[blparent] children drowning in shallow water

Thu Apr 5 22:35:59 UTC 2012

I have a good friend who knows somebody whose ten-year-old daughter nearly 
drowned last summer when she was the only one in the pool.  She was a good 
swimmer, but somehow she slipped and went under.  She lived, but she has 
severe physical and cognitive disabilities now.  Her parents and brother 
were moving boxes out of her grandmother's apartment, and the pool was right 
there in the courtyard, so they were parading past the whole time.  But like 
you said, they were distracted, and it only took a second.

Jo Elizabeth

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, 
compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of 
the weak and the strong.  Because someday in life you will have been all of 
these."--George Washington Carver, 1864-1943, American scientist

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From: "Erin Rumer" <erinrumer at gmail.com>
Sent: Thursday, April 05, 2012 4:31 PM
To: "'Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Subject: Re: [blparent] children drowning in shallow water

> I met a mom in a breast feeding support group I went to in Tucson who lost
> her 6 year old daughter to drowning in a pool during a family birthday
> party.  I was touched that she was willing to share her story and she told
> me that the hardest thing to deal with is people's judgment toward her and
> her family.  She said that a person really doesn't know how vulnerable 
> they
> are until it happens to them and that it can happen to absolutely anyone.
> The kids were playing and the little girl just got pushed under 
> accidentally
> during the rough housing.  It didn't seem to the adults at the party that
> the playing was out of hand but it didn't take much and there was the 
> little
> 6 year old girl floating on top of the water lifelessly.  This taught me
> that something like this can happen in seconds and to anyone.  It is very
> crucial to also have designated adults who are in charge of manning the 
> pool
> at all times.  Like this woman told me, you get to where people are 
> thinking
> that others are watching the pool and so their guard is let down for a
> second and boom, it happens.  It is when we admit that this could happen 
> to
> us no matter how prepared we are, that we will truly be doing all we can 
> to
> keep our loved ones safe.  I got a wonderful idea from a facilitator at 
> one
> of the play groups I used to attend that I will be administering in my own
> life.  At a get together where there are lots of people is wise to give an
> adult a whistle that they keep around their neck for 15 minutes.  It is
> during that 15 minutes that adult is in charge of the kids in the pool and
> doing nothing else to get distracted.  After the 15 minutes are up, the
> whistle is then passed onto another adult.  This way everyone takes turns
> and isn't boggled down with pool duty for too long.  It's also a good 
> amount
> of time that a person can be focused on the pool without getting 
> distracted.
>
> Erin
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Veronica Smith
> Sent: Thursday, April 05, 2012 2:17 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] children drowning in shallow water
>
> I think if the baby/toddler was 18 months or older, they would be able to
> lift their head or cry if they got water up their nose but what if they 
> were
> younger or if they fell forward and for some reason was not able to push
> away from the shallow water?  I used to think the same as you do, how in 
> the
> world, but since I have read so many articles saying it happens regularly,
> they it must be true.   Like a baby could be sitting playing and he/she
> could fall asleep right into a bowl of water.  they don't know to sit up 
> and
> cough, their lungs aren't developed enough or strong enough to cough it 
> up.
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Tay Laurie
> Sent: Wednesday, April 04, 2012 10:33 PM
> To: Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: [blparent] children drowning in shallow water
>
> Hi everyone,
>
> Please note: in this post, I am not in any way attempting to be 
> insensitive
> to the feelings of any parent whose child has passed on in this or any
> manner. If you feel I have been insensitive, or otherwise inappropriate, 
> you
> may contact me off-list.
>
> Begin post
>
> I know it's logical that of course littler ones are able to drown more
> easily, but I'm not sure I can quite understand how it is a silent killer.
> Is it because the respiratory system isn't developed enough yet to cough?
> Because if so, then how can he or she cough up secretions? I'm not trying 
> to
> be gross, just trying to figure it out. I would think that once water
> entered the hthroat, specifically the trachea (windpipe) the baby would 
> lift
> his or her head, especially if he or she is capable of doing so, say 
> around
> 18 months of age, and would be able to cough it out, much like an
> accidentally inhaled piece of food or sip of drink.
> Am I just thinking about this all wrong?
>
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