[Faith-talk] turning point, serious thing going on. God help us.

[Debby Phillips]

Beth, beth! You need to calm down and think about what you're 
writing.  Do what you have to do? You need to think about what 
you just said.  You need to do what God wants you to do.  If you 
are going to be with your boyfriend, are you thinking of this as 
a permanent thing? Do you believe that God wants this 
relationship? Is your boyfriend a Christian? Does he believe that 
this relationship is what God wants? If so, then are you thinking 
about marriage? Is your boyfriend ready and willing to not see 
his family for a long time? Family is very important.  And Beth, 
are you seeking godly counsel? Are you planning on just living 
together? Is that really what you think God wants? I'm not asking 
all these questions to be mean.  I've made plenty of mistakes in 
my life.  I don't want you to make the same ones I did.  They 
damaged me, and most important, they damaged my relationship with 
God.  Yes, I'm forgiven and yes, I still love God and want to 
follow Him, know Him, serve Him, but those months when I was out 
of sync with Him hurt me.  Please forgive me, I am not judging 
you, just asking questions.    Blessings,    Debby