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<div><br class=""><blockquote type="cite" class=""><div class="">Begin forwarded message:</div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline"><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;" class=""><span style="font-family: -webkit-system-font, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, sans-serif; color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 1.0);" class=""><b class="">From: </b></span><span style="font-family: -webkit-system-font, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, sans-serif;" class="">Lori Kesinger <<a href="mailto:lorikesinger@yahoo.com" class="">lorikesinger@yahoo.com</a>><br class=""></span></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;" class=""><span style="font-family: -webkit-system-font, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, sans-serif; color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 1.0);" class=""><b class="">Subject: </b></span><span style="font-family: -webkit-system-font, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, sans-serif;" class=""><b class="">Mary Gordon update - visitation Thursday evening, Celebration of Life 3PM Friday</b><br class=""></span></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;" class=""><span style="font-family: -webkit-system-font, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, sans-serif; color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 1.0);" class=""><b class="">Date: </b></span><span style="font-family: -webkit-system-font, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, sans-serif;" class="">December 2, 2019 at 12:09:43 PM CST</span></div><div class=""><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml><o:OfficeDocumentSettings><o:AllowPNG/><o:PixelsPerInch>96</o:PixelsPerInch></o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><div class=""><div class="yahoo-style-wrap" style="font-family:Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false" class=""><span class=""></span><div class=""><div data-testid="post_message" class="ydpbfdc177cuserContent ydpbfdc177c_3576 ydpbfdc177c_5pbx" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="ydpbfdc177cjs_2kv" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 6px; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33);" dir="ltr" data-setdir="false"><span class=""><span style="color: rgb(28, 30, 33); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" class="">Posted to Mary Gordon's facebook page on Nov. 30th, 1:34 PM by her daughter Lori Tilson:</span></span></div><div data-testid="post_message" class="ydpbfdc177cuserContent ydpbfdc177c_3576 ydpbfdc177c_5pbx" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="ydpbfdc177cjs_2kv" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 6px; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33);" dir="ltr" data-setdir="false"><span class=""><span style="color: rgb(28, 30, 33); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" class="">It is with a heavy heart that I tell you that my mom had a large bleed (hemorrhagic stroke) into her brain last evening about 5:30- she thought that she had turned her head wrong when buckling her seatbelt and started vertigo symptoms</span><span class="ydp86b2bbbatext_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33); font-size: 14px;">... she lost consciousness within an hour- by that time we were at the Fort Collins hospital. Diagnosis came soon after and at 10:30 she died. It is all surreal , but I am grateful she didn't suffer long (she was just annoyed that vertigo had started) and that all her immediate family was at her bedside for her last hours. This picture was taken an hour or so before the bleed occurred. She was excited to be at Megan's...Sam (son-in-law) was making pies and we were waiting for Wayne and Joe to arrive. She had hot tea and was bundled up because they keep their house colder than she'd like<span class="ydp86b2bbba_5mfr" style="margin: 0px 1px; font-family: inherit;"><span class="ydp86b2bbba_6qdm" style="background-size: contain; color: transparent; display: inline-block; text-shadow: none; vertical-align: text-bottom; font-family: inherit; width: 16px; font-size: 16px; background-image: url("https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/t57/1/16/1f609.png"); min-height: 16px;">😉</span></span> This is her last picture and it shows how happy she was to have made the trip to CO. I'm sure going to miss her... so lucky to have had such a great mom<span class="ydp86b2bbba_5mfr" style="margin: 0px 1px; font-family: inherit;"><span class="ydp86b2bbba_6qdm" style="background-size: contain; color: transparent; display: inline-block; text-shadow: none; vertical-align: text-bottom; font-family: inherit; width: 16px; font-size: 16px; background-image: url("https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/t6c/1/16/2764.png"); min-height: 16px;">❤</span></span> I don't know anymore at this point.</span></span><br class=""></div><div data-testid="post_message" class="ydpbfdc177cuserContent ydpbfdc177c_3576 ydpbfdc177c_5pbx" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="ydpbfdc177cjs_2kv" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 6px; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33);" dir="ltr" data-setdir="false"><span class=""><span class="ydp86b2bbbatext_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33); font-size: 14px;"><br class=""></span></span></div><div data-testid="post_message" class="ydpbfdc177cuserContent ydpbfdc177c_3576 ydpbfdc177c_5pbx" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="ydpbfdc177cjs_2kv" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 6px; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33);" dir="ltr" data-setdir="false"><a href="https://rumsey-yost.com/2019/11/mary-alice-gordon/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank" class="enhancr_card_5528814455">Mary Alice Gordon - Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home & Crematory Inc.</a><span class=""><span class="ydp86b2bbbatext_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33); font-size: 14px;"><br class=""></span></span></div><div class=""><br class=""></div><div id="ydp20f30caaenhancr_card_5528814455" class="ydp20f30caayahoo-link-enhancr-card ydp20f30caayahoo-link-enhancr-not-allow-cover ydp20f30caaymail-preserve-class ydp20f30caaymail-preserve-style" style="max-width:400px;font-family:"Helvetica Neue", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" data-url="https://rumsey-yost.com/2019/11/mary-alice-gordon/" data-type="YENHANCER" data-size="MEDIUM" contenteditable="false"><a href="https://rumsey-yost.com/2019/11/mary-alice-gordon/" style="text-decoration: none !important;" class="ydp20f30caayahoo-enhancr-cardlink" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><table border="0" class="ydp20f30caayahoo-ignore-table ydp20f30caacard-wrapper" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="max-width:400px"><tbody class=""><tr class=""><td width="400" class=""><table border="0" class="ydp20f30caacard ydp20f30caayahoo-ignore-table" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%" style="max-width:400px;border-width:1px;border-style:solid;border-color:rgb(224, 228, 233);border-radius:2px"><tbody class=""><tr class=""><td class=""><table border="0" class="ydp20f30caacard-info ydp20f30caayahoo-ignore-table" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="background:#fff;position:relative;z-index:2;width:100%;max-width:400px;border-radius:0 0 2px 2px;border-top:1px solid rgb(224, 228, 233)"><tbody class=""><tr class=""><td style="background-color:#ffffff;padding:16px 0 16px 12px;vertical-align:top;border-radius:0 0 0 2px" class=""></td><td style="vertical-align:middle;padding:12px 24px 16px 12px;width:99%;font-family:"Helvetica Neue", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;border-radius:0 0 2px 0" class=""><h2 class="ydp20f30caacard-title" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px; margin: 0px 0px 6px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(38, 40, 42);">Mary Alice Gordon - Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home & Crematory Inc.</h2><div style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; margin: 0px; color: rgb(151, 155, 167);" class="">Mary Alice Gordon, 85, died on November 29th, 2019. She’d just traveled from Lawrence, KS to Fort Collins, CO wi...</div></td></tr></tbody></table></td></tr></tbody></table></td></tr></tbody></table></a></div><div class=""><br class=""></div><div class=""><br class=""></div><div class="ydpbfdc177c_3x-2" data-ft="{"tn":"H"}" style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(28, 30, 33); font-size: 12px;"><div data-ft="{"tn":"H"}" style="font-family: inherit;" class=""><div class="ydpbfdc177cmtm" style="margin-top: 10px; font-family: inherit;"><div style="font-family: inherit; position: relative;" class=""><div class="ydpbfdc177c_1ktf" data-ft="{"tn":"E"}" style="font-family: inherit;"><a data-ploi="https://scontent-ort2-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/77096276_10157071027827481_3325520257338048512_o.jpg?_nc_cat=100&_nc_ohc=HGOE_Ev0rRAAQmxOwdx_orNpXtzM6aZB-m8b2xULX9vcbdk4wKyUPjfFw&_nc_ht=scontent-ort2-1.xx&oh=b4016defcad5a50ee2fb8df0a5c98d65&oe=5E877FAB" data-plsi="https://scontent-ort2-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/p720x720/77096276_10157071027827481_3325520257338048512_o.jpg?_nc_cat=100&_nc_ohc=HGOE_Ev0rRAAQmxOwdx_orNpXtzM6aZB-m8b2xULX9vcbdk4wKyUPjfFw&_nc_ht=scontent-ort2-1.xx&oh=14d6da6c9319d9a4212aee6184f6fd9e&oe=5E743F01" class="ydpbfdc177c_2t9n ydpbfdc177c_50z9 ydpbfdc177c_4-eo" href="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10157071027822481&set=a.10150312603072481&type=3&eid=ARAGL-jW3VMMpFKivPSGTxIVJyy1VxZ8tkFqiF447ZA8RYvR1pSErfh5JbqpGGz7S5dpZdaMg715kg7A" data-render-location="timeline" data-ft="{"tn":"E"}" style="color: rgb(56, 88, 152); cursor: pointer; display: block; position: relative; font-family: inherit; width: 514px;" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"></a></div></div></div></div></div></div>The Obituary</div><div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false" class=""><div class=""><div class="ydp86f4ff17fix ydp86f4ff17maxwidth"><div id="ydp86f4ff17nav_wrap" class=""><div id="ydp86f4ff17search_toggle" class=""><BR><MailScannerForm17089 form class="ydp86f4ff17search-form" action="https://rumsey-yost.com/" method="get" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> </MailScannerForm17089></div><!-- #site-navigation --> </div></div><!-- #masthead --> <div class="ydp86f4ff17fix ydp86f4ff17site-content" id="ydp86f4ff17content"><div class="ydp86f4ff17content-area" id="ydp86f4ff17primary"><h1 class="ydp86f4ff17entry-title">Mary Alice Gordon</h1><div class="ydp86f4ff17entry-meta"><div class="ydp86f4ff17life">1934-2019</div></div><!-- .entry-meta --> <!-- .entry-header --> <div class="ydp86f4ff17entry-content"><img class="ydp86f4ff17alignleft ydp86f4ff17obituary-photo" src="https://rumsey-yost.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Gordon-Mary-photo.jpg" style="width: 100%; max-width: 462px;"><p class="">Mary Alice Gordon, 85, died on November 29th, 2019. She’d just traveled from Lawrence, KS to Fort Collins, CO with her daughter that day, arriving in time to watch her grandson-in-law bake a pie for a Thanksgiving Feast. Mary experienced a stroke a few hours later, and passed peacefully that night, surrounded by her family. </p><p class="">Mary, known to her grandkids (both biological and not) as “Gamby,” was born to Leslie and Florence Demeritt on November 12, 1934, in Lawrence, KS. She lived in a farmhouse that didn’t have running water or electricity until she was 14 years old. Growing up, she was athletic and was a softball pitcher for the town of Clinton and eventually played basketball while at University of Kansas. In 1955, she married Charles Gordon, principal of then-known Central Junior High, with his two daughters, Kathy and Mary. She had her daughter, Lori, in 1957. She and Charles divorced in 1962, though she maintained close relationships with her step-daughters throughout her life. Aside from four years spent in California, she spent her entire life in Lawrence, KS. </p><p class="">Mary graduated from the University of Kansas with a degree in Physical Education and taught at Central Junior High and Haskell University before obtaining a B.S. and Masters of Science in Education. She earned certification in Special Education for Visual Impairment from the University of Northern Colorado. She became a teacher for blind and visually impaired students of the Lawrence Public School District, working in multiple schools and teaching summer school for the blind from her own home. Being a student of Mary Gordon’s didn’t end with graduation, as she taught most of her students from pre-school through adulthood. Her kids learned how to be successful in every subject they took and every interest they had, while also absorbing extensive life skills along the way. She began coordinating with the Colorado program called BOLD, the Blind Outdoor Leisure Development skiing program for blind students and adults. For 20 consecutive years, she raised funds from various community groups to send a school bus full of these individuals to go skiing in Aspen. </p><p class="">While working as a fulltime teacher, she also became the President of the Association for Education and Rehabilitation for Blind and Visually Impaired, as well as President for the Lawrence Teacher’s Association. She was a member of the Clinton Lake Historical Society, Phi Delta Kappa, Delta Kappa Gamma, the Lawrence Education Association, Mortar Board Alumna, Daughters of American Revolution, K-NEA, and life member of NEA. In 1988, she received the Kansas Special Educator of the Year Award. In 1993, she earned the Kansas Master Teacher Award from Emporia State University, as well as the Outstanding Educators Award from the University of Kansas. In 2003, she was inducted into the Lawrence High School Hall of Honor (alongside Danny Manning, she’d be the first to tell you). </p><p class="">Following her retirement in 1999, Mary continued to dedicate her life to serve others. She became a director of the Lawrence Lions Club, an international organization dedicated to bettering the lives of blind and visually impaired individuals through community outreach. She worked as a volunteer for Lawrence Memorial Hospital and was previously on the board for the Visiting Nurses Association of Lawrence. In an unofficial capacity, she dedicated her efforts in fundraising and providing for the needs of her former students. Being a student of Mary Gordon meant being her student for life. </p><p class="">Mary was an adoptive mother and grandmother to many. She loved her Jayhawks, and proudly showed it with a wardrobe that was almost completely red and royal blue. She couldn’t go to a restaurant without seeing an old friend, and almost just as frequently, making a new one. She was late to everything, but it was usually because she was chatting with an old student on the phone or filling her bird feeder at the last minute. She planted her garden to be a perfect habitat for monarch butterflies. Although Mary spent her whole life in Lawrence, KS, she loved exploring new places and cultures, including China, Egypt, Turkey, Costa Rica, Netherlands, Greece, and even above the Arctic Circle. She loved her family, friends and the Lawrence community with all of her heart. She was always genuinely happy to see you and you felt loved when you were with her. She would’ve been glad to know that she went quickly, without a fuss, and with her loved ones holding her. </p><p class="">Mary was preceded in death by her parents Leslie and Florence Demeritt and her brother Leslie “Laddie” Demeritt. </p><p class="">She is survived by her daughter Lori Tilson and son-in-law Wayne Tilson, step-daughter and son-in-law Mary and Dale Mitchell, step-daughter Kathy Gordon, grandchildren Joe Heacock, Megan Gleeson, Scott Mitchell and Kristen Hase, and sister Martha Parker, as well as great grandchildren, nieces and nephews. </p><p class=""><strong class="">A visitation will be held from 5:00-7:00pm Thursday, December 5th at Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home. On Friday, December 6th, a brief graveside service will be held at 11:30am at Clinton Cemetery, followed by celebration of life service at 3:00pm with reception to follow at First Presbyterian Church. </strong></p><p class="">In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Lions Club of Lawrence Foundation in care of Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home. On the memo line, please write “Mary Gordon Fund.” Donations to this fund will be used for charitable purposes to continue Mary Gordon’s legacy of community support</p></div></div></div></div><br class=""></div></div></div></div></blockquote></div><br class=""></div></body></html>