[blparent] Keeping young children safeasparentswithavisualimpairment
Miranda B.
knownoflove at gmail.com
Wed Jan 4 16:34:25 UTC 2012
Hi,
Ok, I love the spy gear comment! Seriously, I may get a motion detector for
our gate in the kitchen doorway as a reminder for us to not plow it over
when we forget it's closed... and we've been talking about keeping kiddos
safe! *grin*
In Christ, Miranda
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safeasparentswithavisualimpairment
Motion detectors can be really inexpensive. You can even buy them in the toy
department disguised as spy gear. :) Of course better quality ones are sold
with the other home security items.
Jennifer
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Hi,
Could you please tell me more about these alarms where the door doesn't need
to be closed?
Thanks, and have a great week!
In Christ, Miranda
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asparentswithavisualimpairment
You can get those alarms that will go off as you walk threw the door way,
the door does not have to be closed.
On 1/4/12, Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC) <REBECCA.PICKRELL at tasc.com> wrote:
> Why an alarm for the kid's bedroom?
> My daughter won't sleep with her door closed, hasn't done so since she
> was about a year old.
> What would an alarm on that door accomplish?
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
> On Behalf Of Miranda B.
> Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 10:03 AM
> To: 'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe
> asparentswithavisualimpairment
>
> Hi Leanne,
> We've had a couple friends bring their young children to our home, and
> it is pretty childproof. *grin* We do have a deadbolt on both the
> front and back doors, the back door is only accessible by going
> through the basement door which has a childproof knob cover on it. The
> basement is accessible through the kitchen which is blocked by a gate.
> The only doors we'll be using the alarms for are the front door and
> the child's bedroom.
> We'll call lowes this week as part of our research.
> Thanks so much, and have a great week!
>
> In Christ, Miranda
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
> On Behalf Of Leanne Merren
> Sent: Sunday, January 01, 2012 10:48 PM
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> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe
> asparentswithavisualimpairment
>
> Hi Miranda,
> Well I wasn't actually the one who installed it - our building and
> grounds committee ended up taking care of the request. But right now
> we have the receiver plugged in on the other side of the room and it
> works fine. Maybe call Lowes and ask them what they carry. I'm
> almost positive they got it there.
> I will be honest though, I think I would want a dead bolt or something
> if I was thinking about security for my door leading to the outside.
> Toddlers getting outside can be a very scarry situation. If they
> aren't wearing bells or any kind of sound source, they can often be
> very quick and I wouldn't chance it. I might do the alarm as a
> security measure in case someone forgot to throw the lock, but
> securing the door I think is the biggest concern. My kids can't open
> my door when they're little so I haven't had to worry about it, but as
> they get older I can put some serious rules in place to keep them from
> even trying it. With foster children, however, they aren't with you
> to have those rules strictly enforced at first, so you face some
> challenges there. I have to think about things like that with my day
> care kids so I'm sharing these thoughts from my own experiences.
> Have you had children over to your home to kind of test the waters and
> see how child proof it really is? Kids can find the craziest things
> to get into and they can sure surprise me at times. *smile* Leanne
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Miranda B." <knownoflove at gmail.com>
> To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Sunday, January 01, 2012 8:53 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe
> asparentswithavisualimpairment
>
>
>> Hi Leanne,
>> Thanks so much! How far can the box be from the receiver before it
>> loses a signal?
>> Thanks again, and have a great week!
>>
>> In Christ, Miranda
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org
>> [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
>> On Behalf Of Leanne Merren
>> Sent: Sunday, January 01, 2012 6:53 PM
>> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe as
>> parentswithavisualimpairment
>>
>> I am the nursery coordinator at our church, and we were having a
>> problem with toddlers getting out of the fire exit door, because the
>> style of door knob on those doors is very easy for little hands to
>> grasp. Child proofing isn't allowed since it might keep us from
>> making a swift exit. So we purchased the door alarm to alert the
>> nursery volunteers of the door being opened. It is a box installed
>> next to the door that sends a signal to a receiver that is plugged
>> into the wall. The sound isn't loud, it's like a door bell ringing.
>> It has worked out very well. I do believe it was purchased at Lowes.
>> Leanne
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "sharon howerton" <shrnhow at att.net>
>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Saturday, December 31, 2011 12:11 PM
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe as
>> parentswithavisualimpairment
>>
>>
>>> Miranda, no, the alarms I heard were not terribly loud and perhaps
>>> you could adjust the volume. It was just a tone when a door was opened.
>>> One wouldn't want something piercing as it could awaken or startle a
>>> young child anyway. I hope Walmart can help you but if not, I'll ask
>>> my son if they have anything at Lowe's if you like and even if there
>>> isn't something near you, perhaps they could ship or check good old
>> Amazon.
>>> As for the APH book, I don't recall the name, Debbie may, but you
>>> may try to contact Terri Terlau at APH to ask her.
>>> I agree with you about the costs of those books, but you could
>>> mention them to your caseworker as resources if nothing else.
>>> Perhaps NLS has them in Braille or through BARD. Or perhaps your
>>> local Lions Club could purchase for you?
>>> Sharon
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>> From: "Miranda B." <knownoflove at gmail.com>
>>> To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>> Sent: Saturday, December 31, 2011 10:53 AM
>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe as parents
>>> withavisualimpairment
>>>
>>>
>>>> Hi again Sharon,
>>>> We're headed to Walmart early next week to investigate the door chimes.
>>>> Now,
>>>> we're praying we can find some that chime and don't admit an
>>>> ear-pearsing beep! I agree a child needs to be safe and cared for,
>>>> but I value my life and sanity, and I don't want to be startled
>>>> awake... LOL ;)
>>>>
>>>> Do you happen to remember the name of the book from APH?
>>>> I've found some books of interest from Through the Looking Glass,
>>>> but I'm wondering if I can find them for much less than they are
>>>> being sold by TLG.
>>>> I completely understand the need to recover costs of printing and
>>>> such, but
>>>> $35-$45 per book is a bit pricy in my opinion.
>>>> The books are:
>>>> The Adoption Experience: A Prospective Guide for Parents with
>>>> Disabilities and their Advocates Ella Callow, JD
>>>>
>>>> You May Be Able to Adopt: A Guide to the Adoption Process for
>>>> Prospective Mothers with Disabilities Linda Toms Barker, Megan
>>>> Kirshbaum, PhD, et al.
>>>>
>>>> Mothers with Visual Impairments Who Are Raising Young Children
>>>> (Sorry I don't have the author's name.) I've looked on Bookshare,
>>>> and they do not have these books available. My next place to look
>>>> is
> NLS.
>>>> Thanks again to everyone for your wonderful help, and happy new year!
>>>>
>>>> In Christ, Miranda
>>>>
>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org
>>>> [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of sharon howerton
>>>> Sent: Saturday, December 31, 2011 11:04 AM
>>>> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe as parents with
>>>> avisualimpairment
>>>>
>>>> Miranda, I think Debbie's suggestion about the pamphlet is a good
>>>> one; sorry I forgot about that.
>>>> As for the audible alarm or chimes, you might check with a Lowe's
>>>> or somewhere like that to get an economically priced alarm system;
>>>> it doesn't have to be anything fancy, just something to alert you
>>>> when a door is opened. Again, good luck; I hope we can provide
>>>> answers for you and those with whom you are working.
>>>> Sharon
>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>> From: "Miranda B." <knownoflove at gmail.com>
>>>> To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>> Sent: Friday, December 30, 2011 8:27 PM
>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe as parents with
>>>> avisualimpairment
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>> Hi Sharon,
>>>>> Thanks for your comments and encouragement! We're actually looking
>>>>> into the door chimes, and we'd appreciate any information anyone
>>>>> can give about models of chimes. We're wanting to put chimes on
>>>>> the child's bedroom door and our front door in our home. So, we're
>>>>> hoping to not spend a ton of money on these chimes.
>>>>> Thank you also for the other tips and again for your encouragement.
>>>>> We're very interested in the book from APH and will be looking
>>>>> into this. We've also referred our new caseworker to "Parenting
>>>>> without sight", and we've encouraged her to send this to the state
>>>>> workers as well as a resource to view and share.
>>>>> Happy New year!
>>>>>
>>>>> In Christ, Miranda
>>>>>
>>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>>> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org
>>>>> [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
>>>>> On Behalf Of sharon howerton
>>>>> Sent: Friday, December 30, 2011 8:08 PM
>>>>> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
>>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Keeping young children safe as parents
>>>>> with a visualimpairment
>>>>>
>>>>> Miranda, do you have an auditory indicator on your outside doors
>>>>> that might beep when a door is opened? We had this when my sons
>>>>> were young, I noticed it in a friend's house (both parents are
>>>>> blind and they have two grown children but when I was there, the
>>>>> kids were in their teens) but more recently I noticed it in a
>>>>> condo we
> looked at.
>>>>> Another interesting tip came from one of my first Parenting
>>>>> students, a grandma taking care of her then two or so year old
>>>>> granddaughter. She said she closed the doors to rooms where she
>>>>> did not want her little one to go and put different kinds of wind
>>>>> chimes on the doors so she could tell which one was opened.
>>>>> Finally, APH is coming out with a new book with strictly tips for
>>>>> blind parents. I read the preliminary version but do not know when
>>>>> it will be available to the public; I reviewed it a year ago.
>>>>> I sincerely wish you well and if can be of any further help,
>>>>> please let me know.
>>>>> Your comments about foster care remind me of another student who
>>>>> is volunteering at a daycare center. One part deals with foster
>>>>> kids and the other with children of more normal families. She said
>>>>> she was being observed and scrutinized so much when she worked in
>>>>> the foster care section that she finally just got out of it
>>>>> altogether so I empathize with your concerns and hope you will be
>>>>> able to succeed. You and Andy have sure worked hard and long at this
process.
>>>>> Sharon
>>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>>> From: "Miranda B." <knownoflove at gmail.com>
>>>>> To: <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>>> Sent: Friday, December 30, 2011 6:51 PM
>>>>> Subject: [blparent] Keeping young children safe as parents with a
>>>>> visualimpairment
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>> Hi,
>>>>>>
>>>>>> For those of you who know me and have talked with me for any
>>>>>> length of time, you may find the subject of this email a bit
>>>>>> puzzling, so please let me explain.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> As some of you may know, my husband and I are currently in the
>>>>>> process of being licensed as foster parents. After sending our
>>>>>> home study to the state for approval, our caseworker (through a
>>>>>> private
>>>>>> agency) received notice from the state that they are requesting
>>>>>> more information. They are asking her to investigate further
>>>>>> resources and information about how we will keep a child in our
>>>>>> home safe as foster parents who happen to be Blind. The state has
>>>>>> made it very clear that they are not wanting to discriminate in
>>>>>> any way, but that they are requesting more information from many
>>>>>> families regarding child safety due to recent incidents in our
>>>>>> foster care system. They are also wanting more information than
>>>>>> usual from those applying to be foster parents who have never
>>>>>> been
>> parents before this.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> In return, we have answered basic questions of safety as best as
>>>>>> we can and we've reiterated that we have all childproofing in
>>>>>> place in our home (our case was recently transferred to a
>>>>>> caseworker who knows us but has not recently been in our home.)
>>>>>> We want to approach this situation with the intent to educate the
>>>>>> state about resources for Blind parents, and adaptions we make as
>>>>>> parents who are visually impaired. We have made it clear that
>>>>>> there is a fine line between wanting more information and
>>>>>> discrimination (whether intentional or
>>>>>> not) and that we will appeal any denial for licensing should the
>>>>>> need arise. We are taking a Hadley parenting course, and this has
>>>>>> been documented. We've told our caseworker about the NFB and
>>>>>> other Blindness organizations. Now, we are coming to you for tips
>>>>>> and advice. Can you tell us adaptions you made to keep your children
safe?
>>>>>> These
>>>>>> could be adaption for medical care, making sure they didn't run
>>>>>> out the door of your home, keeping them safe while you are
>>>>>> cooking,
> ETC.
>>>>>> Anything you cn think of we'd appreciate it! Also, for those of
>>>>>> you who have adopted or been licensed as foster parents, if you
>>>>>> could provide any tips or advice on this matter this would also
>>>>>> be greatly appreciated!
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Lastly, if you can think of any resources at all to pass along to
>>>>>> our caseworker and the state, we'd appreciate any thing you can
>>>>>> think
>> of.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Thanks in advance for any help you can give, and happy new year!
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> In Christ, Miranda
>>>>>>
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