[nabs-l] Disagreeing with mother and others

[Gerardo Corripio]

Hi guys: I send this not to have pity but in case some of you have lived 
these experiences while living at home.
Here in Mexico (especially for blind and disabled people) one lives at home 
a few more years than normal, not like you guys in the US that one leaves 
home upon going to college. I've completed my major and am working but have 
had some problems here at home, especially with my mother and am wanting to 
(apart from someday living on my own) what tips and tricks have worked for 
you guys?
I'm disagreeing on certain things that I feel should be done differently 
here at home. My mother wen telling her I don't agree with such and such 
says that this is my home! where is the limit between her home and our home? 
Where is the limit when we the kids can give oppinions? Why do mothers 
always say we won't mature and that we're acting like small children? Has 
this happened to you guys? and lastly is the rate of parents separating 
larger when having blind kids?
thanks in advanced for any ideas and surely this topic will enrich more than 
one.
Gerardo