[Faith-talk] updates on my current living situation

Wed Mar 2 17:44:50 UTC 2016

thanks papa bear the thing is this some might consider the bible old
fationed and stuff but  God never changes so there fore i feel he never
changes his word to us.  I was through a situation with a girl not long ago
and stuff actually. The thing was this She wanted me to live with her in
the worst way yet I let her talk about it for a while and let things  go
for a while but basically I just p ut an end to the relationship december.
She wanted to sleep with me in a hotel my parents said  i was with the
young adult group that night but during friday she got nasty with my
parents in fact. The thing is this she  had said allot of lies my dad
called her parents.  The thing is this I found out what she was really like
under the surface the truth of the matter  is this if you were to meet her
she would seem nice but  the thing is this she was very  very clingy and
stuff like that.  she did not even talk to her parents about me.  I not
sure is if your family is truly that bad or not but maybe your mom or dad
have a reason behind what they say to you and stuff like that.  you need to
seek advice from bible beliving christians. what you need to do is you can
only serve tw you can't serve two masters you either serve god or the
devil.  Marriage i know it may not always seem that way but marriage
should bring families together and things  when you mary a boy friend or
girl friend you mary the family. Family is very important.  The family is
is the Godly way.  our families may not be perfect  but  we need to respect
our parents and respect our alders that means respect those who are older
than we are.  we need to the bible says to honor your parents.

On Wed, Mar 2, 2016 at 12:12 PM, Poppa Bear via Faith-talk <
faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:

> Wow Andrew, you said some very wise things, I am blessed that you can also
> see the wisdom in Linda's words, Linda may have came off as over stern to
> some, but I believe that she is just getting to the important bottom line
> stuff and if a person took her advice then they would more than likely land
> on their spiritual feet and not on their head and be walking in God's will.
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Faith-talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of
> andrew
> edgcumbe via Faith-talk
> Sent: Wednesday, March 02, 2016 7:59 AM
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> Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] updates on my current living situation
>
> i could not have said it better than linda  you need to  not block your
> family out of the picture family is very very important.  all we can see
> here is your side of the story  there are always two sides to the story.
> you need to not get ahead of god and his will. you need to do things god's
> way.  God's way is not to live together and if you two sleep together you
> will undefile the bed of God.  you need to seek spiritual council from a
> pastor or your church you need to first off if you are not in a bible
> believing church you need to find one we may not like what god says but the
> bible and God tells the truth as it is and the truth is the reality.  you
> need to look at things through god first God needs to be put first before
> your boy friend.
>
> On Wed, Mar 2, 2016 at 11:50 AM, Linda Mentink via Faith-talk <
> faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>
> > Hi Beth,
> >
> > Please be careful what you write here, and watch your language.
> > Remember, all messages are archived. I know it's rough for you and
> > your boyfriend right now, but you're very wrong, if in fact you
> > believe yourself to be a Christian, to live together before marriage.
> > The Bible tells us to avoid the appearance of evil, and that the marriage
> bed is not to be defiled.
> > You're struggles are partly because you are not being obedient to your
> > Lord, no matter how you rationalize it.. In my opinion, you're going
> > about this all wrong. Your boyfriend should stay with a church family
> > temporarily, if possible, and get his finances squared away. Neither
> > of you will be tempted to enter into the "nowing each other" part of
> > the relationship before marriage.
> >
> > As to FaceBook, also be careful what you post there as well. Share
> > privately with a few close friends, and don't block your family..
> >
> > You are allowing people and circumstances to rule over you, rather
> > than allowing God to work in and through you. We on this list are
> > praying for you, but God's will won't be done if your will isn't
> > lining up with His. Be careful how you spend what little money you
> > have so that you can save for a marriage license. Maybe your pastor
> > will preside over a private ceremony in the Church when you can afford
> it.
> >
> > Many of the problems we all have in our lives are partly of our own
> > making, and we blame God or others for how things are turning out for us.
> > Please ask God for discernment and His wisdom, and stop plowing ahead
> > with your own agenda.
> >
> > I continue to pray for you.
> >
> > Blessings,
> >
> > Linda
> >
> >
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