[Faith-talk] Relationship Issues

Mon May 15 03:30:19 UTC 2017

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On 5/14/17, Jenny Keller via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> Thank you so much for that interesting and wonderful email Linda.
>
> I wish myself and I'm sure other people who are or are not on this list,
> which feel the same way. Make the same choices as you did.
>
> Now, having been more faithful and obedient did my Lord. I am able to stand
> tall and stand firm and that was obedient choices.
>
> My purpose in life is to get to know Christ and only Christ.
>
> That's the only person I'm concerned about at this time in my life. Actually
> ever.
>
> A man would have to come into my life that would understand that precept.
> God first. Always will be.
>
> I would never come into a marriage and message you Asian where I am unable
> to keep the house. It's not fair to him. So being single seems to be my only
> option. It's not that I can't buy training keep the house because I know
> how. But my physical situation will not let me do it.
>
> That's OK though, like I said, my time with the Lord. And my fellowship with
> those who are either single or married with the Lord also needs more to be
> then any marriage. I great we love that people are married and happy. And I
> give you a lot of respect and admiration for that.
>
> But, to be honest, I wish I were 61 and still a virgin. There is so much
> more to life than sex.
>
> I wish young adults would understand that now. Luckily some of them still
> do.
>
>
> Jenny
>
>> On May 14, 2017, at 9:45 PM, Linda Mentink via Faith-Talk
>> <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>
>> Hi All,
>>
>> I have read with interest all the posts.  Quite a few things crossed my
>> mind as I read.
>>
>> Firstly, Bill, as has been said, you're too eager, and will turn women off
>> with this eagerness or pushiness.  A man tried that with me once.  I
>> wasn't interested in marriage, but I gave him a chance.  He was a sighted
>> man who played Bass Viol in the orchestra which accompanied a community
>> choral group with which I sang for many years.  He was very oppressive,
>> and was so full of himself, that I told him that there was no room for me,
>> or anyone else in his life.  He asked me how to attract a woman.  I told
>> him a few things!
>>
>> Secoddly, to Erica's point about "shacking up," this one really bothers
>> me.  I don't know who made the rule in the Social Security Administration
>> that people living on SSI lose income when they marry, encouraging even
>> Christians to disobey God's Word the Bible.  God never said to forget
>> marriage if you wouldn't have as much mone coming in.  I believe that this
>> is a serious sin, and that God will not bless those relationships, and the
>> people in them, as much as He will those who live their lives in obedience
>> to Him.  Those who do this are defiling the marriage bed, and committing
>> adultery.  Shame on the American leadership for putting this rule forward
>> and enforcing it!
>>
>> Thirdly, anyone desiring to be married should study the passages on this
>> in the Bible, especially if they are Christians.  We are not to be
>> unequally yoked with unbelievers, so fellowship with those of like
>> precious faith.  The blind Christian needs to handle himself or herself
>> appropriately, and must be confident, not helpless and dependent on
>> others.  Marriage is a partnership, and a sighted person is not going to
>> even want to enter into a marriage relationship with a blind person who
>> can't take care of themselves.  As to how far you should go, keep your
>> clothes on.  And, if you're a man, and you can't support a woman, get a
>> job.  God commands mothers to be keepers at home, which society has
>> disobeyed.  The man is to be the head of the home, as Christ is the head
>> of the Church, and its up to him to provide for his family.  The woman
>> should stay at home and raise the children.  That's the Biblical plan.
>> Some have worked it out so that the woman goes to work and the man stays
>> home, in the case of some blind friends I know.  And in some cases, both
>> work.  It's tough to figure this all out, but it should be done
>> prayerfully.
>>
>> I am 61, and have remained single and a virgin.  I have had relationships
>> over the years, but they didn't work out.  I am very content as a single
>> woman.  Paul encourages us to be as he is, thereby being able to serve the
>> Lord more fully.  Because I don't have to divide my time between taking
>> care of a husband and family and serving my Lord, I can be single-minded
>> inservice to Him.  I know many who serve the Lord together as couples, and
>> most couples I know and fellowship with are happy, well-adjusted people
>> raising their children in the church.
>>
>> If we are willing to obey God's precepts, we will save ourselves from a
>> lot of heartache.  Commit your way to the Lord, and He will give you the
>> desires of your heart.
>>
>> I hope this makes sense!
>>
>> Blessings,
>>
>> Linda
>>
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