[blparent] breastfeeding help
Tammy
tcl189 at rogers.com
Tue Apr 17 03:37:17 UTC 2012
Hi,
Not sure how I came accross as making it seem easy, but my sincere
appologies if anybody thought that. It's so very challenging, and on top of
having a baby and another child to take care of as well my friend was lucky
it worked for her.
Tammy
-----Original Message-----
From: Allie
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2012 8:05 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] breastfeeding help
Whew, OK. I can agree with this. If I unintentionally made it sound easy or
anything like that, I sincerely apologize. It took me many, many stressed,
sleepless, irritable days to get where I wanted to be. I stuck with it,
because that's what I decided, and was rewarded. That's not to say that
everyone attempting relactation will be as successful as I was, just that it
is an option.
I'm only putting it out there in case there was anyone who wasn't aware of
the possibility. *SMILE*
-- Allie
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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Erin Rumer
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2012 4:55 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] breastfeeding help
Okay let's calm down here because you and I are wanting the same common goal
and that is to encourage women to nurse no matter how rare or difficult
their individual situation may be. I just didn't want people thinking that
this reintroducing breast feeding stuff was super common, thus making them
feel like a failure just because they can't with their adopted baby or think
that they can start nursing again like it was nothing after months of
weaning their baby. If it motivated you and helped you nurse again that's
wonderful, but we just need to be careful how we advertise this information
so other women understand the truths behind the subject at hand.
Erin
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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Allie
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2012 4:29 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] breastfeeding help
I'm not interested in how rare you think it is. The simple fact is, the
information is out there to help people successfully breastfeed their babies
if they want to.
My experience was made possible by information gathered on the Internet,
lactation professionals, and a wonderful lady I met on another parenting
list. Had it not been for them, I'd have given up. I didn't once hear from
those people that it was rare and unlikely to work.
I also know one person who benefited from me sharing my story. She said it
helped her be motivated to keep trying at a time when she thought she wasn't
going to be able to breastfeed anymore. That is enough for me to continue
sharing my experience, rare or otherwise.
So, I leave you all with the following helpful links on relactating.
http://www.mothering.com/relactation
http://theleakyboob.com/2011/12/your-guide-to-relactation/
http://www.lalecheleague.org/nb/nbrelactation.html
http://kellymom.com/bf/got-milk/relactation/
-- Allie
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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Erin Rumer
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2012 2:43 PM
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Come on Allie and Tammy, this is an extremely rare thing and you both are
acting like it happens all the time. If this were true, there would be a
lot more women doing it.
Erin
-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Allie
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2012 2:02 PM
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Yes, Tammy is right. *SMILE*
I'd also like to add that, even if you weren't producing milk at all, there
are ways to induce lactation, whether or not you've been pregnant before.
This is how some women are able to breastfeed their adopted babies.
http://www.lalecheleague.org/nb/nbadoptive.html
-- Allie
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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Tammy
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2012 11:08 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] breastfeeding help
Hi,
Her situation isn't rare at all. If a woman is already breast feeding and
stops for any lenth of time up to about 3 months I think it's proven to be,
she can start nursing again. It takes 8 to 12 weeks for the milk to stop
being produced by the body and even longer for the hormlne to stop being
produced and the woman to "dry up."
hth
Tammy
-----Original Message-----
From: Erin Rumer
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2012 12:16 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] breastfeeding help
Hello Allie,
I honestly have never ever heard an actual testimony from a mom who has been
able to do what you did and your situation is beyond rare. The body is
amazing and I have heard of outstanding situations where if someone is
mentally motivated and convinced enough that they can begin lactating it has
been done in extremely rare cases. There have even been women who have
never had a baby who can begin lactating because they're convinced that they
are pregnant and thus the hormones begin to trick the body. I'm glad in
your case that you were able to do this for your daughter but I definitely
don't want people to think that they can do what you were able to do because
your situation was extra ordinary and rare. Thanks for sharing that though,
it's interesting.
Erin
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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Allie
Sent: Sunday, April 15, 2012 2:11 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] breastfeeding help
Good advice, Erin, but I have to disagree with your statement about not
being able to start again. *SMILE* I started nursing my daughter after she'd
been off the breast for almost two months due to complications with gall
bladder surgery. It didn't happen without some effort and patience on my
part, but it happened. :) Baby is the best stimulus for your milk supply.
Even if you have to give her a bottle first, so she's not terribly hungry
when you put her to your breast, and nurse her for comfort, that will help
tremendously.
If you're still willing to stick with it, try taking her somewhere she isn't
so easily distracted. Offer the breast frequently. The phase will pass.
*SMILE*
Allie
-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Erin Rumer
Sent: Friday, April 13, 2012 2:24 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] breastfeeding help
Hello Sabrina,
Since your little girl is still so young I'd encourage you to continue
nursing her as much as possible but if you can't after really giving it a
while, pumping and giving her the formula in bottles as her nutritional
fluid intake is key. This also may just be a phase and you'd hate to stop
nursing and find that she wants to nurse normally again next week or so. It
could be that she's just board or distracted with other things going on
around you so try stepping away with her and make nursing special mommy-baby
bonding time where it's just you and her and no other stimulation. Sing
songs and talk quietly to her during this time and she will more than likely
love this time and look forward to it very much. Since you are feeding with
bottles a decent amount it could also just be that she's having a bit of
nipple confusion and-or just being kind of lazy on the breast since it takes
more work for her to get the milk out. This sucking stimulates proper
development of the jaw and pallet and prevents ear infections amongst many
other benefits, so I encourage you to continue nursing as long as you can
with your daughter. At least try to get her to a year if you can because
even though she's eating solids now, she needs lots of fluid and your milk
will be best for that. The breast milk also aids in digestion of those
solids your daughter's eating and she'll have less bouts of constipation
than if she wasn't drinking your breast milk at all. Just remember that
once you stop nursing you can't start up again so make the most of it.
Best to you and please keep us posted with how it's going.
Erin
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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of sabrina Giles
Sent: Friday, April 13, 2012 2:08 PM
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Subject: [blparent] breastfeeding help
Hi everyone,
So, this question is for those of y'all who have nursed. I have noticed
since Cheyenne has been on solids she hasn't had much interest in nursing.
She'll latch on, and after like ten seconds she'll stop nursing. I've
started pumping my milk and giving it in bottles for some feedings and
formula for others when I don't pump enough to satisfy her.
How can I stop producing milk altogether? It would seem to me that as long
as I pump I will keep producing milk.. But like I said that is my only
choice since she seems to not be interested in nursing .
Any suggestions?
Thankis,
Sabrina
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