[blparent] Whose rules should take precedence?

[Gabe Vega]

so who slipped you the qsychologist's report?

On Sep 2, 2012, at 10:04 PM, Bernadetta Pracon <bernadetta_pracon at samobile.net> wrote:

> In addition to what Jo said, I tend to think that while it's not a good thing for other people to push parents around, whether blind or sighted, I also think it's unwise and emotionally unhealthy to just break off contact with people who disagree with you or your way of thinking. I understand that it's ideal to stay away from people that stress you out or are toxic to you or your kid, but how do you break off a relationship with someone you've known for over twenty two years--been close to--without seeming nutty and unstable? I used to know a guy who would isolate himself from his family at the drop of a hat, and would encourage others to do the same if they had conflicts within their families...And you know what? He was mentally and emotionally unstable. He had problems. So, as you can see, it's not good either way.
> So instead of calling people names and demeaning them, let's maybe try to figure out a middle of the rode to situations, something that can solve any issue at hand, instead of pointing fingers and asuming.
> I think we'd be a much stronger community if we didn't pass so much judgement and bully each other. I think we would be more productive if we took a second to think before we type, to say things constructively instead of being brash and impulsive.
> Let's just all try to get along, kids.
> Just my two cents worth.
> 
> Thanks.
> 
> Bernadetta
> 
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