanted to smash through the
window
and get inside to my crying baby any way I could.  I'm feeling weepy
just
thinking about it.  I'm already a plan for everything type, thinking of
what
could happen and bringing extra stuff with me just in case, but I'm sure
I'll be even more that way for some time to come.

Jo Elizabeth
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