[blparent] blparent Digest, Vol 135, Issue 4

Michelle Creedy michelle.creedy at gmail.com
Thu Aug 6 18:28:44 UTC 2015


Bernie, very encouraging!

I'm just getting my home study done. They won't touch me until that is done.
Then, I'll worry about fees. 

Michelle


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To: blparent at nfbnet.org
Cc: Bernadette Jacobs
Subject: Re: [blparent] blparent Digest, Vol 135, Issue 4

Dear Mr. Young. Relax. It really will be OK. Bills and my experience has
been that with special needs children, often times, many of the fees are
waived. So, the cost is not nearly so great as One would think. For both
kids, when we adopted them, we spent anywhere from $11,000-13,000.00 for
each child. This also included airfare to bring them back with us. North
west airlines had many perks and they were absolutely wonderful with us.
This has been our experience.

Oh yes! I would definitely give this a shot. Just don't expect a whole lot
of cooperation from the Chinese. They may be happy to get rid of her. But
they won't go out of their way to make things absolutely wonderful! Don't be
surprised at anything. Unfortunately, their treatment of special needs
children leaves a whole lot to be desired. It is what it is.

Bernie.

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>            Why not give it a shot?
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> Subject: Re: [blparent] {Disarmed} FW: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind 
> Chinese girl needs adoptive family
> 
> The problem as is often the case when adopting, is funding. My wife and I
would take this girl in immediately, but adopting especially from China
requires thousands upon thousands of dolars. For us supporting another child
on a monthly bases isn't the problem, it's the cost of actually adopting a
child. I wonder if anyone has crowd-funded an adoption. 
> 
> Jeff Young
> 
>> On Aug 4, 2015, at 5:31 PM, Deborah Kent Stein via blparent
<blparent at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> From: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com 
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>> Sent: Tuesday, August 04, 2015 5:11 PM
>> To: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com
>> Subject: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese girl needs adoptive family
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> I recently found out about an eight- or nine-year-old girl from China who
needs an adoptive family. The agency which has her file right now is calling
her Rose.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Rose's video is posted at
<https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D
Pri8FubEsQg%26feature%3Dyoutu.be&h=HAQGxsGl_>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pri8FubEsQg&feature=youtu.be. I found the
video disturbing, as there seems to be no allowance for or understanding of
the fact this child is blind. She is harassed and pushed around by her
caretaker in the video, and I saw no compassion whatsoever shown. This
caretaker behavior is not uncommon in China, but it upset me anyway thinking
that my own daughter might have been treated the same way while waiting for
us.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Rose is blind from glaucoma, but can sense light. She has had no known
surgeries. She is introverted and does not talk much. She does not attend
school. When the orphanage was asked what things she is good at, and what
things she struggles with, they said they didn't know. I spent a few weeks
trying to get answers to a few simple questions, and the orphanage proved
quite unwilling to answer any of them.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> I don't know what Rose's potential is, but based on the video, the
difficulty in getting basic questions answered, and no one even knowing what
she is good at, it does not appear that much attempt is being made to
maximize whatever that potential is.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Right now, information on adopting Rose can be obtained by contacting
Xiaoqing at  Bay Area Adoption Services at (415) 459-2481 or emailing her at
xiaoqing at baas.org <mailto:xiaoqing at baas.org> . When I asked Xiaoqing to
advocate for moving Rose to an orphanage near Beijing that works with blind
and visually impaired children, she seemed to understand the need and to be
willing to help facilitate that to the best of her ability.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> I do not work for this agency; my heart was just broken seeing the lack
of compassion this poor child has in her life, and I am hoping someone will
step forward to add her to their family.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
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> Date: Wed, 5 Aug 2015 10:31:27 -0400
> From: Bernadette Jacobs <bernienfb75 at gmail.com>
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> Good morning gang. Bernie hair. Whatever you do, don't expect anything
better from China. We didn't get it for David. By the time we got David,
David have literally been left for dead. When we brought him home, that was
when all the surprises began. Even if you push the Chinese for anything, it
probably will not be the truth. After all, it wasn't for us. We simply love
David for who he is. When everyone tells us, "your kids are so blast. "We
tell them, "you have got it all wrong! "He, David, and Virginia, have
blessed us tremendously. They are such wonderful children. Most everything
we have found out about them, we have found here in the United States.
> 
> As for little Rose, just let her do the same and she will bless whoever
takes her. Just don't look for anything from the Chinese and you will not be
disappointed. That is my experience with the Chinese.
> 
> When Bill and I went to China, I thought I was prepared for the worst.
When the worst happened, I think I had a melt ? down every single day I was
in China. I never thought I could cry so much in one place. It was Bill and
I along with our pediatric team who has been building David from the bottom
up. When we brought him back, he literally weighed 18 pounds. Now he is a
thriving young boy, nine years later. Weighs over 60 pounds. He is always
happy. He is so much fun. He has a wonderful sense of humor we just
concentrate on loving him and all the blessings come tenfold.
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>>  1. {Disarmed} FW: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese girl    needs
>>     adoptive family (Deborah Kent Stein)
>>  2. Re: {Disarmed} FW: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese    girl
>>     needs adoptive family (Jeffrey Young)
>>  3. Re: {Disarmed} FW: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese    girl
>>     needs adoptive family (Tara Briggs)
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>> Subject: [blparent] {Disarmed} FW: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese
>>   girl    needs adoptive family
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>> From: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com 
>> [mailto:Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com]
>> Sent: Tuesday, August 04, 2015 5:11 PM
>> To: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com
>> Subject: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese girl needs adoptive family
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> I recently found out about an eight- or nine-year-old girl from China who
needs an adoptive family. The agency which has her file right now is calling
her Rose.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Rose's video is posted at
<https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D
Pri8FubEsQg%26feature%3Dyoutu.be&h=HAQGxsGl_>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pri8FubEsQg&feature=youtu.be. I found the
video disturbing, as there seems to be no allowance for or understanding of
the fact this child is blind. She is harassed and pushed around by her
caretaker in the video, and I saw no compassion whatsoever shown. This
caretaker behavior is not uncommon in China, but it upset me anyway thinking
that my own daughter might have been treated the same way while waiting for
us.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Rose is blind from glaucoma, but can sense light. She has had no known
surgeries. She is introverted and does not talk much. She does not attend
school. When the orphanage was asked what things she is good at, and what
things she struggles with, they said they didn't know. I spent a few weeks
trying to get answers to a few simple questions, and the orphanage proved
quite unwilling to answer any of them.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> I don't know what Rose's potential is, but based on the video, the
difficulty in getting basic questions answered, and no one even knowing what
she is good at, it does not appear that much attempt is being made to
maximize whatever that potential is.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Right now, information on adopting Rose can be obtained by contacting
Xiaoqing at  Bay Area Adoption Services at (415) 459-2481 or emailing her at
xiaoqing at baas.org <mailto:xiaoqing at baas.org> . When I asked Xiaoqing to
advocate for moving Rose to an orphanage near Beijing that works with blind
and visually impaired children, she seemed to understand the need and to be
willing to help facilitate that to the best of her ability.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> I do not work for this agency; my heart was just broken seeing the lack
of compassion this poor child has in her life, and I am hoping someone will
step forward to add her to their family.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> __._,_.___
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>> Date: Tue, 4 Aug 2015 18:29:56 -0500
>> From: Jeffrey Young <jeff.young8806 at gmail.com>
>> To: Blind Parents Mailing List <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] {Disarmed} FW: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind
>>   Chinese    girl needs adoptive family
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>> The problem as is often the case when adopting, is funding. My wife and I
would take this girl in immediately, but adopting especially from China
requires thousands upon thousands of dolars. For us supporting another child
on a monthly bases isn't the problem, it's the cost of actually adopting a
child. I wonder if anyone has crowd-funded an adoption. 
>> 
>> Jeff Young
>> 
>>> On Aug 4, 2015, at 5:31 PM, Deborah Kent Stein via blparent
<blparent at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> From: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com 
>>> [mailto:Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com]
>>> Sent: Tuesday, August 04, 2015 5:11 PM
>>> To: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com
>>> Subject: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese girl needs adoptive 
>>> family
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> I recently found out about an eight- or nine-year-old girl from China
who needs an adoptive family. The agency which has her file right now is
calling her Rose.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Rose's video is posted at
<https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D
Pri8FubEsQg%26feature%3Dyoutu.be&h=HAQGxsGl_>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pri8FubEsQg&feature=youtu.be. I found the
video disturbing, as there seems to be no allowance for or understanding of
the fact this child is blind. She is harassed and pushed around by her
caretaker in the video, and I saw no compassion whatsoever shown. This
caretaker behavior is not uncommon in China, but it upset me anyway thinking
that my own daughter might have been treated the same way while waiting for
us.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Rose is blind from glaucoma, but can sense light. She has had no known
surgeries. She is introverted and does not talk much. She does not attend
school. When the orphanage was asked what things she is good at, and what
things she struggles with, they said they didn't know. I spent a few weeks
trying to get answers to a few simple questions, and the orphanage proved
quite unwilling to answer any of them.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> I don't know what Rose's potential is, but based on the video, the
difficulty in getting basic questions answered, and no one even knowing what
she is good at, it does not appear that much attempt is being made to
maximize whatever that potential is.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Right now, information on adopting Rose can be obtained by contacting
Xiaoqing at  Bay Area Adoption Services at (415) 459-2481 or emailing her at
xiaoqing at baas.org <mailto:xiaoqing at baas.org> . When I asked Xiaoqing to
advocate for moving Rose to an orphanage near Beijing that works with blind
and visually impaired children, she seemed to understand the need and to be
willing to help facilitate that to the best of her ability.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> I do not work for this agency; my heart was just broken seeing the lack
of compassion this poor child has in her life, and I am hoping someone will
step forward to add her to their family.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
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>> Date: Tue, 4 Aug 2015 23:01:30 -0600
>> From: Tara Briggs <thflute at gmail.com>
>> To: Blind Parents Mailing List <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] {Disarmed} FW: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind
>>   Chinese    girl needs adoptive family
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>> Hi, there is an organization called Goldendawn. It was started by a blind
couple here in Utah. They help families adopt children with disabilities. I
don't have their website but if you Google Goldendawn adoption you should be
able to find it. If you need me to track down the website let me know.
>> 
>> Sent from my iPhone
>> 
>>> On Aug 4, 2015, at 5:29 PM, Jeffrey Young via blparent
<blparent at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>> 
>>> The problem as is often the case when adopting, is funding. My wife and
I would take this girl in immediately, but adopting especially from China
requires thousands upon thousands of dolars. For us supporting another child
on a monthly bases isn't the problem, it's the cost of actually adopting a
child. I wonder if anyone has crowd-funded an adoption. 
>>> 
>>> Jeff Young
>>> 
>>>> On Aug 4, 2015, at 5:31 PM, Deborah Kent Stein via blparent
<blparent at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> From: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com 
>>>> [mailto:Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com]
>>>> Sent: Tuesday, August 04, 2015 5:11 PM
>>>> To: Blindhomeschooler at yahoogroups.com
>>>> Subject: [Blindhomeschooler] Blind Chinese girl needs adoptive 
>>>> family
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> I recently found out about an eight- or nine-year-old girl from China
who needs an adoptive family. The agency which has her file right now is
calling her Rose.
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> Rose's video is posted at
<https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D
Pri8FubEsQg%26feature%3Dyoutu.be&h=HAQGxsGl_>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pri8FubEsQg&feature=youtu.be. I found the
video disturbing, as there seems to be no allowance for or understanding of
the fact this child is blind. She is harassed and pushed around by her
caretaker in the video, and I saw no compassion whatsoever shown. This
caretaker behavior is not uncommon in China, but it upset me anyway thinking
that my own daughter might have been treated the same way while waiting for
us.
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> Rose is blind from glaucoma, but can sense light. She has had no known
surgeries. She is introverted and does not talk much. She does not attend
school. When the orphanage was asked what things she is good at, and what
things she struggles with, they said they didn't know. I spent a few weeks
trying to get answers to a few simple questions, and the orphanage proved
quite unwilling to answer any of them.
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> I don't know what Rose's potential is, but based on the video, the
difficulty in getting basic questions answered, and no one even knowing what
she is good at, it does not appear that much attempt is being made to
maximize whatever that potential is.
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> Right now, information on adopting Rose can be obtained by contacting
Xiaoqing at  Bay Area Adoption Services at (415) 459-2481 or emailing her at
xiaoqing at baas.org <mailto:xiaoqing at baas.org> . When I asked Xiaoqing to
advocate for moving Rose to an orphanage near Beijing that works with blind
and visually impaired children, she seemed to understand the need and to be
willing to help facilitate that to the best of her ability.
>>>> 
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>>>> I do not work for this agency; my heart was just broken seeing the lack
of compassion this poor child has in her life, and I am hoping someone will
step forward to add her to their family.
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