[Faith-talk] turning point, serious thing going on. God help us.

Mon Feb 29 16:50:19 UTC 2016

Um, I don't know. We're not married, yes, but consolidating expenses is 
great. But as long as intercourse of a sort doesn't occurr, we're fine. 
The mother was jealous as I said in a previous email. And she hates it 
that he even found me. I wouldn't do anything like this to him.

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On 2/29/2016 6:15 AM, andrew edgcumbe via Faith-talk wrote:
>   I myself ended going through a situation myself actually. what happened
> was thisi was in a relationship with this girl for some few months or so
> but anyway  she wanted me to move in with her and stuff like that but I
> ended up having to get her out of my life for different reasons  I have
> always been taught that  it is not right for a christian to live  two
> christians to live together before marriage no ands if's and buts.  I was
> told by my family that it is  called idulitry or fornication  not sure what
> the difference really is though.  this girl wanted to take me to bed in
> fact  she did tell bunch of lies as dad called her parents to get their
> side of the story.  the thing is this  i am not going to tell you what to
> do but this is what i been told anyway. if you look at old testament
> maybe new testament I  think God takes the idulitry and stuff very
> seriously.   now should two christians sleep together I don't know is it
> right or not the right thing to do  it is just something you have to pray
> about. I myself was always told that it was wrong to live together before
> marriage that living together wasn't god's way.
>
> On Mon, Feb 29, 2016 at 8:00 AM, andrew edgcumbe <
> rollercoasterman86 at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> i am not sure if this is true always but a friend of mind said when you
>> come into an relationship with somebody that the two families mother and
>> father or at least one another i know you are not even talking marriage
>> right now but  my friend told me that  the family  is very important and
>> stuff like that.
>>
>> On Mon, Feb 29, 2016 at 7:55 AM, Abdullah Ibrahim Olivares via Faith-talk
>> <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>
>>> Beth,
>>>
>>> Don’t be hasty about it. I wish I knew more details so we knew why he was
>>> kicked out and if anything was done about it. Does she think you’re taking
>>> the relationship too fast? Why is she objecting?
>>>
>>> Anyway, be careful. Don’t alienate his mother. There’s obviously a reason
>>> she’s doing this. I agree with Poppa Bear (imagine that) when he says to
>>> make sure God is in this, and not just your own desires. I’m not convinced
>>> of that by what you said, but I’m on the outside looking in with very few
>>> details, so I can just go based on what I’m given.
>>>
>>> My wife and I more or less alienated her mother for a while, because she
>>> didn’t seem to approve of our relationship. Now that I look back, we made
>>> many stupid turns back then. Now everything is okay and her relationship
>>> with her mother is better.
>>>
>>> But the parental tie is very important, so don’t let him just toss that
>>> away or make it mean nothing to him.
>>>
>>> Abdullah
>>> (Previously Brandon)
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>> On Feb 29, 2016, at 6:02 AM, Beth Taurasi via Faith-talk <
>>> faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>>> Oh of course, I can feel the anxiety but God is there. Even my
>>> boyfriend said we'd have a long trail. But it's funny, he is the one who
>>> chose me, and he stood up for me. This guy is a lot like me, and for some
>>> strange reason, I know what we need. God has impressed upon me the desire
>>> to at least be as normal as possible, but who cares about normal. I don't
>>> think there's anything normal in this world. I've jumped through many
>>> trials, but this time, trials upon trials! But you know, Psalm 23 says,
>>> "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear
>>> no evil for you are at my side." For real, I've walked through something
>>> worse than the shadow of death, and in a deep ravine but trust me, I even
>>> prayed about this before I tried to sleep. It was no use, but at least I
>>> was able to write up a document with an unofficial plan for what we're
>>> gonna do. If this situation calls for planning, I'm all over it. :)
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>>>> On 2/28/2016 11:06 PM, Poppa Bear via Faith-talk wrote:
>>>>> Beth, it sounds like your life is very chaotic right now. Are you still
>>>>> attending Church or getting into God's word on a daily basis? Are the
>>> things
>>>>> that you are attempting to chase after in his will for you according
>>> to his
>>>>> word right now, are you listening to wisdom and guidance from those
>>> who care
>>>>> about you? If not, I will be very blunt and honest, things will
>>> probably
>>>>> only get much worse in your life. I hope that you can really hear God's
>>>>> voice in all of this because if you can't then you have to find out
>>> when the
>>>>> last time you heard him/felt his hand guiding your life through his
>>> paths of
>>>>> righteousness and peace. He wants your cup to overflow with joy, peace
>>>>> patients and all of the other fruits of the Spirit and if those fruits
>>>>> aren't growing in your life then please stop and seek him and
>>> surrender all
>>>>> of these problems to him.
>>>>> God bless you and I will be praying for you to be seeking Jesus
>>> through all
>>>>> of this.
>>>>>
>>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>>> From: Faith-talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of
>>> Beth
>>>>> Taurasi via Faith-talk
>>>>> Sent: Sunday, February 28, 2016 8:35 PM
>>>>> To: Faith-talk, for the discussion of faith and religion
>>>>> Cc: Beth Taurasi
>>>>> Subject: [Faith-talk] turning point, serious thing going on. God help
>>> us.
>>>>> Dear List,
>>>>> My boyfriend just got kicked out of his home, all that because of me.
>>> I feel
>>>>> guilty and it's my fault, but Mom did not want him to make any
>>> decisions for
>>>>> himself. She basically said get the Hell out of my house.
>>>>> Now, I'm overwhelmed with tasks and that will start tomorrow. We know
>>> that
>>>>> we must go down to Social Security and get him a check of his own in
>>> his own
>>>>> name. Next, a bank account in his own name must be set up.
>>>>> But there's more: we both need a place to stay in Denver County so we
>>> can
>>>>> both keep Medicaid, especially me, since I am supposed to do some
>>>>> therapeutic treatments for mental health stuff. This guy has stood up
>>> for me
>>>>> like nobody else has. I just can't understand why any mother would ever
>>>>> throw such a sweetheart out of her way. And he has to leave his
>>> favorite
>>>>> cat. I'm so sad about the cat.
>>>>> I'm honestly praying hard, but I really need help too. I'm fixing to
>>> share a
>>>>> GoFundMe page. But I am like, what good will it do? I told him to
>>> bring his
>>>>> African drum since he's so good at playing it. He basically might earn
>>>>> money. We love doing music together, and that's probably gonna be our
>>> bread
>>>>> and butter. But right now, I'm overwhelmed and anxious. Please pray God
>>>>> gives us mercy and a good home together. We wanted to wait, but due to
>>>>> family and stuff, now he can't stay with his mother. I want to make
>>> peace
>>>>> with her, but how! I'm like so overwhelmed that God forbid I'd be
>>> willing to
>>>>> take the blame if my boyfriend died or something. We can't live on the
>>>>> street. I can't go back to my parents. I can't. God, protect us.
>>>>>
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