[nabs-l] recruiting young people and keeping them involvedin the NFB

[Jedi]

Darian,

Honor is a two-way street. Sure, it's important to honor elders because 
they hold institutional information vital to the survival of the 
organization. On the other hand, many people don't often think of the 
second part of the honor street which is to honor young people, and not 
just because we have energy. Believe it or not, young people have great 
ideas and, as you pointed out, affiliate leaders (who tend to be older) 
need to support the entrance, growth, and development of those ideas. 
Most of that's done through mentoring, but you'd be surprised how many 
people in the Federation (and in other families and organizations) 
don't know how to mentor effectively. As Joanne once said, good 
mentoring isn't something you're born with. Mentoring skills take... 
well... mentoring. Perhaps it might be useful for our organization to 
do some organizational development where affiliate action spends the 
time to visit each affiliate, check things out, and makes suggestions 
to help the affiliate out on an organizationand interpersonal level 
while offering the needed resources to do it. We can send all kinds of 
people to the National center to get this kind of training, but it's 
hard for one person to implement it in an environment where the 
concepts may be unfamiliar or where people might be unwilling to hear 
them, especially from a younger person.

Respectfully,
Jedi
Original message:
> I think that  there is certainly something to be said for  honoring
> the  contributions of each other  as a general idea. People like being
> appreciated   and valuedfor who they are.
>  That said (and i appreciate Jedi saying it)  wouldn't  the question
> of getting  youth involved in our  movement be kind of a tricky thing?
>  Would seem as if you would need  to have a supportive leadership
> structure on the  state level who will see the need for  the
> regeneration  efforts to  insure that our battles are won not just now
> but in years to come. Basically, I guess I'm asking-  wouldn't you
> need younger students to bring about the need to honor the older
> crowd?

>  thoughts?
>   Darian.

> On 2/3/10, Jessica Kostiw <jessicac.kostiw at gmail.com> wrote:
>> Well well stated JedI!  Right on!!!  common sense isn't so common, and I
>> think all too often the opposite of what you just stated occurs much much
>> more than people want to admit!
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "Jedi" <loneblindjedi at samobile.net>
>> To: <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Tuesday, February 02, 2010 11:32 AM
>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] recruiting young people and keeping them involvedin
>> the NFB


>>> I've had it in mind to comment on what should be said to older members
>>> regarding the recruitment and retention of newer/younger members. Here are

>>> my thoughts as someone who is a member of what could be called an "older"
>>> affiliate with few young people in it.

>>> No matter what happens, no matter what events are held and who they are
>>> designed to target, the real key to recruiting and retaining new/young
>>> people is to honor them. What does that mean? To honor someone is to
>>> listen carefully to them and treat them in a manner that says "We value
>>> what you have to contribute." Each of us has our own perceptions of
>>> reality; we intuit meaning out of those perceptions and give them varying
>>> levels of significance and make decisions based on all those things. So
>>> often, it's easy to assume that young people are automatically
>>> inexperienced, unrefined, or simply don't know what they're talking about.

>>> That's not always true. When we honor people, we hear them out completely,

>>> inquire of them for further elaboration and meaning, and add our own
>>> experiences and opinions to the mix to come up with something
>>> collaborative. In the process, we all learn something: young or new
>>> members learn how to navigate the new culture they're in, and older and
>>> more seasoned members learn how to incorporate fresh ideas into the
>>> existing system. New members know when they are valued or not valued.
>>> Think about those times in any social situation when you get the feeling
>>> like you're not welcome. It may have been nothing that anyone has done or
>>> said directly, but you just know. for that reason, it's important to pay
>>> attention to not only what's said or done, but what's not said or done.
>>> And on that note, it's important to ask ourselves at all times, "Is this
>>> an affiliate or chapter I would want to belong to?" If the answer is yes,
>>> keep doing what you're doing. If the answer is no or even maybe, it's time

>>> to re-evaluate and see what you come up with. As a final thought in this
>>> section, be aware of not only how your members treat new people, but how
>>> they treat each other. New members will evaluate their interest in the
>>> group if there is an atmosphere of mutual respect and honor toward all
>>> members no matter who or what they are. If that mutual respect doesn't
>>> exist, rest assured that you won't see those new members again.

>>> Now what about events? It's not exactly true that all young people want
>>> big parties with no work involved, but a number of people seem to think
>>> that we do. I venture to say that a more appropriate way to think of
>>> things is to say that young people want to be a part of whatever's going
>>> on. Yes, a little social intermixed with work is important for all of us
>>> regardless of age or standing in the organization, and the affiliate or
>>> chapter would do some good to take that into account. If young people feel

>>> passionate about what they're doing in the Federation, they'll show up and

>>> provide their energy to it. yes, there will be young people who won't, but

>>> that's true of all people.

>>> I remember one thing that both Joanne and Dr. shroeder have said in the
>>> past and that is this: first and foremost, be a friend to new people in
>>> the Federation. Get to know them. Find out what they're dreams, passions,
>>> worries, and ideas are. In the process, you'll know what kinds of projects

>>> they might be interested in and put them to work right away. Put young
>>> people's energy to good use as soon as its available, and there's nothing
>>> more exciting to a newly blind person or a blind person brought up feeling

>>> useless that there is something they can do and they're expected to do it.

>>> I hope these comments help. Good luck with your elders at your upcoming
>>> convention.

>>> Respectfully,
>>> Jedi

>>> Original message:
>>>> Listers,
>>>>  Granted, this is to Karri and  Dacia, but  can apply to everybody.
>>>>  another real helpful tool is your  nabs student advisor.  Kerri: I
>>>> believe your advisor is karen Andersen
>>>>  Dacia: I believe your advisor is Megan Whalan (forgive the tuypos if
>>>> any, I'm in a bit of a rush).  Both of  these individuals are  great
>>>> resources in addition to being just great people!
>>>>  Now I'll shut up lol.
>>>>   have a great day   all,
>>>>   Darian

>>>> On 2/2/10, Darian Smith <dsmithnfb at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>> Kerri,
>>>>>   I heard about the event you guys had at convention; it sounded like
>>>>> a good time for sure!
>>>>>   If you have three people who are interested in getting something
>>>>> started; you have  three more  than some  and  sometimes it's not the
>>>>> number of people, but the effort those three put into  the efforts.
>>>>>  We'll be  sending out the
>>>>>  info for the next call - yes  fellow listers another one is coming up
>>>>> soon! so  please do  keep  a look out on the list serve for  it. As
>>>>> always, these calls are open to everybody and you are more than
>>>>> welcome to listen or comment as you feel (so long as  it's done with
>>>>> respect in mind).  Kerri, you are more than welcome to-as anybody is
>>>>> to contact me off-list  should you have any questions or wish to
>>>>> chat.
>>>>>  Best,
>>>>>  Darian



>>>>> On 2/1/10, Kerri Kosten <kerrik2006 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>> Hey Darian:

>>>>>> Those are some good ideas.

>>>>>> I am hoping to go to convention this year.

>>>>>> I am in West Virginia. They are sort of a rural little state.
>>>>>> We really don't have a student division right now. Money was raised at
>>>>>> our last state convention to start one. Right now it has like three
>>>>>> members and no officers or anything like that.
>>>>>> So, we are sort of getting one...

>>>>>> I am hoping soon I can get involved with NABS nationally though since
>>>>>> our state doesn't have one. I hope to attend the next conference call.
>>>>>> I would've attended the last one but I am not attending Washington
>>>>>> Seminar and I mistakenly thought you had to be attending that to
>>>>>> participate lol.

>>>>>> Kerri

>>>>>> On 2/1/10, Darian Smith <dsmithnfb at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>> Karri and Dacia,

>>>>>>>   The question of how to get youth involved is our  organization's
>>>>>>> version of " what's  the meaning of life"  - a question that  we all
>>>>>>> think we have an answer to but  not just one things seems to work.
>>>>>>> (ok, maybe  not the best thing I could have used, but I'm sure you get
>>>>>>> the point)
>>>>>>>  Affiliate action is always a good direction to go in, as well;   the
>>>>>>> National Association of Blind Student's website "www.nabslink.org" is
>>>>>>> also a good  aveanue.
>>>>>>>   I also  would suggest talking with the President of  the Parents
>>>>>>> Divisionon both state and  national levels to see how to get  in
>>>>>>> contact with parents of blind children and  possibly work out a joint
>>>>>>> meeting between the parent's division and the student division  at a
>>>>>>> state convention or something like that.  This way, you can  saw there
>>>>>>> is something for everyone. and both groups can have   their own little
>>>>>>> focus groups.
>>>>>>>  Another way of doing things is to  try to develope relationships with
>>>>>>>  your school for the  blind and or teachers of the visually impaired;
>>>>>>> invite them to convention, if any of them have  a view of blindness
>>>>>>> that is similar in philosiphy to that of the NFB; have them speak at
>>>>>>> your student meeting- if they know they are going to talk, maybe they
>>>>>>> might bring some students too?
>>>>>>>   Karri- this past year's convention was a great one to be at for
>>>>>>> sure.  There always is  such great energy at these conventions, but
>>>>>>> this last one stood out to me in just  the livelyness of it.  There is
>>>>>>> generally alot of activity  going on- so many places to go to  and
>>>>>>> people to see and not enough time to do it.  if you get the
>>>>>>> oppertunity to go to this year's convention (in Dallas Texas) I would
>>>>>>> very much say "Do it!" :)
>>>>>>>  my question for you Karri is, what state are you in?  are you
>>>>>>> involved with  the student division / chapter in your state?
>>>>>>>   Best,
>>>>>>>  Darian Smith
>>>>>>>  Board member  /membership co-chair
>>>>>>>  National association of blind students


>>>>>>> On 2/1/10, Kerri Kosten <kerrik2006 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>> Hi:

>>>>>>>> I am a 22-year-old college student. I really like the NFB and all it
>>>>>>>> stands for including it's philosophy of equality for the bind and
>>>>>>>> making blindness a nuisence with proper training.

>>>>>>>> Have you tried contacting the Aphiliate Action department at the
>>>>>>>> National Center?
>>>>>>>> What about the Jernigan Institute?
>>>>>>>> They may have some good suggestions.

>>>>>>>> As for myself, when I was younger the NFB really tried to get
>>>>>>>> involved
>>>>>>>> in my Mother and I's lives. But, my mother for some reason didn't
>>>>>>>> like
>>>>>>>> them...I guess she thought she could do better with me.
>>>>>>>> I wish so much now that she would've gotten involved...because the
>>>>>>>> NFB
>>>>>>>> seems to have so much for youth...at least youth under 18 or who are
>>>>>>>> still in high school.
>>>>>>>> I also had a lot of misconceptions about the NFB when I got older...I
>>>>>>>> thought they were just a bunch of blind people.
>>>>>>>> I was bored this past July and decided to listen to the convention. I
>>>>>>>> was fascinated and immediately was hooked.

>>>>>>>> I honestly don't know and can't understand why it's hard to keep
>>>>>>>> youth
>>>>>>>> interested in the NFB...I honestly wish I were younger sometimes so I
>>>>>>>> could participate in all the social, and academic programs the NFB
>>>>>>>> has
>>>>>>>> to offer for students under 18.
>>>>>>>> I hope this message does not offend anyone...just my thoughts.
>>>>>>>> But, I would try contacting the Aphiliate Action department and the
>>>>>>>> Jernigan Institute.

>>>>>>>> Kerri

>>>>>>>> On 2/1/10, daisydacia at centurytel.net <daisydacia at centurytel.net>
>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>> Hi everyone,
>>>>>>>>> Two weeks from now, the MO state affiliate will be hosting an
>>>>>>>>> officers
>>>>>>>>> seminar.  I was asked to present on the topic of recruiting young
>>>>>>>>> people
>>>>>>>>> and
>>>>>>>>> also how to keep them involved.  Any suggestions to include in my
>>>>>>>>> presentation as well as any literature anyone can think of would be
>>>>>>>>> helpful.
>>>>>>>>>  If any literature could be sent as an attachment or if I could have

>>>>>>>>> a
>>>>>>>>> website to go to it would be most helpful.  I need the info by the
>>>>>>>>> end
>>>>>>>>> of
>>>>>>>>> this week, please.

>>>>>>>>> thank you in advance.

>>>>>>>>> Dacia Luck


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>>>> recruitment campaign to help attract energetic and passionate
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>>>> help!   To Get Involved  go to:
>>>> www.TeachBlindStudents.org

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