[blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!

[Sheila Leigland]

Yes rebecca I agree. All kids do it it is just noticed more or seems to be if there is a disability involved. Kids will do things because there human like the rest of us.

Sheila Leigland

-----Original Message-----
From: Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC) <REBECCA.PICKRELL at tasc.com>
Sent: Thursday, November 10, 2011 10:11 AM
To: 'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List' <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Subject: Re: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!

The kid is six, that's part of growing up, learning what lies matter and what doesn't. We all try to do things we can get away with. It's called being human. 
Or to be more blunt, he'd be pulling that crap if one or both of his parents could see. 


-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Marla Wertman
Sent: Thursday, November 10, 2011 11:40 AM
To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!

But we as adults have to teach them morals and respect.I have a friend
who's child who is 6 is trying to get away with things because Mom and
Dad are blind. This behavior starts somewhare. Maybe he has seen other
family members do it. I just think we need to be careful of the messages
we send kids.
On Thu, 10 Nov 2011 14:02:50 +0000
"Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC)" <REBECCA.PICKRELL at tasc.com> wrote:

> Kids are smart. They'd only be confused by this senario if they wanted to be.
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Marla Wertman
> Sent: Wednesday, November 09, 2011 5:11 PM
> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!
> 
> I totally agree Peggy. But at the same time, I think we blind or sighted
> need to be carefull about justifying lies to children. For example, sure
> it's Ok to lie about Christmas or birthday presents, but children don't
> understand the context. So for example, if I have a child  who happens
> to be sighted, and he plays with a blind friend, and he comes home with
> a toy that belongs to the friend and he justifies, "well, I took this
> toy because my friend couldn't see me doing it" How  do you then
> rationalize that it is or is not ok to do things in front of a blind
> person  because they can't see. I think when it comes to presents we
> rationalize lying and it could confuse kids.
> On Wed, 09 Nov 2011 16:02:22 -0600
> "Peggy" <pshald at neb.rr.com> wrote:
> 
> > Thanks for the warning, I should have given it to you guys only before this
> > happened!!  My older kids have seen presents before it was time when I
> > forgot they were in a closet and opened a door or in a drawer or under
> > something ... those little eyes are quick!!!  Once when it was my older
> > son's bday he went into my bedroom and I didn't know it and before I found
> > him he'd gotten all of his wrapped bday presents out and unwrapped them,
> > sneaky little farts that they are, lol!!
> >
> > As far as the whole sneaking things in because you're blind or married or
> > whatever, I see both sides of it and there are different situations for
> > everyone.  I'm sure my parents shopped for me while I was with them because
> > I'm blind, I know my daughter still does it because sometimes she won't let
> > me feel in the cart.  Does it bother me??  Heck no because I'd do the same
> > thing.  My middle child isn't very observant and a lot of times I buy his
> > presents with him right there and he never notices.  My lo is too little to
> > remember so I buy his presents with him there as well.  Blind or little or
> > non-observant, I think all of us have to do what we can to get sooooo many
> > things done at once and especially with blind parents while we have the
> > sighted assistance to help.
> >
> >
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Jo Elizabeth Pinto
> > Sent: Wednesday, November 09, 2011 10:32 AM
> > To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
> > Subject: [blparent] Beware those sharp little eyes!
> >
> > Hi.  For any of you moms who have little ones starting to run around and get
> > into things, I thought I'd warn you about something I just learned the hard
> > way.  *Smile.*  They'll see everything, especially what you don't want them
> > to, and they'll remember.  They're smarter than we give them credit for