[Faith-talk] Relationship issues

Sun May 21 03:06:44 UTC 2017

I have hesitated on posting this, but I feel this might be the right time to
do so:

I met Sssarah through Lava Life voice which is a telephone way of meeting
someone. Sarah left a message in my mailbox on 11/10/2012. I called her
immediately & we both knew we were right for eachother right away. Even
though she lived in Moreno Valley, & I was living in Orange (both citties
are in Southern California) we finally met a couple of weeks after that. IN
mid January Sarah came down to Orange to get me out of what was becoming a
bad situation & she brought me up here to Victorville where we have been
living most of our lives. We merried 03/17/2016 & I'm happy to say this is
the best thing that could have happened to me. 

With all my health problems, &, with me almost dyeing twice, she was right
there making the right medical decisions for me. 

In answer to anyone's question, Sarah is totally sighted & I'm totally
blind. although there have been some people (mainly doctors & nurses) who
feel that Sarah should be taking me to all of my medical appointments, I say
"Sarah is my wife not chofer." Sarah is constantly pounding the pavement for
any work she can get, & with all of her health problems, that is not easy on
many days. If anyone has more questions, please contact me off list as I
have made this post possibly a little too long. 

****Sorry Linda.*** 

Rob Kaiser
Email;
rcubfank at sbcglobal.net

-----Original Message-----
From: Faith-Talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Ericka
via Faith-Talk
Sent: Saturday, May 20, 2017 5:59 PM
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Cc: Ericka <dotwriter1 at gmail.com>
Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] Relationship issues

Couldn't have answered Melissa's question any better David!

Chad & I knew each other as teens. We both married & then divorced for
reasons the Catholic church would have granted annulments.  Chad & I feel he
picked us out & planned our relationship too. He says God   waited until we
learned enough to treat each other properly. If we had skipped a step &
married each other first it might not be the right thing.  Ideally we would
have waited 20+ years for each other again. God's ways certainly are not our
way!!!

Ericka Shor from my iPhone 6+

> On May 20, 2017, at 6:15 PM, David Moore via Faith-Talk
<faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> 
> Hi all,
> My wife, Traci was married twice before I married her. God totally changed
her life, and her life was in ruins when she was married to those two men.
One was abusive with her. We both know that God had us picked out for each
other all along. I believe that God is fine with marrying someone who is
divorced, because God forgives our past, and remembers it no more.
> David Moore
> Sent from Mail for Windows 10
> 
> From: Melissa R Green via Faith-Talk
> Sent: Saturday, May 20, 2017 7:06 PM
> To: Faith-talk, for the discussion of Blindness in faith and religion
> Cc: Melissa R Green
> Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] Relationship issues
> 
> ally good point sarah.
> I would like to add something to this discussion.  I know many women 
> and men say that they will not date a divorced person because of their 
> Christian belief.  In my opinion, that belief could also single out 
> others.  who haven't been married and slept around, and so on.  What 
> do others think?
> 
> 
> 
> Best,
> Melissa R. Green And Pj
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Sarah Blake LaRose via Faith-Talk
> Sent: Wednesday, May 10, 2017 11:48 AM
> To: 'Faith-talk, for the discussion of Blindness in faith and religion'
> Cc: sarah at sarahblakelarose.com
> Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] Relationship issues
> 
> Bill, I think this is likely worth discussing, though I suspect we 
> have a much too small sampling of people here to have a good 
> discussion and am not sure how best to keep it faith-related. :)
> 
> Speaking as a female (who is married), I will say that your approach 
> comes across quite eager and may scare off the type of women you are 
> looking for. Slow and steady is the name of the game. Kevin and I 
> dated for two years, primarily seeing each other as friends, before 
> really being comfortable speaking of our relationship in serious 
> terms. We had been acquainted for many years prior to the onset of our
relationship at all.
> After things bacame serious, it was another two years before we were 
> married.
> 
> I can also say to you that Christian women want to see men living out 
> their faith actively. If you invite a lady to dinner, coffee, etc, 
> which I highly encourage over using distance dating, she will want to 
> be familiar with your life as you live it every day.
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Faith-Talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of 
> Bill Outman via Faith-Talk
> Sent: Wednesday, May 10, 2017 1:12 PM
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> <faith-talk at nfbnet.org>
> Cc: Bill Outman <woutman at earthlink.net>
> Subject: [Faith-talk] Relationship issues
> 
> Good day, folks.
> 
> 
> 
> I know the list hasn't been very active of late but there is something 
> I need to explore with all of you to see where it goes.
> 
> 
> 
> I am concerned in general about the difficulties we face as blind and 
> visually impaired people when it comes to seeking romance, how to go 
> about it and how to know if a particular relationship is potentially 
> viable, and the ground rules, if any exist, for behavior within such a 
> potential relationship.
> 
> 
> 
> I would appreciate your thoughts, experiences and prayers on this matter.
> 
> 
> 
> It's something that has caused great frustration, as there seems to be 
> sparse attention paid to this issue.
> 
> 
> 
> By the way, if any of you ladies would like by any chance like to 
> explore with me where something could go, please get back to me off 
> list and we'll touch base.
> 
> 
> 
> Bill Outman
> 
> Daytona Beach, Florida
> 
> Email: woutman at earthlink.net
> 
> 
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