[blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!

[Peggy]

That's what I was wondering, if you could tell her the bus is for someone 
else and that is why she can't have it ... then move it to another place, at 
least that's what I would do if she were my child.



-----Original Message----- 
From: Pipi
Sent: Wednesday, November 09, 2011 3:58 PM
To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!

Jo Elizabeth,
Is there another small child in the family or friends that you could say the
bus is for? As I sit here and write this, I'm torn on it. I've purchased
gifts for Savannah in front of her and tell her that they are for another
child. She is younger than Sarah though.  On one hand, it's flat out lying
to my daughter. On the other hand I'm a single mom with a very small support
system living in hickville 35 miles away from shopping centers. I know lying
is wrong. Savannah hasn't remembered the lie. She's only been excited that
oh look that toy has appeared again and this time it's mine.
I don't know. It all depends on your own morality I guess. And honestly I'm
questioning my own as I actually write out what I do.
And on the subject of shopping in front of blind children, my sister will
still shop for my gifts in front of me. It doesn't bother me. Hell she has
to get them at some time and why spend the extra time and gas money doing
so. If I wanted to snoop, I could, but that would ruin the fun.
Pipi
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Jo Elizabeth Pinto" <jopinto at msn.com>
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, November 09, 2011 1:40 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!


> Yeah, we're having an issue because Sarah knows about that stupid bus, and 
> now she wants it, and we've had a really crabby day.
>
> Jo Elizabeth
>
> "How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, 
> compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant 
> of the weak and the strong.  Because someday in life you will have been 
> all of these."--George Washington Carver, 1864-1943, American scientist
>
> --------------------------------------------------
> From: "Erin Rumer" <erinrumer at gmail.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, November 09, 2011 12:24 PM
> To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!
>
>> As far as kids finding gifts in hidden places goes, it might help to  try
>> what my parents did which was tell me that Santa can't store everything 
>> for
>> all the children in the world at the North Pole and so he have parents 
>> store
>> some gifts ahead of time to help him out.  My sister and I came across 
>> some
>> hidden or should I say, some not so well hidden gifts when we were kids 
>> and
>> my parents would tell us this along with the disclaimer that Santa only 
>> gave
>> us those gifts for being good to open on Christmas day and they could go
>> away just as easily as they came if we tried to push the subject.  This 
>> shut
>> my sister and I up really quick. GRIN
>>
>> Erin
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
>> Behalf Of Jo Elizabeth Pinto
>> Sent: Wednesday, November 09, 2011 9:33 AM
>> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
>> Subject: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!
>>
>> Hi.  For any of you moms who have little ones starting to run around and 
>> get
>> into things, I thought I'd warn you about something I just learned the 
>> hard
>> way.  *Smile.*  They'll see everything, especially what you don't want 
>> them
>> to, and they'll remember.  They're smarter than we give them credit for.
>>
>> I bought Sarah the Little People school bus because she's really into 
>> buses
>> and planes and the like right now.  The package came from Amazon while 
>> she
>> was at preschool about a month ago, and I threw the boxes in the 
>> recycling
>> bin and hid the toy at the top of my closet, thinking I was pretty slick.
>> Well, she saw part of a picture on one box sticking out of the bin.  She
>> asked about it, and I glossed over it.  We moved on, and I thought she'd
>> forgotten about the bus.
>>
>> So this morning, I went to get a shirt from the closet, and Sarah 
>> wandered
>> in behind me.  All at once, she started jumping up and down, saying, "I 
>> see
>> it!  Up there!  The bus toy really is here!  I want that bus toy!"
>>
>> I guess I didn't hide it well enough.  She saw the box peeking out from
>> under a blanket on a high shelf and remembered the picture from the
>> recycling bin.  She had a bit of a meltdown because she knew the toy was
>> there, but I wouldn't get it off the shelf for her.  I couldn't really
>> explain why, either.  Now Santa Claus can't bring that toy to her, 
>> either,
>> because it'll blow his cover.  I'll have to give it to her from Mom and 
>> Dad,
>> or maybe from her brother Stephen.  Anyway, my point is, when I was a 
>> kid,
>> my family could (and did) wrap my presents right in front of me.  But
>> obviously, blind parents of sighted kids have to be very careful about 
>> these
>> things.
>>
>> Jo Elizabeth
>>
>> "How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young,
>> compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant 
>> of
>> the weak and the strong.  Because someday in life you will have been all 
>> of
>> these."--George Washington Carver, 1864-1943, American scientist
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