[Faith-talk] Relationship Issues

Mon May 15 03:48:12 UTC 2017

But, on the real, I've enjoyed the stories some of you folks have told.
 Justin

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Chikodinaka Nickarandidum Oguledo via Faith-Talk
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Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] Relationship Issues

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On 5/14/17, Jenny Keller via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> Thank you so much for that interesting and wonderful email Linda.
>
> I wish myself and I'm sure other people who are or are not on this 
> list, which feel the same way. Make the same choices as you did.
>
> Now, having been more faithful and obedient did my Lord. I am able to 
> stand tall and stand firm and that was obedient choices.
>
> My purpose in life is to get to know Christ and only Christ.
>
> That's the only person I'm concerned about at this time in my life. 
> Actually ever.
>
> A man would have to come into my life that would understand that precept.
> God first. Always will be.
>
> I would never come into a marriage and message you Asian where I am 
> unable to keep the house. It's not fair to him. So being single seems 
> to be my only option. It's not that I can't buy training keep the 
> house because I know how. But my physical situation will not let me do it.
>
> That's OK though, like I said, my time with the Lord. And my 
> fellowship with those who are either single or married with the Lord 
> also needs more to be then any marriage. I great we love that people 
> are married and happy. And I give you a lot of respect and admiration for
that.
>
> But, to be honest, I wish I were 61 and still a virgin. There is so 
> much more to life than sex.
>
> I wish young adults would understand that now. Luckily some of them 
> still do.
>
>
> Jenny
>
>> On May 14, 2017, at 9:45 PM, Linda Mentink via Faith-Talk 
>> <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>
>> Hi All,
>>
>> I have read with interest all the posts.  Quite a few things crossed 
>> my mind as I read.
>>
>> Firstly, Bill, as has been said, you're too eager, and will turn 
>> women off with this eagerness or pushiness.  A man tried that with me 
>> once.  I wasn't interested in marriage, but I gave him a chance.  He 
>> was a sighted man who played Bass Viol in the orchestra which 
>> accompanied a community choral group with which I sang for many 
>> years.  He was very oppressive, and was so full of himself, that I 
>> told him that there was no room for me, or anyone else in his life.  
>> He asked me how to attract a woman.  I told him a few things!
>>
>> Secoddly, to Erica's point about "shacking up," this one really 
>> bothers me.  I don't know who made the rule in the Social Security 
>> Administration that people living on SSI lose income when they marry, 
>> encouraging even Christians to disobey God's Word the Bible.  God 
>> never said to forget marriage if you wouldn't have as much mone 
>> coming in.  I believe that this is a serious sin, and that God will 
>> not bless those relationships, and the people in them, as much as He 
>> will those who live their lives in obedience to Him.  Those who do 
>> this are defiling the marriage bed, and committing adultery.  Shame 
>> on the American leadership for putting this rule forward and enforcing
it!
>>
>> Thirdly, anyone desiring to be married should study the passages on 
>> this in the Bible, especially if they are Christians.  We are not to 
>> be unequally yoked with unbelievers, so fellowship with those of like 
>> precious faith.  The blind Christian needs to handle himself or 
>> herself appropriately, and must be confident, not helpless and 
>> dependent on others.  Marriage is a partnership, and a sighted person 
>> is not going to even want to enter into a marriage relationship with 
>> a blind person who can't take care of themselves.  As to how far you 
>> should go, keep your clothes on.  And, if you're a man, and you can't 
>> support a woman, get a job.  God commands mothers to be keepers at 
>> home, which society has disobeyed.  The man is to be the head of the 
>> home, as Christ is the head of the Church, and its up to him to 
>> provide for his family.  The woman should stay at home and raise the
children.  That's the Biblical plan.
>> Some have worked it out so that the woman goes to work and the man 
>> stays home, in the case of some blind friends I know.  And in some 
>> cases, both work.  It's tough to figure this all out, but it should 
>> be done prayerfully.
>>
>> I am 61, and have remained single and a virgin.  I have had 
>> relationships over the years, but they didn't work out.  I am very 
>> content as a single woman.  Paul encourages us to be as he is, 
>> thereby being able to serve the Lord more fully.  Because I don't 
>> have to divide my time between taking care of a husband and family 
>> and serving my Lord, I can be single-minded inservice to Him.  I know 
>> many who serve the Lord together as couples, and most couples I know 
>> and fellowship with are happy, well-adjusted people raising their
children in the church.
>>
>> If we are willing to obey God's precepts, we will save ourselves from 
>> a lot of heartache.  Commit your way to the Lord, and He will give 
>> you the desires of your heart.
>>
>> I hope this makes sense!
>>
>> Blessings,
>>
>> Linda
>>
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