[Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?

[Mostafa]

Dear all, peace be with you.

Today I am going to talk about a subject which is not my favorit at all.

Yes, it is a subject that I would not usually bring up into discussion but, I just felt the grave necessaty to do so.

There are many familys living in precarious  conditions right now.

We are constantly defined by who we are, but recently, we are redefined  by who we are not.

It is a major challenge at presently to maintain your relationship ties, and believe it or not, it is worsening on a regular basis, and particularly here in Egypt.

It truly exasperates me when I hear about freshly espoused couples split up for preposterous reasons. 

I woke up earlier this morning asking myself;

Why divorce occurs?
Why it occurs on that terrific stage, terrific amount.

We ought to take the subject quite seriously.

We have to recognize that we are living in a delusional state of affectional phase.

People talk about warmly romantic love stories but, why many of these love stories end up into enormous grievances.

There must be a reason for that.

Well, I am still asking the question, why divorce occurs?

There are miscellaneous causes for spousal disassociations.

Well amongst them are as namely.

Children custody, desertions, betrayals, revilements, mental or physical violence, indigence, and miscommunications.

We have got serious problems here.

    The vast majority of dissolution  cases are belonged to the category of perfidious incidents, alleged allegations of unfaithful involvements. 

Why there are too many cheating spouses today?

The divorce rate curves so highly into threatening state here in Egypt, but I am sure that other countries are not much better.

It critically saddens me but, what are the reasons for all of these divorcements to occur.

There are many reasons to begin with, and there are sequential reasons which leads to the grieved destiny.

The chief cause of spousal disassociations in my opinion, is the trust loss.

Anything could be solved within a relationship, but not the trust loss.

It leads to the buttom of the line, and it incites endless disputes.

How mistrust occurs?

It often occurs when the spouse is   caught up lying on multiple occasions.

That leads to numerous arguments, which consequentially leads to permanent divorcement.

The second chief cause of spousal disassociations is when the man tends to periodically disrespect his wife, or when he deliberately denigrates her opinion in public platform.

This is commonly practiced by men, and particularly, here in the middle east.

  I personally have witnessed that being done.

I am not sure of the justification which these men have.

Well, within Islam, there is no justification of looking down on the woman, even if she slips up.

The man ought to adhere the disposal of chivalry towards his wife, even in the times of misbehavior, he has no right what so ever to humiliate her, and particularly in public.

     There is a radical misconception of this cultural complex of what Islam teaches, and what that has incorrectly been derived because of grave ignorance and disinformation.


I watch on Egyptian drama which features that disappointing symbolism, it portrays men as dominants on women, giving the notion that it is brought by Islamic tradition.

Well, that is just silly and nonsense.

Islam decisively summons onto the fact that men have to take care of their wives, and it woes any attempts of aggression.

Well, this editorial has a continual segment, so watch out for that.

Until I render the second part of this essay, stay blessedly in the grace of Allah, and peace be with you.