[blparent] the meaning of no

[Dianna Alley]

Their will come a point where she might try to jump out of the crib too mine 
did very early
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From: "Jennifer Jackson" <jennifersjackson at att.net>
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Sent: Saturday, September 01, 2012 7:58 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] the meaning of no


>I am not sure it is the best idea to associate places you want her to be
> content and serine in with punishment. I think it will complicate bed time
> later if you teach her to associate her bed as someplace she goes for
> punishment.
>
> That is not to say that she is to young for you to teach her to leave some
> things alone.
>
> One thing that worked for me was to put the baby in his high chair while I
> was cooking. I had to spend a lot of time picking up dropped toys, but the
> boys all seemed to like being in the same space and being able to watch
> everything. Baby back packs are great for times like this too. It will not
> hurt her to only have floor time when you are able to directly supervise.
> She is more likely to be content in a crib or bouncy chair if you are in 
> the
> same room. Just think of moving the baby as part of relocating from one 
> room
> to the other. I did a lot more of this kind of thing with my third child
> because his much older brother had toys that were not baby friendly.
>
> Good luck with your move. 7 months is an adorable age, but it does take a
> little adjusting to get used to a mobile baby. :)
>
>
> Jennifer
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Dianna Alley
> Sent: Saturday, September 01, 2012 4:58 PM
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> Subject: Re: [blparent] the meaning of no
>
> I disagree I see nothing wrong with putting the child in the crib or 
> bouncer
>
> after she has been told no several times you have to start as early as you
> can no she may not fully understand but by the time she does the behavior
> will have stopped because of the conditioning.  Other countries start
> punishing children early and they have very well behaved children at least
> in my experiences.  Just so you know you will hear all kind of things on
> this list some will think it is wrong others will be like me and be ok 
> with
> it, but when it is all said and done at the end of the day you need to do
> what you feel will work for you as a parent.  The fact that you and her
> father are in agreement will help as well because they learn early how to
> get what they want from each parent.
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Sheila Leigland" <sleigland at bresnan.net>
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> Sent: Saturday, September 01, 2012 4:41 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] the meaning of no
>
>
>>I don't think it is even possible to teach no to  a child that young.All
>>you can do is keep her away from anything that might be dangerous to her
>>but dicipling or any type of punishment is something that she can't begin
>>to understand. At that age her job is to explore the beginnings to her
>>world and yours is to keep her safe.
>>
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