[Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?

Mon Jan 27 18:41:22 UTC 2014

Oh, no, Papa Bear! I do not offend easily and I agree with you on the 
importance of marriage. It is the picture God gives us of God and the 
church and it is the family we are given here so we can learn about 
god even if and when our earthly moms and daddies fall short of what 
they ought to be.

And even for the non-christian or non monotheistic people, god still 
talks to them and reveals himself and there is also just so much 
common sense in the Bible.

It is the young people, the children, that are hurt the most and they 
are our future. Of course, there may be some reasons for separation 
when, for example, a  friend' s alcoholic husband almost killed his 
little babyboy in the when the baby was crying. My friend eventually 
did get a divorce but never remarried.

I just think that the family, the husband wife unit and union should 
transcend anything and always come first.

I really enjoy your contributions. Please pray for my blood sugar problem.

In his grip of grace

Doris in lutherland

At 09:19 AM 2014/01/27 -0900, you wrote:
>Thank you for not taking it the wrong way, I am pretty protective of 
>marriage because it is so important to God and marriage is one of 
>the Devils biggest targets in my opinion, it is the only 
>relationship that we have been given that represents our union with 
>Christ here on earth and is very precious.
>----- Original Message ----- From: "Doris and Chris" <chipmunks at gmx.net>
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>Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?
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>>we have been and are. i was not making excused for myself or 
>>anyone. I cannot imagine "starting over" with Chris or anyone.
>>
>>We are currently facing a crisis in me having been diagnosed with 
>>possible diabetes. This is usually driving us closer and not further apart.
>>
>>In his grip of grace and friendship!
>>
>>Doris in Lutherland
>>
>>At 07:52 AM 2014/01/27 -0900, you wrote:
>>>What? Don't forget, God says he hates divorce. Just Google that 
>>>simple question, "Does God hate divorce" Then consider how your 
>>>statement may fitt into God's view. I am sorry if I am sounding 
>>>harsh or condisending, but I have heard so many people justify 
>>>divorce and have counceled quite a few young couples and have 
>>>heard so many twists and takes on why one or both think they 
>>>should start over. Well, I hope you and yours are together untill 
>>>death do you part.
>>>In His grip
>>>----- Original Message ----- From: "Doris and Chris" <chipmunks at gmx.net>
>>>To: "Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion" 
>>><faith-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>>Sent: Monday, January 27, 2014 6:39 AM
>>>Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?
>>>
>>>
>>>>If Chris and I ever separated, it would be so the other had their 
>>>>freedom and lack of problems.
>>>>
>>>>IN Christ,
>>>>
>>>>Doris
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>At 03:11 PM 2014/01/27 +0200, you wrote:
>>>>>Dear all, peace be with you.
>>>>>
>>>>>Today I am going to talk about a subject which is not my favorit at all.
>>>>>
>>>>>Yes, it is a subject that I would not usually bring up into 
>>>>>discussion but, I just felt the grave necessaty to do so.
>>>>>
>>>>>There are many familys living in precarious  conditions right now.
>>>>>
>>>>>We are constantly defined by who we are, but recently, we are 
>>>>>redefined by who we are not.
>>>>>
>>>>>It is a major challenge at presently to maintain your 
>>>>>relationship ties, and believe it or not, it is worsening on a 
>>>>>regular basis, and particularly here in Egypt.
>>>>>
>>>>>It truly exasperates me when I hear about freshly espoused 
>>>>>couples split up for preposterous reasons.
>>>>>
>>>>>I woke up earlier this morning asking myself;
>>>>>
>>>>>Why divorce occurs?
>>>>>Why it occurs on that terrific stage, terrific amount.
>>>>>
>>>>>We ought to take the subject quite seriously.
>>>>>
>>>>>We have to recognize that we are living in a delusional state of 
>>>>>affectional phase.
>>>>>
>>>>>People talk about warmly romantic love stories but, why many of 
>>>>>these love stories end up into enormous grievances.
>>>>>
>>>>>There must be a reason for that.
>>>>>
>>>>>Well, I am still asking the question, why divorce occurs?
>>>>>
>>>>>There are miscellaneous causes for spousal disassociations.
>>>>>
>>>>>Well amongst them are as namely.
>>>>>
>>>>>Children custody, desertions, betrayals, revilements, mental or 
>>>>>physical violence, indigence, and miscommunications.
>>>>>
>>>>>We have got serious problems here.
>>>>>
>>>>>     The vast majority of dissolution  cases are belonged to the 
>>>>> category of perfidious incidents, alleged allegations of 
>>>>> unfaithful involvements.
>>>>>
>>>>>Why there are too many cheating spouses today?
>>>>>
>>>>>The divorce rate curves so highly into threatening state here in 
>>>>>Egypt, but I am sure that other countries are not much better.
>>>>>
>>>>>It critically saddens me but, what are the reasons for all of 
>>>>>these divorcements to occur.
>>>>>
>>>>>There are many reasons to begin with, and there are sequential 
>>>>>reasons which leads to the grieved destiny.
>>>>>
>>>>>The chief cause of spousal disassociations in my opinion, is the 
>>>>>trust loss.
>>>>>
>>>>>Anything could be solved within a relationship, but not the trust loss.
>>>>>
>>>>>It leads to the buttom of the line, and it incites endless disputes.
>>>>>
>>>>>How mistrust occurs?
>>>>>
>>>>>It often occurs when the spouse is   caught up lying on multiple 
>>>>>occasions.
>>>>>
>>>>>That leads to numerous arguments, which consequentially leads to 
>>>>>permanent divorcement.
>>>>>
>>>>>The second chief cause of spousal disassociations is when the 
>>>>>man tends to periodically disrespect his wife, or when he 
>>>>>deliberately denigrates her opinion in public platform.
>>>>>
>>>>>This is commonly practiced by men, and particularly, here in the 
>>>>>middle east.
>>>>>
>>>>>   I personally have witnessed that being done.
>>>>>
>>>>>I am not sure of the justification which these men have.
>>>>>
>>>>>Well, within Islam, there is no justification of looking down on 
>>>>>the woman, even if she slips up.
>>>>>
>>>>>The man ought to adhere the disposal of chivalry towards his 
>>>>>wife, even in the times of misbehavior, he has no right what so 
>>>>>ever to humiliate her, and particularly in public.
>>>>>
>>>>>      There is a radical misconception of this cultural complex 
>>>>> of what Islam teaches, and what that has incorrectly been 
>>>>> derived because of grave ignorance and disinformation.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>I watch on Egyptian drama which features that disappointing 
>>>>>symbolism, it portrays men as dominants on women, giving the 
>>>>>notion that it is brought by Islamic tradition.
>>>>>
>>>>>Well, that is just silly and nonsense.
>>>>>
>>>>>Islam decisively summons onto the fact that men have to take 
>>>>>care of their wives, and it woes any attempts of aggression.
>>>>>
>>>>>Well, this editorial has a continual segment, so watch out for that.
>>>>>
>>>>>Until I render the second part of this essay, stay blessedly in 
>>>>>the grace of Allah, and peace be with you.
>>>>>
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