[blparent] the meaning of no

[Veronica Smith]

Gab tried and when she got stuck at the top, she never tried again.  

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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Dianna Alley
Sent: Sunday, September 02, 2012 5:49 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] the meaning of no

Their will come a point where she might try to jump out of the crib too mine
did very early
----- Original Message -----
From: "Jennifer Jackson" <jennifersjackson at att.net>
To: "'Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Saturday, September 01, 2012 7:58 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] the meaning of no


>I am not sure it is the best idea to associate places you want her to 
>be  content and serine in with punishment. I think it will complicate 
>bed time  later if you teach her to associate her bed as someplace she 
>goes for  punishment.
>
> That is not to say that she is to young for you to teach her to leave 
> some things alone.
>
> One thing that worked for me was to put the baby in his high chair 
> while I was cooking. I had to spend a lot of time picking up dropped 
> toys, but the boys all seemed to like being in the same space and 
> being able to watch everything. Baby back packs are great for times 
> like this too. It will not hurt her to only have floor time when you are
able to directly supervise.
> She is more likely to be content in a crib or bouncy chair if you are 
> in the same room. Just think of moving the baby as part of relocating 
> from one room to the other. I did a lot more of this kind of thing 
> with my third child because his much older brother had toys that were 
> not baby friendly.
>
> Good luck with your move. 7 months is an adorable age, but it does 
> take a little adjusting to get used to a mobile baby. :)
>
>
> Jennifer
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] 
> On Behalf Of Dianna Alley
> Sent: Saturday, September 01, 2012 4:58 PM
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> Subject: Re: [blparent] the meaning of no
>
> I disagree I see nothing wrong with putting the child in the crib or 
> bouncer
>
> after she has been told no several times you have to start as early as 
> you can no she may not fully understand but by the time she does the 
> behavior will have stopped because of the conditioning.  Other 
> countries start punishing children early and they have very well 
> behaved children at least in my experiences.  Just so you know you 
> will hear all kind of things on this list some will think it is wrong 
> others will be like me and be ok with it, but when it is all said and 
> done at the end of the day you need to do what you feel will work for 
> you as a parent.  The fact that you and her father are in agreement 
> will help as well because they learn early how to get what they want 
> from each parent.
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Sheila Leigland" <sleigland at bresnan.net>
> To: "Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Saturday, September 01, 2012 4:41 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] the meaning of no
>
>
>>I don't think it is even possible to teach no to  a child that 
>>young.All you can do is keep her away from anything that might be 
>>dangerous to her but dicipling or any type of punishment is something 
>>that she can't begin to understand. At that age her job is to explore 
>>the beginnings to her world and yours is to keep her safe.
>>
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