[blparent] Behavior problems

[Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC)]

                Maybe they don't know how to help? Seriously, they may want to do something different but haven't a clue how to do it.
Have you guys talked? Why or why not.



-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Nikki
Sent: Sunday, January 15, 2012 1:18 AM
To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blparent] Behavior problems

    Sheila, I don't have that problem. It's more like my parents are taking
over even though they don't want to. Their help has been a "do it for her"
even though they'll admitt that's not what they want to do, but their
actions say otherwise.

-----Original Message-----
From: Sheila Leigland
Sent: Saturday, January 14, 2012 11:37 PM
To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blparent] Behavior problems

Nikki i had to learn not to make threats and I had too learn that rules need
to be enforcible. If you can't enforce the rule don't make it. If your
parents won't support you in enforcing the punishments you will have do be
there all of the time to do it yourself. If the dicipline isn't enforced by
all the child gets mixed mesages and learns how to get people to change
sides. An example of this is once my son was told by his grandmother that if
he didn't stay out of my flowerbeds that she wouldn't buy him any more
candy. He told her that he would buy his own. She didn't live here in great
falls so she had no way to enforce what she said and he knew it and he was
only five years old.

sheila leigland

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