[humanser] Handling Silence in Therapy

[Merry]

What a great discussion question!  In session with one particular teen there
is a great deal of silence.  I sit quietly too for a few moments when I
encounter silence with any of my clients.    Usually,  they begin speaking
again, but with this one particular teen she does not.  I then ask her what
she is feeling and then move forward and ask her what her thoughts are if
she does not share her feelings.  These questions may not move us ahead but
after sometime she becomes talkative again.

While in graduate school we discussed this topic and while watching a video
on this topic we saw a therapist working with a teen who was resistant.  She
used a game to engage this teen.  

Thank you all who are responding and sharing.  These thoughts and ideas help
me too.

Thanks,
Merry 

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From: humanser [mailto:humanser-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Alyssa
Munsell via humanser
Sent: Monday, September 29, 2014 7:27 PM
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Subject: [humanser] Handling Silence in Therapy

Hi everyone!

 

I hope this message finds you all well. I have a question for those of you
who practice mental health therapy. I've been doing therapy for my final
year internship, and I am noticing that I'm not comfortable when there is a
long period of silence between my clients and I. This is because I'm not
able to see their body language well, and therefore, am having a hard time
assessing whether or not the silence is productive. As you probably already
know, silence can be powerful and necessary in therapy, so I don't want to
diminish it. However, without being able to see non-verbal cues about what's
going on with the person (e.g. they're just thinking or looking at me to say
something), it is hard for me to know what to do. I was wondering what you
all do in those types of situations.

 

Any feedback would be immensely appreciated.

 

Thanks so much,

 

Alyssa

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