[nabs-l] Serving Yourself Food

[Serena]

Hi Harry

I always serve my own food at home with immidate family.  I think it's 
important to learn that skill.  At family gatherings and on buffet lines, 
however, others do it for me cause we're all having pretty much the same 
things.  Even at State Convention this weekend, there was a survor serving 
the breakfast buffet to everyone.


----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Harry Hogue" <harryhogue at yahoo.com>
To: <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:39 PM
Subject: [nabs-l] Serving Yourself Food


Hello everyone,
With the holidays coming up, here's an interesting point for discussion.

At family gatherings, or perhaps even at home with immediate family, do you 
serve your own plate or do you have someone else serve the plate for you?

As for me, I have always had someone else always serve my plate at family 
gatherings and at home with my family, for that matter, simply because it is 
quicker and there is less risk of spilling, etc. I am, however, reminded of 
the importance of being comfortable with this task by my Costa Rica 
experience. My host mother told me what was where and even made sure I knew 
where the serving spoon was--but I was not comfortable at 20 years old to 
serve my own plate and had to ask her to serve the plate for me. This, then, 
set up a precedent that as a blind person I needed help with getting food.
'm interested in hearing ohter thoughts. And if we serve ourselves at 
home/at family gatherings, I then have to ask what is so diferent about 
buffets, especially if you're with someone else and they're getting rice, 
chicken, potatoes, etc. and it's likely you would want some of the same 
things.

Just some thoughts to consider.

Harry

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