[Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?

Tue Jan 28 04:21:15 UTC 2014

Usually it is because of money, or something related.

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From: Faith-talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Poppa
Bear
Sent: Monday, January 27, 2014 10:53 PM
To: Faith-talk, for the discussion of faith and religion
Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?

Amen to all you said. I know that divorce may happen under very extreme
cases of adultry and abuse, but 99 percent of the time it is for much less
serious issues. I will be praying for your blood sugar problems. Are you
able to excersize at all? Make sure you are cutting carbs and getting alot
of water in you.
----- Original Message -----
From: "Doris and Chris" <chipmunks at gmx.net>
To: "Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion" 
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Sent: Monday, January 27, 2014 9:41 AM
Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?

> Oh, no, Papa Bear! I do not offend easily and I agree with you on the 
> importance of marriage. It is the picture God gives us of God and the 
> church and it is the family we are given here so we can learn about 
> god even if and when our earthly moms and daddies fall short of what 
> they ought to be.
>
> And even for the non-christian or non monotheistic people, god still 
> talks to them and reveals himself and there is also just so much 
> common sense in the Bible.
>
> It is the young people, the children, that are hurt the most and they 
> are our future. Of course, there may be some reasons for separation 
> when, for example, a  friend' s alcoholic husband almost killed his 
> little babyboy in the when the baby was crying. My friend eventually 
> did get a divorce but never remarried.
>
> I just think that the family, the husband wife unit and union should 
> transcend anything and always come first.
>
> I really enjoy your contributions. Please pray for my blood sugar problem.
>
> In his grip of grace
>
> Doris in lutherland
>
>
>
>
> At 09:19 AM 2014/01/27 -0900, you wrote:
>>Thank you for not taking it the wrong way, I am pretty protective of 
>>marriage because it is so important to God and marriage is one of the 
>>Devils biggest targets in my opinion, it is the only relationship that 
>>we have been given that represents our union with Christ here on earth 
>>and is very precious.
>>----- Original Message ----- From: "Doris and Chris" 
>><chipmunks at gmx.net>
>>To: "Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion" 
>><faith-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>Sent: Monday, January 27, 2014 8:45 AM
>>Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?
>>
>>
>>>we have been and are. i was not making excused for myself or anyone. 
>>>I cannot imagine "starting over" with Chris or anyone.
>>>
>>>We are currently facing a crisis in me having been diagnosed with 
>>>possible diabetes. This is usually driving us closer and not further 
>>>apart.
>>>
>>>In his grip of grace and friendship!
>>>
>>>Doris in Lutherland
>>>
>>>At 07:52 AM 2014/01/27 -0900, you wrote:
>>>>What? Don't forget, God says he hates divorce. Just Google that 
>>>>simple question, "Does God hate divorce" Then consider how your 
>>>>statement may fitt into God's view. I am sorry if I am sounding 
>>>>harsh or condisending, but I have heard so many people justify 
>>>>divorce and have counceled quite a few young couples and have heard 
>>>>so many twists and takes on why one or both think they should start 
>>>>over. Well, I hope you and yours are together untill death do you part.
>>>>In His grip
>>>>----- Original Message ----- From: "Doris and Chris" 
>>>><chipmunks at gmx.net>
>>>>To: "Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion" 
>>>><faith-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>>>Sent: Monday, January 27, 2014 6:39 AM
>>>>Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>>If Chris and I ever separated, it would be so the other had their 
>>>>>freedom and lack of problems.
>>>>>
>>>>>IN Christ,
>>>>>
>>>>>Doris
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>At 03:11 PM 2014/01/27 +0200, you wrote:
>>>>>>Dear all, peace be with you.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Today I am going to talk about a subject which is not my favorit 
>>>>>>at all.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Yes, it is a subject that I would not usually bring up into 
>>>>>>discussion but, I just felt the grave necessaty to do so.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>There are many familys living in precarious  conditions right now.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>We are constantly defined by who we are, but recently, we are 
>>>>>>redefined by who we are not.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>It is a major challenge at presently to maintain your relationship 
>>>>>>ties, and believe it or not, it is worsening on a regular basis, 
>>>>>>and particularly here in Egypt.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>It truly exasperates me when I hear about freshly espoused couples 
>>>>>>split up for preposterous reasons.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>I woke up earlier this morning asking myself;
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Why divorce occurs?
>>>>>>Why it occurs on that terrific stage, terrific amount.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>We ought to take the subject quite seriously.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>We have to recognize that we are living in a delusional state of 
>>>>>>affectional phase.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>People talk about warmly romantic love stories but, why many of 
>>>>>>these love stories end up into enormous grievances.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>There must be a reason for that.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Well, I am still asking the question, why divorce occurs?
>>>>>>
>>>>>>There are miscellaneous causes for spousal disassociations.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Well amongst them are as namely.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Children custody, desertions, betrayals, revilements, mental or 
>>>>>>physical violence, indigence, and miscommunications.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>We have got serious problems here.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>     The vast majority of dissolution  cases are belonged to the 
>>>>>> category of perfidious incidents, alleged allegations of 
>>>>>> unfaithful involvements.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Why there are too many cheating spouses today?
>>>>>>
>>>>>>The divorce rate curves so highly into threatening state here in 
>>>>>>Egypt, but I am sure that other countries are not much better.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>It critically saddens me but, what are the reasons for all of 
>>>>>>these divorcements to occur.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>There are many reasons to begin with, and there are sequential 
>>>>>>reasons which leads to the grieved destiny.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>The chief cause of spousal disassociations in my opinion, is the 
>>>>>>trust loss.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Anything could be solved within a relationship, but not the trust 
>>>>>>loss.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>It leads to the buttom of the line, and it incites endless disputes.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>How mistrust occurs?
>>>>>>
>>>>>>It often occurs when the spouse is   caught up lying on multiple 
>>>>>>occasions.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>That leads to numerous arguments, which consequentially leads to 
>>>>>>permanent divorcement.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>The second chief cause of spousal disassociations is when the man 
>>>>>>tends to periodically disrespect his wife, or when he deliberately 
>>>>>>denigrates her opinion in public platform.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>This is commonly practiced by men, and particularly, here in the 
>>>>>>middle east.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>   I personally have witnessed that being done.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>I am not sure of the justification which these men have.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Well, within Islam, there is no justification of looking down on 
>>>>>>the woman, even if she slips up.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>The man ought to adhere the disposal of chivalry towards his wife, 
>>>>>>even in the times of misbehavior, he has no right what so ever to 
>>>>>>humiliate her, and particularly in public.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>      There is a radical misconception of this cultural complex of 
>>>>>> what Islam teaches, and what that has incorrectly been derived 
>>>>>> because of grave ignorance and disinformation.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>I watch on Egyptian drama which features that disappointing 
>>>>>>symbolism, it portrays men as dominants on women, giving the 
>>>>>>notion that it is brought by Islamic tradition.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Well, that is just silly and nonsense.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Islam decisively summons onto the fact that men have to take care 
>>>>>>of their wives, and it woes any attempts of aggression.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Well, this editorial has a continual segment, so watch out for that.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Until I render the second part of this essay, stay blessedly in 
>>>>>>the grace of Allah, and peace be with you.
>>>>>>
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