[Faith-talk] Relationship Issues

Mon May 15 22:24:37 UTC 2017

thanks see u at convention

On 5/15/17, Ericka via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> There is a blind parents division of the NFB Chika. Go to www.nbf.org to
> find out more. Melissa Riccabono is heading things up. I am not a parent but
> there are lots of people like you! I think being a good dad is hard for
> anyone. God never blest me with kids and i am sure there's a good reason for
> it. Just like others have said being single was God's decision for them.
>
> Ericka Short
> 1750 Fordem Ave. #508
> Madison. WI. 53704
> 608-665-3170
>
>  from my iPhone 6+
>
>> On May 14, 2017, at 10:30 PM, mr. Chikodinaka Nickarandidum Oguledo via
>> Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>
>> I will keep u updated on my relationship wife happiness lady adonnih
>> Oguledo
>> friens tell me it is stress ful what is it like being a dad stressfull?
>> hoo do I ask
>>
>>> On 5/14/17, Jenny Keller via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>> Thank you so much for that interesting and wonderful email Linda.
>>>
>>> I wish myself and I'm sure other people who are or are not on this list,
>>> which feel the same way. Make the same choices as you did.
>>>
>>> Now, having been more faithful and obedient did my Lord. I am able to
>>> stand
>>> tall and stand firm and that was obedient choices.
>>>
>>> My purpose in life is to get to know Christ and only Christ.
>>>
>>> That's the only person I'm concerned about at this time in my life.
>>> Actually
>>> ever.
>>>
>>> A man would have to come into my life that would understand that
>>> precept.
>>> God first. Always will be.
>>>
>>> I would never come into a marriage and message you Asian where I am
>>> unable
>>> to keep the house. It's not fair to him. So being single seems to be my
>>> only
>>> option. It's not that I can't buy training keep the house because I know
>>> how. But my physical situation will not let me do it.
>>>
>>> That's OK though, like I said, my time with the Lord. And my fellowship
>>> with
>>> those who are either single or married with the Lord also needs more to
>>> be
>>> then any marriage. I great we love that people are married and happy. And
>>> I
>>> give you a lot of respect and admiration for that.
>>>
>>> But, to be honest, I wish I were 61 and still a virgin. There is so much
>>> more to life than sex.
>>>
>>> I wish young adults would understand that now. Luckily some of them
>>> still
>>> do.
>>>
>>>
>>> Jenny
>>>
>>>> On May 14, 2017, at 9:45 PM, Linda Mentink via Faith-Talk
>>>> <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>>>
>>>> Hi All,
>>>>
>>>> I have read with interest all the posts.  Quite a few things crossed my
>>>> mind as I read.
>>>>
>>>> Firstly, Bill, as has been said, you're too eager, and will turn women
>>>> off
>>>> with this eagerness or pushiness.  A man tried that with me once.  I
>>>> wasn't interested in marriage, but I gave him a chance.  He was a
>>>> sighted
>>>> man who played Bass Viol in the orchestra which accompanied a community
>>>> choral group with which I sang for many years.  He was very oppressive,
>>>> and was so full of himself, that I told him that there was no room for
>>>> me,
>>>> or anyone else in his life.  He asked me how to attract a woman.  I
>>>> told
>>>> him a few things!
>>>>
>>>> Secoddly, to Erica's point about "shacking up," this one really bothers
>>>> me.  I don't know who made the rule in the Social Security
>>>> Administration
>>>> that people living on SSI lose income when they marry, encouraging even
>>>> Christians to disobey God's Word the Bible.  God never said to forget
>>>> marriage if you wouldn't have as much mone coming in.  I believe that
>>>> this
>>>> is a serious sin, and that God will not bless those relationships, and
>>>> the
>>>> people in them, as much as He will those who live their lives in
>>>> obedience
>>>> to Him.  Those who do this are defiling the marriage bed, and
>>>> committing
>>>> adultery.  Shame on the American leadership for putting this rule
>>>> forward
>>>> and enforcing it!
>>>>
>>>> Thirdly, anyone desiring to be married should study the passages on
>>>> this
>>>> in the Bible, especially if they are Christians.  We are not to be
>>>> unequally yoked with unbelievers, so fellowship with those of like
>>>> precious faith.  The blind Christian needs to handle himself or herself
>>>> appropriately, and must be confident, not helpless and dependent on
>>>> others.  Marriage is a partnership, and a sighted person is not going
>>>> to
>>>> even want to enter into a marriage relationship with a blind person who
>>>> can't take care of themselves.  As to how far you should go, keep your
>>>> clothes on.  And, if you're a man, and you can't support a woman, get a
>>>> job.  God commands mothers to be keepers at home, which society has
>>>> disobeyed.  The man is to be the head of the home, as Christ is the
>>>> head
>>>> of the Church, and its up to him to provide for his family.  The woman
>>>> should stay at home and raise the children.  That's the Biblical plan.
>>>> Some have worked it out so that the woman goes to work and the man
>>>> stays
>>>> home, in the case of some blind friends I know.  And in some cases,
>>>> both
>>>> work.  It's tough to figure this all out, but it should be done
>>>> prayerfully.
>>>>
>>>> I am 61, and have remained single and a virgin.  I have had
>>>> relationships
>>>> over the years, but they didn't work out.  I am very content as a
>>>> single
>>>> woman.  Paul encourages us to be as he is, thereby being able to serve
>>>> the
>>>> Lord more fully.  Because I don't have to divide my time between taking
>>>> care of a husband and family and serving my Lord, I can be
>>>> single-minded
>>>> inservice to Him.  I know many who serve the Lord together as couples,
>>>> and
>>>> most couples I know and fellowship with are happy, well-adjusted people
>>>> raising their children in the church.
>>>>
>>>> If we are willing to obey God's precepts, we will save ourselves from a
>>>> lot of heartache.  Commit your way to the Lord, and He will give you
>>>> the
>>>> desires of your heart.
>>>>
>>>> I hope this makes sense!
>>>>
>>>> Blessings,
>>>>
>>>> Linda
>>>>
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for if you persavear. you will conker never fear. try try try again