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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Here is an essay on being a fundraiser. I like the third section of this essay the best.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Lorraine Rovig<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><b><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#00457C">Three Fundraising Realities Every Board Member Must Face<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><b><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">March 2013</span></b><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Excerpted from the second edition of
<a href="http://www.emersonandchurch.com/books/fundraisingrealities.html" target="_blank" title="Fund Raising Realities Every Board Member Must Face (opens in new window)">
<i><span style="color:#0D64A9">Fundraising Realities Every Board Member Must Face: A 1-Hour Crash Course on Raising Major Gifts for Nonprofit Organizations</span></i></a><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">For board members, the essence of big-gifts fundraising can be distilled into 43 "realities." In my book,
<i>Fundraising Realities Every Board Member Must Face,</i> I explore each of them. Here, let me single out just three.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:.25in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in">
<b><span style="font-size:11.5pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#9A0521">Wealth Alone Doesn't Determine<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">The
<i>Guinness Book of World Records</i> memorialized her as the world's greatest miser.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Hetty Green, known as the Witch of Wall Street, made her millions through real estate, banking, and railroads. Her frugality was legendary. Hetty
 didn't use hot water, didn't heat her home, wore the same black dress, even refused to pay the doctor to treat her son's leg (which later had to be amputated).<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Moral of the story: Regardless of income or assets, most of us find it hard to thin out our wallets.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">In terms of giving, we all think alike: Who's asking and for how much? Why me? For what purpose? Why now, and how soon again?<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Things would be so easy otherwise. The
<i>World Wealth Report</i> pegs the number of U.S. millionaires at just over three million. If giving depended solely on wealth, all you'd have to do is drop each one a line (or place a call for the personal touch).<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Regrettably, it doesn't work that way. Regardless of their means, donors follow a logical progression. First they become interested in a cause,
 get more closely involved, then deepen their commitment with a gift. That's the normal course of events.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">You'd like it to be otherwise. But as Harold Seymour colorfully put it years ago: "You can't make a good pickle by squirting vinegar on a cucumber—it
 has to soak awhile."<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<b><span style="font-size:11.5pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#9A0521">A Few Contribute the Most<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Pea pods tell you a lot about fundraising.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">If you're a gardener, you know from experience that 80 percent of your peas come from 20 percent of your pods. The first person to observe this,
 at least on record, was Vilfredo Pareto (born 1848), a gardener in addition to engineer, sociologist, economist, and philosopher.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Today, the "Pareto Principle" is an accepted rule of thumb in business. It states—and your retail friends will confirm this—that 80 percent of a
 company's sales come from 20 percent of its customers.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Only in fundraising, the ratio's more skewed.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">As borne out by decades of experience and literally thousands of campaigns,
<i>90 percent</i> of the funds raised in a typical campaign come from just <i>10—percent</i> of the donors. A recent study by CASE (higher education's professional association) reaffirmed this ratio as the "canonical rule."<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">What it means is that to reach your goal you'll need to devote most of your time—as much as 90 percent—to your top prospects, relying on sizable
 gifts from them.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Only don't ignore everyone else or you may come to regret it!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Consider that Mary Jean and Frank Smeal's first gift to Penn State's College of Liberal Arts was $5. More than 30 years later their
<i>$10 million</i> gift ranked as the largest in the school's history.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Or take William and Joan Schreyer. Their $30 million gift built the Schreyer Honors College, also at Penn State. Their first check to the university
 37 years earlier? That would be $10.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Last, listen to what Teresa Eyring, former director of the Children's Theatre of Minneapolis, told Minnesota Public Radio: "One day in the mail
 we received a check for $12 from a young girl who attended the theater on a regular basis." Attached was a note saying this was "part of her savings and she thought it was very important for the children's theater to have this campaign."<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">You just know that 30 years from now you'll pick up the paper and read about a $5 million gift from a woman who scrimped as a child so she could
 donate $12 to a nearby theatre she absolutely loved.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<b><span style="font-size:11.5pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#9A0521">The Secret to Success<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">If you've been to New Orleans's French Quarter, there's a good chance a hustler came up to you, pointed to your feet, and said, "Two dollars I know
 where you got those shoes." Figuring only the clerk at Sock 'n Soul knows for sure, you bite. "On your feet!" says the con man, holding his hand out to collect.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Here's a similar trick question. The last time you gave to a cause—$20 says I know what motivated you. ...<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Because somebody asked!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Donors give for an assortment of reasons. According to a study by the Colorado Nonprofit Association, the top three are:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">they believe the organization is trustworthy (98 percent),<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">they believe the organization is well-managed and effective (96 percent), and,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">they feel the organization supports a cause they believe in (96 percent).<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">But even so, what sparks a gift in the first place is the fact that there you are, in the flesh, asking for it. The problem is that many of us are
 willing to do anything but ask.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Maybe we don't fully believe in the cause. Or we're afraid we'll be turned down. Or we question our persuasive powers. Or we worry we'll be asked
 for a gift in return. Or the cumulus clouds are foreboding today.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">The truth is, there will always be a knot in your stomach, which, funny enough, is all the more reason to feel proud. "Courage is being scared to
 death ... and saddling up anyway," said John Wayne.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">You won't ever quell the fear, not fully at least, but it can be controlled if you:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">are well-prepared,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">are genuinely enthusiastic about the cause,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">have some leverage with the prospect,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">communicate a sense of urgency, and,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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</span></span></span><![endif]><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">are a generous giver yourself.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Here's something else to remember; some donors like to be asked. Jeff Brooks, a noted copywriter, is one. A few years back, his mother succumbed
 to Parkinson's. And now Brooks is a regular donor to organizations fighting the disease—and happy to be asked.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">"There's a way I can strike back at Parkinson's," he says, "I can defy it, take back some of what it stole, by giving to a nonprofit organization.
 It can't bring my mother back or erase the pain, but giving re-orients me. I'm less a victim, more in control."<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Keep Jeff in mind as you're about to knock on your donor's door.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">David Lansdowne<br>
© 2013, Emerson & Church, Publishers. Excerpted from <i><a href="http://www.emersonandchurch.com/books/fundraisingrealities.html" target="_blank" title="Fund Raising Realities Every Board Member Must Face (opens in new window)"><span style="color:#0D64A9">Fundraising
 Realities Every Board Member Must Face: A 1-Hour Crash Course on Raising Major Gifts for Nonprofit Organizations</span></a>;</i> excerpted with permission.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><i><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">David Lansdowne has spent his professional life in the nonprofit sector, serving in a wide variety of development and administrative positions
 for educational, cultural, and health organizations throughout the United States.</span></i><span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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