[Faith-talk] the blind jesus

Fri May 23 17:35:11 UTC 2014

I have found that when we show that we are willing to fight for ourselves other people will start being willing to help us, too. The right people will be put in our lives who will  able to help us the most. You have a great resource in this group and any of the other NFB groups. There are plenty of people willing to help you if you just ask.

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> On May 23, 2014, at 13:04, Andrew via Faith-talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> 
> i do not throw pitty parties i am trying to get help and i need
> somebody else to help me fight. i have been surrounded by  non helpful
> people and things.  and i have not experienced  anybody who wants to
> help at least very much i need somebody elst to help me fight  i can't
> fight alone.
> 
>> On 5/23/14, justin williams via Faith-talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>> Good Suggestion Debbie. Find that inner spark within you and nuture it.
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Faith-talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of debby
>> phillips via Faith-talk
>> Sent: Friday, May 23, 2014 12:50 PM
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>> Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] the blind jesus
>> 
>> Okay Andrew, ow get it, there are days when I get sick of being blind, too.
>> But I think we all get sick of something in our lives.  I have sighted
>> friends who have huge problems, too.  They have trouble getting jobs, they
>> have trouble with their marriages, friends betray them, stuff happens.  I
>> have been left out of family stuff too sometimes.  I have not been believed
>> when I give directions, or other information.  I get it that people turn
>> away from me at church, or don't talk to me.  I understand all that.  I
>> also
>> understand Andrew that you are feeling really angry and depressed.  I
>> understand that you feel like there's nothing ahead of you.  But Andrew,
>> people have made suggestions to you about what you might do.  I even said
>> that I would advocate for you to go to a Center here in the States to get
>> some training.  At some point, blind or not, we have to try and make some
>> things better for ourselves.  You need to do things to change your own
>> situation.  I know it's difficult.  I know it sucks sometimes, in fact.
>> But
>> I think that really life can be very good.  You see, there are things that
>> nobody can take away from you, unless you let them.  Nobody can take your
>> dignity.
>> Unless you give people more power in your life than they are entitled to.
>> In order for things to happen in your life, you have to make some changes,
>> too.  It might mean moving physically from where you are.  Maybe you need
>> to
>> consider moving to a city.
>> Your family may think you can't, and they may try to stop you.
>> But if you want a life, you have to take some action.  Believe it or not,
>> there are places here in the States that don't have good services, where
>> it's hard to go anywhere because there's no public transportation, etc.  I
>> was in that situation, and I took a huge risk and went to the Colorado
>> Center for the Blind, got some training, and we moved to Spokane, where I
>> do
>> have public transportation, sidewalks, where I can walk to places.  But I
>> had to do a lot of advocating for myself, getting my husband to see my
>> point
>> of view.  Then he became more willing to think about moving.  And now, we
>> both love where we live.  Life isn't easy and we do have to step out of our
>> comfort zone.  I understand that you may have some other issues going on
>> besides your blindness.  But I think there are solutions.  Perhaps someone
>> has the phone number, address etc.  of Paul and Mary Ellen Gabias.  I know
>> that they would help you.  I know Mary Ellen personally and
>> I know that she is a kind, resourceful person.     Blessings,
>> Debby
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