[Faith-talk] updates on my current living situation

[Debby Phillips]

Beth, if you want us to say that we think it's fine that you are 
living together and that's the kind of support you want, I'm 
sorry that I can't give it.  My husband and I lived together 
before we were married, and honestly I regret it.  I regret it 
because I know that it wasn't God's best plan for me.  I 
understand about not wanting to be separated.  But I think if you 
really feel that way, you should get married.  You could do a 
civil ceremony at City Hall, and do a church wedding later if you 
want to.  I also know that you don't like your HUD housing, but 
if you leave it, you will end up being on the street.  And those 
waiting lists are long everywhere, I know.  I can and will pray 
for you, but support your decision, I'm sorry that I can't.    
Praying,    Debby