[blparent] police called

Fri Nov 6 18:53:27 UTC 2015

I took my guide dog to my daughter's first grade class last year, and one of 
the kids asked my daughter what it was like to have a blind mom.  She was 
six at the time.  She said, "Oh, it's just like having a regular mom.  She 
does all the same things a mom does, except Daddy doesn't let her drive his 
car."

Jo Elizabeth

"The Bright Side of Darkness"
is my newly published novel,
available in Kindle, audio, and paperback formats at Amazon.com.
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One time my then-seven-year-old daughter told a bus driver, talking about 
me, "She's just as independent as you are, and she makes good macaroni and 
cheese!"

Judy

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Oh this is precious.  yeah kidss can sure make adults feel and look stupid 
can't they?  my daughter did similar when we went out to restaurants to eat 
and the wait person would ask my four year old daughter what i would like.
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Oh, Robert, doctors should know better, but they sometimes don't.  My little 
girl has figured out how to deal with them.  A while back, one of the nurses 
where I go said in that cheesy sweet voice they get,  "Honey, can you bring 
your mommy over to the scale so we can see how much she weighs?"  And my 
daughter said, "Nope, I'm busy coloring.  She can go over there all by 
herself.  She's got a dog to take her places."  And then on that visit, I 
happened to need drops for an eye infection, and the doctor said to my 
daughter, "Now, she needs to put them in four times a day.  Every day, so 
her eyes will get better.  You can help her with that, right?  It's very 
important."  And my daughter said, "She can do it by herself.  She put my 
eyedrops in when I got pinkeye last year, and I didn't even want to let 
her."  And then when we were leaving, my daughter said in that stage whisper 
kids get where everyone in the world can hear them, "Mom, I like my doctor 
more better.  She doesn't talk to kids like they're stupid.  You should go 
to her instead."  She meant the pediatrician.

Jo Elizabeth

"The Bright Side of Darkness"
is my newly published novel,
available in Kindle, audio, and paperback formats at Amazon.com.
-----Original Message-----
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Wow, this thread has been fun. Now, I've got to add my own little story --  
not about police, but my doctor.

Last year, my GP retired. He was a wonderful doctor, East Texas through and 
through. His place was a tiny office in the strip maul just a few blocks 
from my house. I could easily walk there if needbe. So, when he hung it up, 
I had to break in a newby.

My wife's internist, Dr. Rajahn, is not a native born American -- South 
Asia, I'd guess. She's part of a large medical conglomerate in a midrise 
medical building a few miles away. They "automate" *everything*, yet lost 
the reems of forms I spent the better part of an hour completing on their 
website. They actually lost the web version and the paper version my wife 
had to fill out in the waiting room. When I finally got to see the doctor, 
all she could do was ask me silly questions like who took care of me, where 
does your wife work, You're working? Where? Doing what? How do you walk 
around? She was so distracted, she barely touched me. She even forgot to 
request a PSA -- I'm 65 years old, and I like to keep track of that.

Needless to say, I was very disappointed, but she is reputedly good from a 
technical standpoint, and she ran a very broad spectrum of tests (other than 
the PSA) which picked up a couple of things that needed attention. I was 
still very tempted to find another GP, but inertia won out. I typically see 
a doctor for a yearly physical, and nothing else.

So, I went back this year. This time, there were only 4 pages of forms to 
complete, and they actually had all my information. Maybe they replaced 
their records person. This time, Dr. Rajahn was far less distracted, and 
gave me the most thorough examination I can imagine. That's a good thing.
But, she still was incredulous that I was actually working, and when I told 
her I worked for NASA, she said "What could you possibly do for them?" When 
I told her, I could see she thought I was crazy. I pulled my phone out of my 
pocket and activated it. VoiceOver came up, and I said "This is a 5 year old 
iPhone. Everything in my world talks, computer, TV remote, , even my watch."
You really are clueless about blindness, and while it is sadly true that 
unemployment and under employment is higher than we would like, most of us 
are independent." She still asked me to walk across the tiny examining room, 
I guess to prove I could walk. I took two steps and stopped before walking 
into the examining table, which I knew was there. She asked me how I knew 
when to stop. I pulled up my best geeky superhero voice and said 
"Bliiiiiiiiind Radar!"

You guys are right about the importance of a sense of humor. Those of you 
who know me would have expected me to become very angry, but I've been 
working on that. I even offered to serve as a resource if (God forbid) she 
ever had another blind patient and had general questions about blindness. I 
also suggested that she Google the National Federation, and being an equal 
opportunity guy also suggested the American Counsel.

-----Original Message-----
From: Judy Jones [mailto:Judy.Jones at icbvi.idaho.gov]
Sent: Thursday, November 05, 2015 4:54 PM
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I love that.

I have a friend who carries a fancy pair of gold clippers in her purse for 
that purpose.

Judy

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When I was in college I had this great o & m guy a few times that in 
addition to doing a stellar job, also kept a sizable sharp knife with him to 
cut back shrubbery and small tree limbs. God bless him!

So one day he is out on a lesson with a friend of mine and she has stopped 
at an intersection and an acquaintance stops in a car to offer a ride. My 
friend says no thinks and the woman gets rather insistent. She finally says 
to my friend that she really needs to get in the car because there is a man 
with a knife who has been following her. :)

The best thing I learned from Jimmy was to get my own knife. Before I had 
kids and all their stuff to carry instead, I always kept a good one in my 
bag so I could help people out by trimming up their landscaping when it was 
growing over the sidewalk. :) I am a giver that way. I always really wanted 
a little battery operated chainsaw to carry instead.

Jennifer J
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This did not happen to me, but a friend related it.  He was blinded during 
the Vietnam war, and while in training at the center in Chicago for vets, he 
says that one of the friends he met there had some partial vision, but all 
were supposed to be under blindfold to learn their cane skills.

Apparently this guy got really turned around, so cheated and peak.  A 
policeman happened to be in the vicinity, noticed his lost condition and 
asked him for assistance.  He stated he was not sure, but that he thought 
someone might be following him, could it be checked out.

Of course, the one following him was the trainer from the center, about a 
half block away, and the trainer was escorted downtown until the story could 
be checked.

I am a former guide dog user, and we had mighty fun at the guide dog school 
in San Rafael where I attended.  Noone watching the promo films has a clue 
what sometimes is going on in the background hahahaha!

Judy

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Entertain us or just me Judy, I want some stories.

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Can you imagine the number of "stupid" calls they get?  That one was 
probably at the top of the list for the day.  Our office is not a police 
office, but we do get our share as well, probably most offices do.

Judy

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Anybody can call the police
for anything. I'd not let this worry you.

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I'll bet the officer thought it was just as ridiculous, too.  Hahahaha?
Some, People!

Judy

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I don't remember reading Jennifer's  story, but we tend to stand out as 
blind people.  It's probably more nerve-wracking when there are children 
involved.  *Smile.*  Sometimes it feels like living out in public and 
raising our kids, we're in a fishbowl.  It can be scary, but maybe our best 
defense is a sense of humore.

The police got called on me once because I was digging out a strip of grass 
to make a flower bed in my own yard, years before I had my daughter.  It was 
along the sidewalk  facing the street, and my then husband and I were going 
to have a fence put in, so there was a string marking where the fence would 
go, but no fence yet.  I was minding my own business, using my gardening 
tools, when an officer walked up and introduced himself.  He said someone 
had called the police from the apartment building across the busy street 
because I had been seen digging in the grass and the neighbors were afraid I 
wouldn't know where to stop.  The concerned citizens in the apartment across 
the road were worried that I would dig right through the concrete sidewalk 
and the gutter and work my way out into traffic!

I couldn't keep myself from laughing.  I told the officer that if I, a 
120-pound blind lady with a hand trowel and a gardening rake, could dig 
through a six-foot-wide sidewalk and an asphalt gutter without even knowing 
it and end up in a busy street, the neighbors across the road and the city 
police force would have a bigger problem on their hands than they could 
solve by themselves.  Besides, I hadn't even been facing the street.  I'd 
been digging parallel to the sidewalk.  The officer laughed, too, and went 
on his way.

Jo Elizabeth

"The Bright Side of Darkness"
is my newly published novel,
available on Kindle and in paperback at Amazon.com.
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Oh my gosh! It didn't even occur to me that the priest could be called when 
I'm walking down the street with my daughter! Frankly, excuse my French, 
that scares the hell out of me! I may not have been on this list when you're 
told that story, what happened?
LOL! I'm feeding my daughter right now and dictating. That was supposed to 
say the priest not the priest. Police

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> On Nov 4, 2015, at 3:11 PM, Jennifer S Jackson via blparent
> <blparent at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>
> We post here occasionally about our own fears or experiences as blind
> parents and various local authorities. I think I shared before about
> being out on an o and m walk and having people call the police because
> I was out walking with a baby. That same day I was reported to my
> mother and sister by various people who saw me out including the one
> who said that I was with a man who was not my husband. J
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> So today I was working out at the gym when  I received a call from an
> unidentified caller and I almost did not answer. My 11 year old had
> actually just left a few minutes before after stopping in on his way
> from home to the library. The police sergeant identified himself and
> just wanted to confirm I knew were Henry was. In fact when I sounded
> concerned he assured me that his family home schools to and that my
> son was polite and respectful.
>
>
>
> I know this is kind of a no news event, but I think sometimes we
> forget to share when things are going well as they probably are most
> of
the time.
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> Jennifer J
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